Dh in mood as I said I may get mcdonalds for my dinner he said its selfish

The way my eating habits are, I wouldn't fit through one.

I like a burger king drive thru, havent been for ages!

If upon hearing how baby has been during the day, he should’ve offered to drive baby around after he finished work, so OP could have a little break and would OP like him to pick up something up for her.

then second best is what OP described.

Great result @Tomcdonaldaornot !!

Hope things are better moving forward. Well done FiL too!

Our local KFC is rank. The franchise is owned by someone who is part of a very large family so all of the staff are people in or known to that family. They are not given the job because they are any good at it.

Local rumour is that it wont be around much longer or rather, that KFC will force a buy out of the franchise. The one in the next town over is fantastic. Same with Maccies, the three in our town are all owned by the same franchisee and are all utter shite. But less than 5 miles away is another which is great!

Taco Bell is mainly franchise run I believe, so I guess these places are all hit and miss.

I love Taco Bell, and my partner really rates their chicken wrap above a McDonald’s one so maybe give it a go after all 🌮🌯

OP, glad your FiL saw it the right way and helped him see the light.

Taco Bell is just terrible. DD was at a sporting event, if the home team won everyone at the game would get free Taco Bell. She and her friend went there after the victory, and decided Taco Bell wasn't even worth free.

OP’s the one with the sleep deprivation, not him. When baby doesn’t nap, it impacts OP’s nights. He has no excuse for his behaviour, as he has realised.

Lol, glad to hear it OP. In his defence( which is limited as I think he behaved like an absolute dick!), the sleep deprivation and stress of having your first child is intense and makes us all act crazy sometimes. Hope he learned his lesson.

Drive thru recommendations I have none (I don’t drive!). However, my go to is a Costa coffee and tuna melt.

Taco Bell is gross! You could pick up a cheeky Nandos and eat in the car!

Wise woman.
Take your time and plan.
Then get out.
Life is too flipping short.
Keep everything to do with this incident.
You never know when it might be of use.
He's a nasty petty prick and he kindly sent you a picture to illustrate the fact.
Tell family and friends the truth too.

Who said ‘We feel that…’?

I’ve scrolled up the last couple of pages and the only ‘we’ statement I could see was by southerngirl10 :

Personally, I think a lot of people on here need to stop man blaming and grow some. Tell HIM about it. Men are so scared of women these days, he'll probably wet his pants. What are we on here going to do about it, all rush around to the op's house and sort it out for her. She has to live with him. The sooner she puts him in his place the better. If he doesn't listen then she has 2 choices.

The only time I've been ill after fast food was a taco bell in Glasgow. The one in Sheffield is also rank.

We like KFC in this house.

Thank you. I look forward to seeing these every time somebody complains about their partner.
🤣❤️

because sometimes people cannot realise they were wrong to begin with etc

I will be hung drawn and quartered for this.

I will not say what I feel about the various aspects of this very public argument, but will say that it is being fuelled by Mumsnet, and in particular by those posters who refer to the 'we' word, ie, 'we feel that .... etc'. I was not aware that there is a secret group that I haven't been admitted to or invited to join.

OP, you have a young child, and obviously need to focus on him/her, but you also need to work with your DH (or whatever he is) to find a way forward. Having such young children is incredibly difficult, and will impinge on any relationship. I think that the odd fall out regarding a MacDonalds is almost par for the course.

I hope that you work things out so as to find a way forward, with him or without if you feel that way, but hopefully this is just a blip on the road.

He's a ...grown man?

This needs repeating.
Its clear to some of us.🙄

He is a nasty, petty, abusive prick.
His own father told him grow the fxxk up.

If my husband had done this ever, there would be no coming back from it.

When an abusive arsehole shows you who he is.
Believe him.

The OP is worth ten of him.

His apologies would mean nothing to me.
He has shown his hand.

No going back on that.
I sincerely hope the OP protects herself from this petty prick.

Rates of domestic violence go up too. A friend who works with DV survivors has said it’s really common, which is just awful.

LTB. Or shit in his dinner.

But seriously, he's an idiot. He actuly should have offered to cook for you both whole you were driving. That's what aa decent human would do. Clearly you've been doing too much childcare because he has no concept of how exhausting it is and how impossible it is to get any self care, when they don't sleep or feed to schedule and the knock-on when it slips.

If he stropped, I would think that's his issue and buy myself the McDonald's meal and eat it.

Read her posts, she did!

I think a lot of people on here need to stop man blaming and grow some.

Grow some? Like yours ‘southern girl’?

So when you posted ‘Are you both still in your teens? Surely you wouldn't be writing this as an adult woman.’, you were actually berating OP not her partner, because your follow up posts show you clearly think OP should have had her Lord and Master’s needs foremost in her mind.

It’s always the way with the ‘Are you both 12?’ posters, it’s always a roundabout way to blame the woman

We see you ‘southern girl’.