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WTF was he wearing?!

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BengalBangle · 14/04/2026 18:26

I passed a man earlier (maybe 45 to 50), who was wearing a t-shirt emblazoned with the words "I'm not a gynecologist [sic], but I'll take a look anyway".

AIBU to think this is arrantly classless, misogynistic in reducing women to mere vulvas and that you'd have you'd have to be a prick to own such a monstrosity, never mind wear it out in public?!

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SmellycatSmelllycat · 15/04/2026 03:21

Dawnintheageofaquariams · 15/04/2026 02:09

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Xbumupa-Sleeveless-Cropped-Naughty-Camisole/dp/B0FCYTBPTB/ref=asc_df_B0FCYTBPTB?mcid=4fd422c97a303dbc87c8a28b91258298&tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=800852482740&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=4926395586130875981&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9044858&hvtargid=pla-2474939115580&hvocijid=4926395586130875981-B0FCYTBPTB-&hvexpln=0&gad_source=1&th=1&psc=1

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But that’s an adult top and it doesn’t say “sexy” on it.
I can’t see any with that description online and I’d be surprised if someone let their child wear that without someone intervening.

Mind you - some of the adults ones with slogans are very disturbing and I can’t understand why anyone would wear one.

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PollyBell · 15/04/2026 02:30

Well unless you are going to go up and lecture him then he is free to wear it

ColdCalmGreen · 15/04/2026 02:25

Saw a guy in his 50’s wearing some utterly repellent slogan t shirt the other day, I was surprised he thought it acceptable, forget what it said now.
But utterly pathetic and disgusting

HelenaWaiting · 15/04/2026 02:19

BauhausOfEliott · 14/04/2026 23:29

This didn’t happen.

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Nope. Those tshirts are all over the place. The slogan reads "Daddy's little kitten".

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 15/04/2026 02:02

There used to be a t-shirt that was advertised in a few places that said something like "When I grow up, I want to be a nurse - so I can help to make people better and see lots of willies".

Again, going on the actual slogan, it suggests that it was intended for very young women/girls to wear. I can see why some people might possibly choose to make 'off' risque jokes like this or the OP one in private; but actually going out in public wearing this on a t-shirt for all to see is downright creepy. Who is actually making them, selling them, buying them and wearing them? Imagine having so little self-awareness.

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 15/04/2026 01:55

KimberleyClark · 14/04/2026 23:08

That’s disgusting. What sort of parent would want their child wearing that?

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It's surprising - and of course horrifying - how many classless parents will use the word 'sexy' as a synonym for 'cute' or 'adorable' when referring to their children.

I've also seen babygros available to buy with such 'delightful' slogans as "Daddy says Mummy only wanted a back rub". Dressing a child in clothes like this is seriously verging on 'check their hard drives' territory.

GreyBeeplus3 · 15/04/2026 01:33

@BengalBangle
Reckon if he did manage to "get a look"
He'd either faint or retreat!
Pratty knobby twat

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Pryceosh1987 · 15/04/2026 00:09

Vaginas are vaginas and that is just the way things go. I havent had much experience with them, but yet i have in a way. But if someone likes them good for them.

Swallowdoubleandrunamile · 15/04/2026 00:03

It's an old Roy Chubby Brown joke.

Happyjoe · 14/04/2026 23:51

You just know the only relationship he's ever had was from a mail order catalogue that sells dolls.

LiquidSquid · 14/04/2026 23:47

It's grim, not uncommon though (sadly)

I ran into a man that I'd known when we were teenagers, in a club (several years back) & he had on a White drs coat & one of those drs head torches. On his back it said 'Gynaecologist. Let me take a look'. Fast forward another month & I ran into him again through work, turns out he was a nurse.

Not that nurses can't wear these T-Shirts of course, but it just struck me as EXTRA grim!!!

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BengalBangle · 14/04/2026 23:46

BauhausOfEliott · 14/04/2026 23:28

Pretty sure there have been at least two other threads from people who claim to have seen a man wearing this t-shirt.

Okay, cool.
Just to fully out me, it was in Newbury around 14:50 today and I saw the twunt by the old library.
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BengalBangle · 14/04/2026 23:42

CustardySergeant · 14/04/2026 23:07

Good grief. How vile.

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Omigod, that's awful!

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22ztr · 14/04/2026 23:38

22ztr · 14/04/2026 23:38

Send me his number. He sounds delightful 😜

This was a sarcastic joke for anyone about to have a soh malfunction at me

22ztr · 14/04/2026 23:38

Send me his number. He sounds delightful 😜

Bertiebiscuit · 14/04/2026 23:32

BengalBangle · 14/04/2026 18:26

I passed a man earlier (maybe 45 to 50), who was wearing a t-shirt emblazoned with the words "I'm not a gynecologist [sic], but I'll take a look anyway".

AIBU to think this is arrantly classless, misogynistic in reducing women to mere vulvas and that you'd have you'd have to be a prick to own such a monstrosity, never mind wear it out in public?!

Ewww yuk. I bet he thinks he's funny, just disgusting and nasty.

BauhausOfEliott · 14/04/2026 23:29

WormHoleInSpace · 14/04/2026 20:20

It's better than the t-shirt a saw a little girl of about 5 or 6 wearing a few weeks ago

Daddy's sexy kitten 🤢

This didn’t happen.

BauhausOfEliott · 14/04/2026 23:28

Pretty sure there have been at least two other threads from people who claim to have seen a man wearing this t-shirt.

Wendalicious · 14/04/2026 23:19

About 20 years ago we were at a family day out (zoo type thing) and a middle aged man had a t shirt saying “I eat p*y like a fat man eats cake” I’ll never forget that, I was agog, he had young kids and a female partner with him, I’ve thought about this memory a lot, such purile revolting idiots!

KimberleyClark · 14/04/2026 23:08

WormHoleInSpace · 14/04/2026 20:20

It's better than the t-shirt a saw a little girl of about 5 or 6 wearing a few weeks ago

Daddy's sexy kitten 🤢

That’s disgusting. What sort of parent would want their child wearing that?

CustardySergeant · 14/04/2026 23:07

WormHoleInSpace · 14/04/2026 20:20

It's better than the t-shirt a saw a little girl of about 5 or 6 wearing a few weeks ago

Daddy's sexy kitten 🤢

Good grief. How vile.

randomchap · 14/04/2026 23:04

Kind of him to display his red flag so clearly.

Lemonfrost · 14/04/2026 23:03

Does anyone remember those awful T shirts that had FBI on them and then, in smaller letters, ‘Female Body Inspector’?