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Sweetpea70 · 15/04/2026 13:07

What is your opinion on donating clothes, or taking them some where like clothes for cash? I'm asking from a environmentally point of view, not a financial one.
I've given up with Vinted, Ebay & car boot sales for most stuff. The market is flooded with over consumerism.
Thinking about cash for clothes, because at least you get something back.
Trouble is, you read about how much of it, & also items left in clothing banks, gets shipped abroad. This has caused their own local textiles businesses to collapse. I saw one article where anything unwanted ends up on a beach!
Charity shops are inundated with stuff too.
We have wrecked the planet with too much stuff...

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Wingingit73 · 18/04/2026 09:34

Most areas have a free to a new home facebook group. I do that now.

Forthesteps · 18/04/2026 09:32

Sweetpea70 · 15/04/2026 13:18

I've looked at that before and only ever get redirected to a Usa site. Do you know if there is a Uk site?

Freegle is the alternative. There was some sort of schism in the UK a few years back and they hived off

Docugirl · 18/04/2026 09:27

@isthismylifenow Thank you for explaining that. I've often wondered where donated clothes end up. Especially damaged things that are unwearable like rags.

Xmasbaby11 · 18/04/2026 09:10

My local Barnados is always accepting donations and the shop is busy too with customers. Lots of donations, volunteers, big shop, many customers. I don’t know how it works behind the scenes though.

I donate almost everything there - a few bags a month. Local Facebook first for toys - not worth trying to sell clothes ime.

KnickerlessParsons · 18/04/2026 09:01

I post stuff I don’t want on the local freecycle site and it gets snapped up

Stoptheworldiwanttogetoff · 18/04/2026 08:53

There is a charity in my area called The Clothing Bank. They use donated clothes to put together clothing parcels for people who are struggling financially. They provide for people in the local area as well as posting out to people all over the UK. I like to donate to them as I know that they are going to people who are genuinely in need and not to big companies or re-sellers who are just after making a profit.

Talkingfrog · 15/04/2026 19:30

I donate to a a local hospice for their shops, or bonardos.

It varies between them depending on what I have - and what they are taking.
When I want to donate- which is open, and if they are accepting donations that day.

The hospice has a shop about 1/2 mile away, one about 2 miles away ( which tends to take toys more than the other one, and a warehouse a few miles away that also accepts donations. They all have a limit as to what they can take in a day. Bonardos is also about 1/2 miles in a slightly different direction. Also has some days where it isn't taking donations but is open on a Sunday.

I used to do baby sakes/car boots with children's clothes, abd Facebook selling groups for certain branded items, but don't tend to bother will adult clothes.

Allseeingallknowing · 15/04/2026 19:24

Maggiethecat · 15/04/2026 18:07

Thanks @GenieGenealogy
that's interesting but I’m trying to find an organisation here that will take donated items like the ties and turn them into something or otherwise find use for them.

I would like to avoid charity shops just sending them off for landfill if they’re not interested in them.

https://thesewingloftblog.com/13-creative-ways-to-reuse-mens-ties/
I like the lampshade!

13 Creative Ways to Reuse Men's Ties

Grab a handful of men's ties because these creative projects are so inspiring, easy to make and super fashionable to use over and over again!

https://thesewingloftblog.com/13-creative-ways-to-reuse-mens-ties/

GenieGenealogy · 15/04/2026 19:18

Maggiethecat · 15/04/2026 18:07

Thanks @GenieGenealogy
that's interesting but I’m trying to find an organisation here that will take donated items like the ties and turn them into something or otherwise find use for them.

I would like to avoid charity shops just sending them off for landfill if they’re not interested in them.

No I get you. I am a former charity shop volunteer and ties are a really hard sell.

Moochine · 15/04/2026 18:28

For kids clothes see if there’s a local baby bank you can donate to. They’ll give them out to families that are struggling to keep up with their kids growth/ change of sizes.

charity shop wise I prefer to donate to small indies. For example there’s a stall on my local indoor market that’s run as a passion project by two retirees.

Maggiethecat · 15/04/2026 18:07

GenieGenealogy · 15/04/2026 17:43

You need to follow this account on Instagram. Very talented, I think she's Dutch.

https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/TheBohemianDream

Thanks @GenieGenealogy
that's interesting but I’m trying to find an organisation here that will take donated items like the ties and turn them into something or otherwise find use for them.

