Have a group of mum friends since the kids were small. The last year and a half have personally been very difficult for me (worst time of our lives) as my Dd has been ill and only recently a bit better. All I’ve done really during this time is be with her and now working a lot-I had no other choice. We all occasionally post to meet up, but never really do. During this time, they’ve mainly been with their other friends, which is understandable. They’ve occasionally checked in about my Dd, but not as much as close friends I have from my past-work colleagues, old school friends, who don’t even live close by anymore.
One posted we must all meet up for Easter, I really wanted to, everyone said they did, but as usual nothing became of it.
Just after Easter, I texted Happy Easter to
everyone, all saying the same back. Then one friend posted how we were all invited to her child’s bday, it was v last minute on the group invite and clearly because we were posting on it( family event at home, they’ve done each year) that she can’t remember who was sent invites as her Dh sent them this year, but that she thought we were all able to make it.
All the other friends replied they were going and they’d replied to her Dh’s invitation text already.
I was never sent an invite and had no idea about the party whatsoever, It’s very short notice.
I just feel sad and not comfortable to go really
Would you?