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Renting into retirement - WIBU to spend my pension pot before age 67?

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Artricha · 16/04/2026 22:36

I am a housing association tenant and I'm 60 years old. I have a pension pot of £86000. According to best forecasts it would pay out an annuity of £6000 a year which wouldn't even cover my rent. I would then have to pay the remainder of my rent plus council tax from my state pension plus all my living expenses. I have looked into part ownership but that's even worse as the leasehold charges plus rent are around £800 a month.

If I have only £16000 at the point I claim state pension, I will be able to claim housing benefit and council tax benefit too. Day to day living expenses wise I will be no worse off under this scenario. Possibly even better off as there are other benefits that housing benefit is a passport to.

Plus, if I took the money now, I'd quite like to cut down on work over the next few years, give a bit of money to my kids (after all, there won't be anything much to inherit when I die), have a few nice sun holidays in winter, get a decent car, kit my kitchen out with white goods that will last me.

Running down money before retirement is the opposite of what we're told to do, so it feels weird. But I think in my circumstances it's sensible. AIBU?

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DaringKhakiBear · 18/04/2026 02:20

1apenny2apenny · 17/04/2026 15:54

I think this thread is a great example of what many young people have come to realise - the system is quite easy to manipulate and you can lead reasonably comfortable life with little responsibility by not working or working very little. Who can blame them? Not having to get up and go to work, not worrying about having your house fixed (if in social housing, getting an inflationary ‘pay rise’ every year etc etc.

Everyobe should claim what they are entitled to. For many generations of their family have worked and built this country and all we see is money paid out to people who arrive here and won’t tell us who they are, where they’re from etc and being housed etc. If the government want to do something about it, they can except this government are just happy to keep increasing the welfare bill.

What planet are you living on? There is no social housing. You pay the landlord £1500 a month for the property and that's that. Imagine you had that sort of liability hanging over you every month? Only 20% of 35 year olds own property and its stressful having a landlord hike the rent or evict you for no reason

Young people aren't having kids because they are fed up with entitlement from people like yourself. I won't get a state pension but I'd be very careful about biting from the hand that feeds you if you will need to rely on one

You've literally listed every trope going. Is your poison GB News, X, Jeremy Vine, TALK tv or the Daily Mail? The moment my dad starts talking like you, I know he's been left alone with unsupervised access to the TV.

We are heading towards a massive clash between people born before 1985 and people born after it give or take. The Millenials are the cut off point

HeyThereDelila · 17/04/2026 22:19

YABU. If your finances were looked in to it would be clear you’d tried to get rid of your money so the state would carry the can. You don’t need to buy annuities anymore - look up draw down instead.

Go to a Citizens Advice Bureau or ring the Money Advice Service (whatever they’re called now) for real advice - not from people on the internet. Don’t leave yourself impoverished in old age - it’s no joke and the triple lock will go eventually.

DaringKhakiBear · 17/04/2026 22:10

SkipAd · 17/04/2026 05:00

Show me the re-electable government of any colour who will actually remove the state pension in its entirety? This will not happen.
There will probably be a further gradual increase in age entitlement, and the possibility of means testing, but any government who has the sheer audacity to remove the state pension, whether it’s a sensible fiscal decision or not, would be absolutely destroyed by the electorate. Even if it was a sensible financial and fair decision as many posters on here think, it would be absolute electoral suicide

We can carry on with the triple lock until 2052 if we increase the retirement age to 69. The state pension won't be removed but will be restricted to people who don't have a private pension or have minimal, which reflects OP's plans to whittle down her own assets. Basically another rehash of the pension credit/winter fuel fiasco with most people getting nada.

