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AIBU to wish I had known sooner about vaginal oestrogen cream?

163 replies

Seriestwo · 15/04/2026 14:45

I am nearer 60 than 50 and have had lots of UTIs and vaginal dryness for ages. Peeing stinged, wiping was sometimes painful. I have been on HRT for about 10 years. Mentioned it in passing to GP who gave me cream in an applicator and you must know about it! Within 2 weeks I was so much better and comfortable. I hadn’t realised how uncomfortable it was.

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Additup · 16/04/2026 07:45

Murfmeister · 16/04/2026 07:12

I had some prescribed, but it gave me thrush. Might try a different one if available then.

If it gives you thrush its most likely because the ph of your vagina isn't acid enough. I had this.
I took a thrush tablet and started taking probiotics first women by Optibac and that sorted if out.
Apparently post meno (and earlier) a lack of oestrogen changes the ph of the vagina and makes if more prone to thrush.

Additup · 16/04/2026 07:39

Seriestwo · 15/04/2026 19:42

It’s good stuff. Im
never coming off it

Yanbu, its amazing stuff and I spread the word about the greatness of vaginal oestrogen whenever I can. Also intrarosa is good too.

I really should be talked about more. I only discovered it by accident after having a hysteroscopy for post menopause bleeding and the gynae told me I had early vaginal atrophy and to ask the gp for a prescription.

It's shocking local hrt isn't talked about as much as systemic hrt !!!

CarolinaLiar · 16/04/2026 07:39

My gynaecologist friend says all women should be using it from peri onwards. It’s not just about dryness. Many women don’t suffer from dryness but would still benefit from vaginal oestrogen.

It’s essential to maintain genitourinary health in general.

Muststopeating · 16/04/2026 07:33

Gabitule · 16/04/2026 00:24

would this be suitable for me (I’m 44) if I’ve been having recurrent thrush for 2 years, some pain and occasional bleeding during sex, the need to pee more often? I’ve been talking all possible thrush medication and it goes away, only to return the following month or when the treatment is finished. Getting an appt with a female GP is very difficult.

why are GPs reluctant to prescribe it, does it have bad long term consequences?

Do you have a mirena coil? I had recurrent thrush and similar symptoms as you but haven't had any since getting it removed and replaced with copper. I had the same problem when I was on the pill... For 10 years!!! Turns out I just can't handle the synthetic hormones!

Autumngirl5 · 16/04/2026 07:31

zantez · 15/04/2026 20:28

Apart from anything else, it has really helped my urge to wee every five minutes. It apparently plumps up the tissue around the urethra, so that has really helped. It is not an instant fix though, it took a couple of months to see a difference. I'm late 60s, and rarely get UTI either. Which is a good thing as they can make a person go a bit doo lally in older years. I'll be using this cream as long as I'm able, and there's currently no age restriction on it.

I’m the same age and had terrible urgency when I needed to go and it has made the world of difference. My GP readily suggested it and prescribed. The first few times I used it was quite painful and stingy but apparently that proves that it’s working and I needed it in the first place. But persevere it’s so worth it!

oustedbymymate · 16/04/2026 07:30

Same but I am late 30s and had problems for years! It is a game changer for me

Gardenquestion22 · 16/04/2026 07:27

Every gp and nurse I’ve seen about menopause has checked I’m on it….i use the pessaries, some cream on the outside and moisturiser. In my latte 50s. Maybe training in the area I’m in is better.

but yes it should be talked about more.

Freysimo · 16/04/2026 07:26

I'm in my 70s and have been using it for two years. I've never been on HRT. I'd hardly ever had a UTI then had two nasty ones in quick succession. GP suggested I try Ovestin and I've never had a UTI since. I get it on repeat prescription now. Only slight negative is the applicator isn't easy to clean.

SomeOtherUser · 16/04/2026 07:13

Ohdearwhathaveidonethistime · 15/04/2026 15:19

That’s the benefit of going private.

I initially suffered 3 UTIs and NHS gave me 3 sets of 3 day antibiotics. Went away and returned. The final time I had enough and went private. They took my bloods, saw I had ecoli, treated it with the correct antibiotics and put me on HRT + vagifem straight away. It was costly but I haven’t had a UTI since. Private tell you what you need as we’re paying for it. NHS seem to hold back as we’re not. Now I have the correct prescription I will move back to the NHS with it.

@Seriestwo 7 months of suffering was enough for me, how you stuck it out for 10 years I have no idea. You poor thing. Glad you eventually got what you needed.

