In-law massive family/ I have crippling social anxiety and have done all my life/ it's in the middle of nowhere and I am DONE / if it were my family id say no but moot as my family is tiny and wouldn't have a massive event ever.
Would upset my husband to just say no so I just need a reason.
Currently wondering if it's possible to sustain a very minor on purpose injury that puts me in minor injuries just before departure time but that's probably excessive.
So, mn, please help me come up with a realistic excuse nearer the time (and let's hope my mil doesn't mn)