You aren't a Green voter but this is big on their manifesto right now. They are really educating younger voters about everything that will have been taken from them when they retire. Many are going to hit 70 and will struggle to pay rent if not in work. Home ownership was never an option for them. No assets to sell to pay for care. I'm 42 and am aware of what is coming in from Reform and the Greens right now. This is important as either of these sides will have to form a coalition as lead with the minor party (Tories/Labour) in 2029 so we are heading for a far left or far right government. I wouldn't count on anything that is here today being around in 5 years, yet alone 35, in terms of benefits including the state pension

YouHaveAnArse · 17/04/2026 18:49

DaisyDooley · 17/04/2026 11:40

Over 50% of all council tax plus the billions councils get from central government is spent on care for pensioners and pensions for council workers.
Pensions are the biggest proportion of welfare payments.
Billions given to people who can’t afford the 5 kids they have chosen to have.
Billions given to immigrants in housing/healthcare/universal credit.

We cannot afford to carry on like this.
Billions spent on keeping people alive who have little to no quality of life -yet parents have to fight like hell to get a £5k annual ECHP for SEN kinds -an investment that could help them become self sufficient tax payers.
Underspending for decades on defence has left us so very vulnerable.
Overspending on the NHS which gives worse outcomes than countries which spend much less per capita.
A billion bloody pot holes.

Then we have people like the OP who think it’s ok to spend £8k on a 3 month holiday for 3 years so the rest of us can pay her rent for however long she lives, then presumably ££££ every month on a care home.

I despair . I really do.
We are fucked, utterly fucked.

Who are the people being kept alive?

Honestly couldn't give a fuck about potholes, we'd have less of them if people weren't driving to Tesco round the corner in what are essentially agricultural vehicles, too large and heavy for the road. Frankly I'm glad my council tax isn't making that easier for them.

YouHaveAnArse · 17/04/2026 18:47

Zebedee999 · 17/04/2026 11:31

I totally agree with you, I've never claimed a bean myself, nor have my parents and siblings, when homeless I had to make my own luck, didn't even consider benefits.

HOWEVER as benefits exceeds income tax nowadays and people just rock up to this country and after saying they are gay or whatever get free housing, benefits, ultimately pension credits etc then why not milk the system too? Why be the only mug left paying in?

Edited

I don't get this. If you're entitled to benefits, it's not a flex to not claim them - in fact it's incredibly daft to struggle when financial help exists.

I would also recommend reading different news sources.

YouHaveAnArse · 17/04/2026 18:45

Everanewbie · 17/04/2026 11:27

They're not low, Full state pension is £12,547 p.a. I think that is a bloody good starting point before you start adding your own top up provision.

£12k will cover a year's rent if you're in the private rental sector. Depending on which part of the country you live in, that might get you a flat, or it might get you a room in a house share.

In five years' time, it will be unlikely to.

YouHaveAnArse · 17/04/2026 18:41

StandingDeskDisco · 17/04/2026 09:45

But it won't be a whole generation that are life-long renters.
It will be the half of the generation that didn't get inheritances from parents and grandparents, and so got on the housing ladder.

It is a lottery in life - if you are lucky to be born to parents who are home-owners, your life will be better than those who are unlucky enough to be born to parents who rent.

The gap between the haves and have-nots is just widening and widening.

Both DH and I were born to home-owners. I will inherit nothing as my mum's house belongs to a company who she signed it over to in order to pay off a debt she was left with when my dad died, and in any case would have sold for less than the cost of a deposit on a flat in the SE. DH's mum has worsening dementia in her early 70s so chances are there will be nothing left for him and his brother.

In contrast, my friends did inherit and so managed to buy a decade before we did, and when they inherited again - both money and a flat - bought a second place to rent out and are now one of their DC's classmate's landlords. I don't resent them for it - it was what they decided to do with the money they were given, and neither of them benefitted from wealth when those relatives were alive - but it's mad how different the outcomes will be for two children in the same class.

VoiceFromThePit · 17/04/2026 18:41

You effectively either use it to enjoy life more while you are relatively young or you give it to Rachel Reeves

DaisyDooley · 17/04/2026 18:36

I’m not hesitant. I think they are equally at fault.
I only mentioned Labour as that was who my delivery driver mentioned.
I think his issue was that after 14 years of Tory he was expecting better - and yet Labour are no different, or worse.

