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To have found certain parts of Paris edgy

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Sheeled · 14/04/2026 22:24

I stayed in Belleville, which was ok. Walked ina respectable area today, there was a guy possibly in his 30s, clearly.not right mentally verbally harassing and jostling people asking for money. Didn't see much police presence anywhere.

There were big groups of men, many of whom were shouting at each other and again many looked quite unwell, around the main train stations.

Large areas around the stations smelled I mean really smelled of urine.

A lot of people seemed really unhappy and afraid.

Don't know if this has always been the case or are we simply talking about some areas. I dont think Ill be visiting again in a hurry.

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Lifelover16 · 15/04/2026 12:44

GoodkneeBadKnee · 14/04/2026 22:27

I felt the same about parts of Birmingham...

I agree but the OP is specifically asking about Paris

Fnssc · 15/04/2026 12:41

Look at the who robbed the Louvre in 2025.

It wasn't anyone of "Français de souche" background now was it?

Ginmonkeyagain · 15/04/2026 12:34

@Fnssc there aren't "no go" areas in Peckham and Brixton you dolt.

HundredMilesAnHour · 15/04/2026 12:25

ProudAmberTurtle · 15/04/2026 08:32

I wouldn't search for 'immigrant areas' in London but then how often do people seriously visit areas like Tower Hamlets and Brent? I don't think I've ever been to either location

Perhaps the 3 million visitors annually to the Tower of London don’t realise that they’re in Tower Hamlets?

Yep, nothing to see here, nothing to visit, just move along….

🙄

Fnssc · 15/04/2026 11:56

crackofdoom · 15/04/2026 11:14

I know, it does sound funny 😆

But Paris has changed- it's no longer 3 course formule with boeuf bourgignonne and creme caramel or off you fuck. It's much more of a world city nowadays, with food from dozens of different cultures. And the area round the Gare du Nord is full of people and restaurants from South Asia. Which is very useful for me as a vegetarian.

I can assure you that I made up for it with the viennoiserie 😆

Eta: I did briefly work in a fish and chip shop near Bastille in the 90s, which was quite the experience! The customers were half British expats on a nostalgia trip and half adventurous Parisians in search of exotic foreign cuisine. It was quite an upmarket fish and chip shop, mind you.

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I've been to Place d'Italie which had nice Italian food.

Davros · 15/04/2026 11:47

@crackofdoom that fish and chips sounds worth travelling for!

Fnssc · 15/04/2026 11:16

They aren't exactly going to list "no go areas" are they?

crackofdoom · 15/04/2026 11:14

Davros · 15/04/2026 10:20

@crackofdoom you went to Paris for a curry and a pint? What was the point? 😹

I know, it does sound funny 😆

But Paris has changed- it's no longer 3 course formule with boeuf bourgignonne and creme caramel or off you fuck. It's much more of a world city nowadays, with food from dozens of different cultures. And the area round the Gare du Nord is full of people and restaurants from South Asia. Which is very useful for me as a vegetarian.

I can assure you that I made up for it with the viennoiserie 😆

Eta: I did briefly work in a fish and chip shop near Bastille in the 90s, which was quite the experience! The customers were half British expats on a nostalgia trip and half adventurous Parisians in search of exotic foreign cuisine. It was quite an upmarket fish and chip shop, mind you.

Givinguponmyhair · 15/04/2026 11:10

pondplants · 15/04/2026 10:56

I don’t think they are necessarily the places for tourists to prioritise but Peckham and Brixton are both good places to live in London. Parts of Peckham are pretty fancy, especially leading up to Camberwell. London ‘bustles’ a lot more than Paris which makes it feel safer to me.

Yeah i agree with you re the "bustles" comment. I also get this sense that if something bad were to happen, Londoners would be quicker to intervene than parisians, not too sure why. I grew up in both countries so this isnt coming from any kind of cultural barrier, just a vibe i get abiut paris.

pondplants · 15/04/2026 10:56

PRPrincess · 15/04/2026 10:05

Absolutely agree. I wouldn’t be hanging around Peckham, Mile End, Brixton or any other grim parts.

I don’t think they are necessarily the places for tourists to prioritise but Peckham and Brixton are both good places to live in London. Parts of Peckham are pretty fancy, especially leading up to Camberwell. London ‘bustles’ a lot more than Paris which makes it feel safer to me.

Ginmonkeyagain · 15/04/2026 10:55

Some great opinions here on normal areas of London where many people live and work. Keep up the prejudice and racism people.

Givinguponmyhair · 15/04/2026 10:21

Paris is way sketchier than London.

The metro is also really trashy and totally disability unfriendly.

You get off the eurostar and step out at St Pancras vs Gare du Nord. No contest there, I know where I feel safer hanging around outside with a cigarette. I travel between the two every month.

Davros · 15/04/2026 10:20

@crackofdoom you went to Paris for a curry and a pint? What was the point? 😹

Fnssc · 15/04/2026 10:13

ConstanzeMozart · 15/04/2026 09:36

I definitely would recommend both of those areas. They're lively, varied and interesting.
Apart from the museums, South Kensington and Belgravia are dull as fuck IMO. Soulless, most people on the streets slightly baffled tourists, few and far between cafes and restaurants that are either rubbish or rip-offs or both.

Dull? Dull?! I absolutely love walking through South Kensington and Belgravia areas when the sun is out. Brightens my day and fills me with so much joy.

I've been to the cafes. I actually enjoyed them. I had a lovely hot chocolate whilst enjoying the view and the blossoms. Went to some nice pubs after and had a scrumptious lunch.