I would like to avoid charity shops just sending them off for landfill if they’re not interested in them.

IsoldeWagner · 15/04/2026 17:51

GenieGenealogy · 15/04/2026 17:48

Or Vinted, charity shops. Just not adding to the mountains of clothing already in existence.

Hasn't she discounted Vinted?

GenieGenealogy · 15/04/2026 17:48

Or Vinted, charity shops. Just not adding to the mountains of clothing already in existence.

booknerdhead · 15/04/2026 17:47

I’m trying to shop in my wardrobe rather than buy new stuff and not buy anything new for the ‘summer’. Let’s face it, we hardly have enough hot weather in the U.K. to warrant more new summer clothes.

GenieGenealogy · 15/04/2026 17:43

Maggiethecat · 15/04/2026 14:56

Have similar problem - family member passed away leaving bags and bags of ties, some unworn.

I think some charity shops are reluctant to take ties as they’re hard to shift.

I wonder if there’s any organisation that recycles things like these, turning them into clothing, bedding soft toys etc?

Had a quick search online but couldn’t find anything.

You need to follow this account on Instagram. Very talented, I think she's Dutch.

https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/TheBohemianDream

WerewolfOfLoudon · 15/04/2026 17:41

Your local Women's Aid will usually take Women's and Children's clothes in excellent condition. They will also take unused toiletries gift sets.

So many women have nothing when they leave an abusive situation and are put into shelters far away from home, care packages that include clothing and toiletries are essential. An unwanted gift set you have received is a small moment of peace for them.

IsoldeWagner · 15/04/2026 17:39

jdb9803 · 15/04/2026 17:37

If there is a women's refuge nearby they are always grateful for womens and kids clothing and toys - they often have to leave the home with nothing

That's a very good suggestion. I've donated toiletries, but they are in need of clothes as well.

jdb9803 · 15/04/2026 17:37

If there is a women's refuge nearby they are always grateful for womens and kids clothing and toys - they often have to leave the home with nothing

1980isitjustme · 15/04/2026 17:36

Are there any women’s shelter/community wardrobe type places near you? Mine has a Facebook page and posts quite specific requests (eg boy age 8 or woman size 10-12) as they just don’t have the space for everything but the requests are very regular as there are sadly so many people in need.

IsoldeWagner · 15/04/2026 17:35

Nursemumma92 · 15/04/2026 17:34

Apologies if this has already been mentioned but haven't RTFT as on the go but a local clothes bank came to mind. Could you see if there is one in your area? There are lots in my county that take clothes in good condition that open to families to come and choose clothes for their children. Lots of them you can donate a bag and then choose some more.

Obviously less helpful with adult clothes but they do exist for adults too, just not so common. Worth looking into though.

The Salvation Army are great for that, as pp have said.

Nursemumma92 · 15/04/2026 17:34

Apologies if this has already been mentioned but haven't RTFT as on the go but a local clothes bank came to mind. Could you see if there is one in your area? There are lots in my county that take clothes in good condition that open to families to come and choose clothes for their children. Lots of them you can donate a bag and then choose some more.

Obviously less helpful with adult clothes but they do exist for adults too, just not so common. Worth looking into though.

IsoldeWagner · 15/04/2026 17:33

NotATumshie · 15/04/2026 14:04

I always take stuff to the Salvation Army clothing banks as they either reuse, sell or recycle stuff.

I do as well. They are brilliant, and it all gets passed on to those in need.

HelloCheekyCat · 15/04/2026 17:32

Primark and H&M have recycling points for clothes but I don't know what they do with it...

I'm going to use our local salvation army collection so thank you for the tip PP!

VeraWang · 15/04/2026 17:32

isthismylifenow · 15/04/2026 17:30

This is the general problem.

People think no more about what happens to all those bags once it's out of their hands.

It's an environmental disaster. The transport to China to sort, then shipping to elsewhere in the world to move it all along, this is before a vast amount gets dumped.

I suppose because I see it happening all around me, it just makes me hyper aware of the issue.

I do not know the charity linked. So I am not implying they don't do what they say they do. I know there are good organisations that help the needy all over.

But there is just too much waste with nowhere to go.

Yeah but I actually don't care.

I was just suggesting that since you clearly do, you might want to read the 'charities' bit in the link.

Or not 🤷‍♂️