LakieLady · 17/04/2026 18:33

oviraptor21 · 16/04/2026 22:57

Of course it's a thing!
I worked in benefits until very recently. Worked with clients who were accused. Some were able to get benefits reinstated as they showed that their primary purpose was not to be awarded benefits or more benefits. Others didn't.

Me too. I had a case where a client had had a death in service payout of £20-something thousand on the death of her partner. She bought some new furniture and a second-hand car, had her flat redecorated, bought some gifts for daughter and GCs and took them on holiday.

A good 18 months later, she was summoned for a compliance interview by the housing benefit team at the council. They were actually totally ok about it and, like in your case, considered that it wasn't done deliberately and that none of the spending could be considered lavish or extravagant, and she just had to repay the HB that she shouldn't have got. There was no penalty or talk of prosecution.

nomas · 17/04/2026 18:07

DaisyDooley · 17/04/2026 18:02

I’m afraid Tony Blair (Labour) opened the doors and left them wide open.
Equally, I think people who are lifetime Conservative voters feel equally let down.
It’s just a massive shit show.

I agree that Tony Blair the knob admitted letting in too many EU migrants but what has that got to do with your previous post?

You seem hesitant about talking about the Tory shit show on immigration.

DaisyDooley · 17/04/2026 18:02

nomas · 17/04/2026 17:48

What’s Labour got to do with it? The number of economic migrants went up under 15 years of Tory rule.

There is always a fly in the ointment in this woeful tales.

I’m afraid Tony Blair (Labour) opened the doors and left them wide open.
Equally, I think people who are lifetime Conservative voters feel equally let down.
It’s just a massive shit show.

lovealieinortwo · 17/04/2026 17:57

What’s Labour got to do with it?

Have you forgotten?

The economy was strong & growing under the Tories, immigration was low, taxes didn’t increase, salaries didn’t stagnate, lots of investment, oh wait…

nomas · 17/04/2026 17:48

DaisyDooley · 17/04/2026 17:12

“Genuine asylum seekers escaping war & persecution “ - we don’t get them. If we do it’s a tiny proportion.
We get economic immigrants who come here to fleece us, break the law, work as ‘carers’ and then access benefits/housing/health service, ergo costing us the tax payers much much more than they earn.
We can’t afford them -economically we are sinking faster than the titanic.
If you can’t see that then come up to the North East.
I’ll show you round the hell home that my hometown has become where people are too scared to use the bloody parks during the day with their kids.
Too scared to live in the town as the council has stuffed swathes of it full of ‘immigrants’ who seem to be mainly men, mainly not working and very intimidating. Too horrified by areas that used to be clean and nice that now have human shit on the pavements. Rubbish everywhere.
I sit and cry when I look at it. My nanna lived in a Victorian street house - she died in 1985 and genuinely would not recognise the area she lived in all her adult life. It’s dystopian.
We can’t afford this OR people like the OP.
Our kids are fucked unless you have lots of money.
My daughter will be ok as she will inherit - unless the greens get in and whop IHT up to 80%.
My grocery delivery driver today said to me “I’ve voted Labour all my life -like my whole family and nearly everyone I know- never ever again. I’m so worried for my girls”. We started by talking about the potholes in the roads (I live rurally).

What’s Labour got to do with it? The number of economic migrants went up under 15 years of Tory rule.

There is always a fly in the ointment in this woeful tales.

DaisyDooley · 17/04/2026 17:12

thepariscrimefiles · 17/04/2026 16:34

Ukraine is not a third world country.

Tbh I would rather my taxes go to help genuine asylum seekers fleeing war and persecution than someone like OP who is going to spaff her entire pension pot on winter holidays and cars for herself and her adult DC so that she can claim housing benefit.

What OP has decided to do would be considered to be deprivation of assets by DWP:

Deprivation of assets for Pension Credit occurs when a person deliberately transfers or spends money, property, or income to qualify for or increase their benefit entitlement. The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) can treat this as "notional capital," acting as if the person still possesses the funds, which may reduce or stop their Pension Credit payments.