Then I went to Hyde park.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 15/04/2026 10:13

When I’ve visited Paris I mostly stay central so don’t know the dodgy parts. My aunt lives there though, not sure of arrondissement but we are planning to meet up soon so I’ll find out. She has a studio apartment.

When I used to travel to parents holiday home in SW, we would go to Bordeaux as you had to get the train to the house and we flew to Bordeaux airport. Several dodgy characters asking for money hung around the station and we heard of pickpockets being around too. They’d try to help you use the Metro ticket machine. Once me and my mum went to get groceries nearby and it felt safe but a bit edgy. Luckily I was rarely there by myself and if so was on high alert.

Every big and small town/city has its bad/unsafe and good/safe parts though.

Autumngirl5 · 15/04/2026 10:12

oldwhyno · 15/04/2026 09:30

Paris has always stunk of piss

We didn’t find that and I have been several times.

theemmadilemma · 15/04/2026 10:12

Raquelos · 14/04/2026 22:25

Yeah, some parts of Paris are sketchy as hell, much worse than London, I think. The main tourist areas are okay, but without local knowledge, I wouldn't venture outside of them personally.

This. DH is French, doesn't love Paris.

Sketchy as fuck in places.

CraftySeal · 15/04/2026 10:11

The urine smell: yes, it's gross, and I find it more pervasive in Paris than a lot of other equivalent cities. I truly don't know why, as Paris does this automatic gutter washing thing on its pavements most days, which you'd think would help.

In terms of dodgy men etc - they can be intimidating but most people will never actually experience any issues with them.

One thing I'll say is that living in Paris teaches you to be a bitch. You cannot give an inch of friendliness to random people out in public, you assume the worst and treat people coldly because otherwise you're opening your arms to scammers and men who will take that inch of cordiality and immediately try to turn it into a mile. To some extent this applies in other cities too, but even more so in Paris, in my experience.

RoseBlueuet · 15/04/2026 10:06

I think those who haven't lived in a large European city tend to romanticise places like Paris and Rome. I blame shows like Emily in Paris personally!

Seriously though, common sense. Staying in the 19 arrondissement won't be for anyone imagining Paris is dinner overlooking the twinkling lights of The Eiffel or strolling down Avenue Montaigne in a dreamy daze.

I personally love Paris and have spent a lot of time there for work and pleasure, but am realistic and always exercise caution, as I do pretty much everywhere else I go - including the city in Europe I live in.

PRPrincess · 15/04/2026 10:05

Fnssc · 15/04/2026 08:59

If I was giving a Parisian holiday recommendations I definitely wouldn't recommend they go to Whitechapel or Peckham.

Yes the food can be nice, but I went to order some a few weeks ago and the man at the restaurant was having a hard time understanding English.

There's a reason I prefer South Kensington and Belgravia over these places.

Absolutely agree. I wouldn’t be hanging around Peckham, Mile End, Brixton or any other grim parts.

OneShyQuail · 15/04/2026 09:56

Mad how we all have different experiences! Me and DP visited Paris for my birthday last Sept we never felt unsafe, never smelled urine, visited many different places, didnt stay somewhere really upmarket either we travelled in.
On the other hand I hate London with a passion I always feel really vulnerable there

crackofdoom · 15/04/2026 09:50

I mean...yes and no. Yes, Paris does have its edgy side, no it doesn't stop it being a fantastic many faceted city.

I arrived at Gare du Nord at 9.00pm a couple of weeks ago and walked to my hostel just north of La Chapelle metro. Yes, it's a dodgy area, yes lots of young poor brown men around, yes a couple of them commented on my presence 🙄 But I also had a brilliant masala dosa at a Sri Lankan cafe on the way, had a pint and watched all the cool young things at the bar next door, and went back to the hostel to discover everyone salsa dancing to a live Cuban band in the foyer.

All I can say is that it felt even dodgier as a 16 year old in the 90s! I did used to get followed and harassed by men a lot. And then I became a tour guide, shepherding teenagers through the city, and yes sometimes the group would pick up a nasty abusive nutter, trailing us and shouting at us 😬

I don't know where I'm going with this...yes I love the place, yes there is a bit of an edge, but not as bad as it was. It does seem to me that, although the French state looks after those it considers to be legitimate citizens pretty well, recently arrived immigrants without connections and street homeless people with mental health/ substance abuse issues don't get much support. I've seen people in a pretty bad way on the streets, visibly unwell in a way that would have them picked up and taken into hospital in the UK, with nary even a street outreach team in sight.

pondplants · 15/04/2026 09:49

JoanOgden · 15/04/2026 08:31

I've lived in London for 25 years and find Paris sketchier - that's partly because I just know London better, but also because Paris has lots of men hanging around the streets in a way London doesn't. Also the London tube feels very safe and clean, even when it's crowded, whereas the Paris metro is grubby and feels unsafe, even in central Paris.

Rome used to feel sketchy to me but I went there for the first time in years last autumn and it had been really cleaned up and felt much safer. Similarly, Berlin feels fine as does Vienna. So I don't agree with this whole "it's a major European city, of course it feels unsafe" line.

Yep same - about 10 years ago I was living in London but spending a lot of time in Paris. Paris felt sketchier than London, and I was thinking exactly the same word as you reading the thread! And I was living in Peckham lol. Even central Paris could feel a bit sinister after dark. I very rarely felt unsafe in London.

ProudAmberTurtle · 15/04/2026 09:49

Nowvoyager99 · 15/04/2026 08:51

Tower Hamlets is a thriving area full of tourists.

London has its problems (I’m looking at you West Croydon) but Tower Hamlets isn’t one of them.

Tower Hamlets has corruption problems and the crime rate is 'high' compared to the rest of the country according to the web