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I had no idea that my friend is a multi millionaire!!

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shockedpuppy · 18/04/2026 17:37

Been friends for 35+ years. Both from "normal" working class backgrounds. I found out today, that her DH's business turned over £100 Million last year. Yes, One Hundred Million, it's not a typo.

They have a nice house in the South East, worth maybe £700k. There are no obvious signs of such wealth. They are not big spenders. We were at a party with them last month, and they were (as usual) quite slow to get the drinks in when it was their turn. We definitely got in more rounds. Gifts at Christmas are especially frugal, I normally receive something that has obviously been recycled as it's so bizarre, or it's obviously a freebie with another purchase.

I had been feeling quite good recently about money, as we pay off our mortgage later this year (house worth about £340k for context), and we will have a reasonable amount in savings. Now I just feel a bit Meh, as we will never attain anything like this. Just one million would do me, lol. I know comparison is the thief of joy, but I feel absolutely positively green with envy.

They will be able to do things for their 3 daughters when the time comes, like buy them homes outright - something we can't do.

We are all in our 50's, if that's of any relevance.

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shockedpuppy · 18/04/2026 17:45

newornotnew · 18/04/2026 17:43

Turnover is not profit.

How did you find this out?

It's all on-line for anyone to see. Someone told me, I very much doubted them so looked on Gov website.

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Chocolateteabag · 18/04/2026 17:44

Exactly - £100 turnover - but how much of that is post tax profit, how much do they actually pay themselves?

high overheads could mean they really don’t have all that much.

Being careful with the money they do have suggests they are careful people - something I’d assume their employees are thankful for?

newornotnew · 18/04/2026 17:43

Turnover is not profit.

How did you find this out?

shockedpuppy · 18/04/2026 17:43

Swiftie1878 · 18/04/2026 17:39

You do realise there’s a difference between turnover and profit, don’t you?

Yes. The net worth is circa £20M

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KeeleyJ · 18/04/2026 17:43

I have (self made) multi millionaire relatives, tightest folk I know apart from when it comes to spending on their very exotic holidays.

Pollqueen · 18/04/2026 17:41

This and most v wealthy people I have met are extremely stingy, thats part of the reason why they are so wealthy

Dunnocantthinkofone · 18/04/2026 17:41

Turnover has nothing at all to do with profit. Or your friend’s wealth

Swiftie1878 · 18/04/2026 17:39

You do realise there’s a difference between turnover and profit, don’t you?

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