Whilst I agree the NHS is not at its best in many areas right now, surely the logic here is unsound? It would be in private medicine's interest to keep you on as a patient, and in the NHS's interest to cure you, not the other way around. 🤔The issue with the NHS is more likely that they don't have the resources they need to deal with this type of complaint, which is a tragedy but surely not due to nefarious intent on their part.

Murfmeister · 16/04/2026 07:12

I had some prescribed, but it gave me thrush. Might try a different one if available then.

DwayneDibleysTeeth · 16/04/2026 07:05

Boots sell an OTC version called Ovesse - only been using it a fortnight, and it's like night and day!

curious79 · 16/04/2026 06:47

Within a week of HRT my ‘leakiness’ was gone. Vaginal oestrogen is the difference between being able to hold it in and full incontinence by the age of 75.

ps. You can take it indefinitely

bluecloudme · 16/04/2026 06:44

Those GPs refusing to prescribe this are borderline negligent imo. It’s a total no brainer. I’ve just started on pressaries in the hope it controls urinary symptoms. I’m 48 and in peri. Have some gp friends who say it’s the best thing! Don’t take no for an answer!

Move22 · 16/04/2026 06:37

Gabitule · 16/04/2026 00:24

would this be suitable for me (I’m 44) if I’ve been having recurrent thrush for 2 years, some pain and occasional bleeding during sex, the need to pee more often? I’ve been talking all possible thrush medication and it goes away, only to return the following month or when the treatment is finished. Getting an appt with a female GP is very difficult.

why are GPs reluctant to prescribe it, does it have bad long term consequences?

I had this was driving me crazy, my gp prescribed weekly fluconazole (sp?) tablets for I think 12 weeks, cleared it up.

previouslyknownas · 16/04/2026 04:40

Cheese55 · 15/04/2026 22:03

Can you buy it on the Internet, rather then the hassle of the GP?

Yes you can
Oxford online pharmacist

Gabitule · 16/04/2026 00:24

would this be suitable for me (I’m 44) if I’ve been having recurrent thrush for 2 years, some pain and occasional bleeding during sex, the need to pee more often? I’ve been talking all possible thrush medication and it goes away, only to return the following month or when the treatment is finished. Getting an appt with a female GP is very difficult.

why are GPs reluctant to prescribe it, does it have bad long term consequences?

ThelmaDinkley · 16/04/2026 00:23

You can buy it over the counter as Gina

LadyGardenersQuestionTime · 16/04/2026 00:15

has anyone tried using it on their face? I keep seeing suggestions about this online, and if it does for my eyebags what it’s done for my fanjo I will be ecstatic.

DrCoconut · 16/04/2026 00:00

44PumpLane · 15/04/2026 22:48

You need to ask for a second opinion then. I'm 43, my NHS GP confirmed Peri with blood tests late last year, swapped my coil in Jan for me, started prescribing me HRT in the form of my choosing (patches) alongside pessaries.

Went back for 3 month review and asked for estrogen cream as well as the pessary and asked for the dosage of the patches to be increased.....not a problem at all.

Also made sure I knew about the HRT annual pre paid prescription......you deserve healthcare!

My blood tests (which they insist on despite me being late 40s) are "normal" so they say peri is not the problem.

TowerOfWashing · 15/04/2026 23:40

I was prescribed it by a young female GP after being vaguely diagnosed with dermatitis by a gynecologist who offered no practical solutions apart from washing my pants in sensitive washing powder 🙄

GP said "I thought the gynecologists were just giving it out to everyone these days". It was a revelation...

Yellowpapersun · 15/04/2026 23:32

Cheese55 · 15/04/2026 22:03

Can you buy it on the Internet, rather then the hassle of the GP?

Yes, you can buy cream or pessaries through an online pharmacy.

Tink3rbell30 · 15/04/2026 23:29

Is it an external cream?

Fantomfartflinger · 15/04/2026 23:27

Cheese55 · 15/04/2026 22:03

Can you buy it on the Internet, rather then the hassle of the GP?

If you are post menopausal you can do an online consultation with a pharmacy and get cream or pessaries and pay privately.

LifeOnTheVeg · 15/04/2026 23:20

I’m sorry for those who’ve been denied it. It really is marvellous.
It’s kept my downstairs comfortable and operational.

sweetpeaorchestra · 15/04/2026 22:52

My GP wouldn’t prescribe it either, I’m 41 and they told me it was for post menopausal women. But I have some peri symptoms, dryness and chronic/embedded UTI. Why are they reluctant to prescribe?