“Genuine asylum seekers escaping war & persecution “ - we don’t get them. If we do it’s a tiny proportion.
We get economic immigrants who come here to fleece us, break the law, work as ‘carers’ and then access benefits/housing/health service, ergo costing us the tax payers much much more than they earn.
We can’t afford them -economically we are sinking faster than the titanic.
If you can’t see that then come up to the North East.
I’ll show you round the hell home that my hometown has become where people are too scared to use the bloody parks during the day with their kids.
Too scared to live in the town as the council has stuffed swathes of it full of ‘immigrants’ who seem to be mainly men, mainly not working and very intimidating. Too horrified by areas that used to be clean and nice that now have human shit on the pavements. Rubbish everywhere.
I sit and cry when I look at it. My nanna lived in a Victorian street house - she died in 1985 and genuinely would not recognise the area she lived in all her adult life. It’s dystopian.
We can’t afford this OR people like the OP.
Our kids are fucked unless you have lots of money.
My daughter will be ok as she will inherit - unless the greens get in and whop IHT up to 80%.
My grocery delivery driver today said to me “I’ve voted Labour all my life -like my whole family and nearly everyone I know- never ever again. I’m so worried for my girls”. We started by talking about the potholes in the roads (I live rurally).

thepariscrimefiles · 17/04/2026 16:34

Friendlygingercat · 17/04/2026 13:32

As I stated in a previous post, I dont judge OP. I would counsel her to get some sound financial advice before making any decisions.

If my taxes (which I am still paying at 81) go to support people like OP who have found a way to work the system to their advantage I say good luck. I would emulate them if I could.

OP was born in this country and has contributed to the community through work and taxes in the past. What I do resent is the money that is flowing out of this country to support third world countries - including Ukraine - with which we have no connection and from which we derive no benefit. And dont even get me started on housing and feeding so called "asylum seekers" who were not born here and have contributed nothing.

Edited

Ukraine is not a third world country.

Tbh I would rather my taxes go to help genuine asylum seekers fleeing war and persecution than someone like OP who is going to spaff her entire pension pot on winter holidays and cars for herself and her adult DC so that she can claim housing benefit.

What OP has decided to do would be considered to be deprivation of assets by DWP:

Deprivation of assets for Pension Credit occurs when a person deliberately transfers or spends money, property, or income to qualify for or increase their benefit entitlement. The Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) can treat this as "notional capital," acting as if the person still possesses the funds, which may reduce or stop their Pension Credit payments.

Boomer55 · 17/04/2026 16:31

Artricha · 16/04/2026 22:36

I am a housing association tenant and I'm 60 years old. I have a pension pot of £86000. According to best forecasts it would pay out an annuity of £6000 a year which wouldn't even cover my rent. I would then have to pay the remainder of my rent plus council tax from my state pension plus all my living expenses. I have looked into part ownership but that's even worse as the leasehold charges plus rent are around £800 a month.

If I have only £16000 at the point I claim state pension, I will be able to claim housing benefit and council tax benefit too. Day to day living expenses wise I will be no worse off under this scenario. Possibly even better off as there are other benefits that housing benefit is a passport to.

Plus, if I took the money now, I'd quite like to cut down on work over the next few years, give a bit of money to my kids (after all, there won't be anything much to inherit when I die), have a few nice sun holidays in winter, get a decent car, kit my kitchen out with white goods that will last me.

Running down money before retirement is the opposite of what we're told to do, so it feels weird. But I think in my circumstances it's sensible. AIBU?

Well, I’m widowed, and living in SH. I live totally from my state pensions, my savings, and a couple of private pensions. I pay £1000 per month SH rent, plus everything else. No top ups, and I’m taxed.

But, I don’t have to tell officialdom everything, no forms to fill out, and no one to judge me on what I buy.

Worth it to me. 👍

Boomer55 · 17/04/2026 16:24

Itsmetheflamingo · 16/04/2026 22:50

Deprivation of assets isn’t a thing for benefits, no one investigates what you did with your money in the past. It’s based on current need

It can be, if money has just gone.

cloudtreecarpet · 17/04/2026 16:20

Friendlygingercat · 17/04/2026 13:32

As I stated in a previous post, I dont judge OP. I would counsel her to get some sound financial advice before making any decisions.

