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To ask why people insist on making calls using speakerphone when in a public place?

113 replies

auserna · 16/04/2026 14:30

I mean aside from the obvious fact that it's highly irritating and inconsiderate to those around you, I don't understand the benefit. The sound is tinny, unpleasant and distorted, and you have to wave it in front of your face instead of simply holding it to your ear as we have done since Alexander Graham Bell were a lad.

I can see the point if you're at home, say cooking, and you pop it down on the worktop, or you're having a family chat with multiple people looking at the phone at the same time, but people on their own - on the bus, for example - I just don't get it.

I also hate it when other people put me on speakerphone - I find the resulting quality of sound uncomfortably unpleasant.

I'm in Italy at the moment and it's every bit as bad here.

Please explain, as it might help me to find it less annoying.

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BlibBlabBlob · 16/04/2026 14:59

Are you sure they're not on a FaceTime/WhatsApp/other video call? You have to hold the phone away from your face then, to see the other person and for them to see you. Hence the speakerphone setting.

Still annoying, though. People who want to FaceTime in public should acquire and use headphones.

Classiclines · 16/04/2026 14:58

I went to the nearby garden centre today as a wee birthday treat for myself. Inside the garden centre there was a woman having a speaker phone conversation with someone. And on the bus back some guy- probably in his 30s - was playing music on his phone for everyone to hear.
It was meant to be a relaxing enjoyable trip but I ended up with a sight disturbance migraine from the stress.
I just can't reconcile myself to the current selfishness of people who don't care about how their behaviour affects others

JoWawa · 16/04/2026 14:57

It's the only way that I can hear it. I don't do it in public only at home on my own.

Sidebeforeself · 16/04/2026 14:55

EasterBunBun11 · 16/04/2026 14:50

I used to do it as my phone was broke so I had to put it on speaker as it was too quiet when not on speaker.

I do it now if I'm in a really loud busy place and cant hear the person.

To be honest I really dont care what others think around me, Im busy and if I need to take a call and put it on speaker I will. To many people get up in arms about sweet FA now. People need to mind their own buisness and just get over it.

Yeah right

EasterBunBun11 · 16/04/2026 14:50

I used to do it as my phone was broke so I had to put it on speaker as it was too quiet when not on speaker.

I do it now if I'm in a really loud busy place and cant hear the person.

To be honest I really dont care what others think around me, Im busy and if I need to take a call and put it on speaker I will. To many people get up in arms about sweet FA now. People need to mind their own buisness and just get over it.

Tillow4ever · 16/04/2026 14:43

The only time I might put my phone onto speaker is if I’ve been put on hold and it’s just hold music. But I’d only do this if I’m outside and away from other people. I try to avoid phone calls at all costs though, so if I’m on a call it’s either an emergency or no other ways to contact them.

I haven’t ever really noticed people behaving in the way you describe though op. Pretty much anyone I see on a call either has a headset or has the phone to their ear.

neilyoungismyhero · 16/04/2026 14:40

Not everyone can hear the other person on the other end of the phone.

EverythingIsComputer · 16/04/2026 14:39

I hate it too, can’t think of an excuse other than a broken phone in which case I’d apologise and say I’d call the person back when I’m in a more private location.

rude AF

Eclipser · 16/04/2026 14:39

Sometimes I cringe for the other person who probably doesn’t realise that they’re being broadcast to the bus, or the loo queue.

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 16/04/2026 14:38

Because my phone is broken and it only works on speakerphone!
I make sure to take any calls as discreetly as possible, honest!

ExquisiteSocialSkills · 16/04/2026 14:38

Don’t want to get makeup on their phone screen?

I agree, very irritating.

20thCenturyFecks · 16/04/2026 14:35

Just waiting for someone to come along and justify it......

PGmicstand · 16/04/2026 14:33

Because they're inconsiderate, entitled twats.
Same as people who use public transport and public spaces, watching reels and films, or listening to music, without headphones.