If my taxes (which I am still paying at 81) go to support people like OP who have found a way to work the system to their advantage I say good luck. I would emulate them if I could.

OP was born in this country and has contributed to the community through work and taxes in the past. What I do resent is the money that is flowing out of this country to support third world countries - including Ukraine - with which we have no connection and from which we derive no benefit. And dont even get me started on housing and feeding so called "asylum seekers" who were not born here and have contributed nothing.

Edited

This is quite a small world view though. If you look at it globally, why are people trying to come here in the first place?
Many asylum seekers are leaving countries we and other western countries have been historically messing around in & helping to destablise.
We don't exist in a vacuum and we have to accept our role in the inequality the world is now experiencing.

LaDoIceVita · 17/04/2026 15:54

PocketSand · 17/04/2026 14:47

@LaDoIceVita I am so pleased to hear that you will not lie and cheat. Well done you. It’s already difficult enough to claim disability benefits for genuine claimants with all the evidence required without charlatans.

I’m a little bit confused why you think lying and cheating would be successful and why not lying and cheating makes you morally superior - it almost sounds like you think genuine claimants (who have reams of evidence) are lying and cheating. Almost like those that receive disability benefits are all liars and cheats and that there are no legitimate claimants. I’m sure you didn’t mean it to come across that way.

I'm absolutely confident that I could cheat the system in this instance. DH's chronic condition and level of severity are fully documented. I used to deal with sufferers of this condition every day in my former career and have extensive knowledge of how it can affect their daily life. I suspect there are not too many claimants - the majority of which are absolutely genuine - who would be in the same position. I have also been a full-time carer for a family member in the past and again, would know exactly what to say to make a successful claim.

I think the way the phrase 'morally superior' is used now says a lot about our society - it's become an insult and a sneer. I don't consider being honest and taking responsibility for my life and my life choices as being anything superior. I think it's just an attitude that's becoming increasingly rare.

1apenny2apenny · 17/04/2026 15:54

I think this thread is a great example of what many young people have come to realise - the system is quite easy to manipulate and you can lead reasonably comfortable life with little responsibility by not working or working very little. Who can blame them? Not having to get up and go to work, not worrying about having your house fixed (if in social housing, getting an inflationary ‘pay rise’ every year etc etc.

Everyobe should claim what they are entitled to. For many generations of their family have worked and built this country and all we see is money paid out to people who arrive here and won’t tell us who they are, where they’re from etc and being housed etc. If the government want to do something about it, they can except this government are just happy to keep increasing the welfare bill.

rosycheex · 17/04/2026 15:44

Thing is there are demands that welfare spending is cut - it will be a brave person that does this - but the benefits she might receive could be reduced.
Perhaps she could buy gold sovereigns to put away for a rainy day.

lovealieinortwo · 17/04/2026 15:13

Why are UK pensions so low?

Because people don’t pay enough tax and we have free healthcare. Where do you think the money comes from to fund state pensions and healthcare?

lovealieinortwo · 17/04/2026 15:09

Shudacudawuda · 17/04/2026 11:33

No, people like the OP who have worked all their lives and managed to scraper together a small pension pot are absolutely not the cause of the country's problems, don't be so ridiculous.

This is the problem though, the OP has taken far more out of the system than she has paid in like many people. This is why economically the country is struggling.

PocketSand · 17/04/2026 14:47

@LaDoIceVita I am so pleased to hear that you will not lie and cheat. Well done you. It’s already difficult enough to claim disability benefits for genuine claimants with all the evidence required without charlatans.

I’m a little bit confused why you think lying and cheating would be successful and why not lying and cheating makes you morally superior - it almost sounds like you think genuine claimants (who have reams of evidence) are lying and cheating. Almost like those that receive disability benefits are all liars and cheats and that there are no legitimate claimants. I’m sure you didn’t mean it to come across that way.