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Dog walker wants cash in hand

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funtimetoni · 13/04/2026 20:15

Started using a new dog walker in January, as old one moved away. Today he messaged and asked if I can start paying cash. Ive been paying by bank transfer and always on time. AIBU to think no, you can be paid through the correct channels like everyone else. For the record he charges towards the higher rate for the area, so it's not like I'm getting a bargain.

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Clefable · 13/04/2026 21:25

It’s fine for him to ask but it’s also fine for it to not suit you, but that means you have to find another provider.

Personally I don’t want to pay cash for regular services as I find it annoying, it’s just another thing I have to remember and go out of my way to do when whatever I’m paying for is meant to make my life easier, so I wouldn’t want to choose someone who didn’t have bank transfer as an option, but it depends how much you value his services, really.

Myunhappyheart · 13/04/2026 21:20

I feel sorry for your dog walker. I’m a dog walker. I’d pick up on this strangeness and you’d be dropped and I’d message my group of other local dog walkers and you’d be known as an awkward client and likely avoided.

All my clients pay cash or transfer. Weekly or monthly. Whatever they want. Into my business bank account. For my accountant to do my accounts each year. If I ever asked for an alternative payment method they wouldn’t hesitate. Gosh if I asked them if I could move in they wouldn’t hesitate.

Nothing wrong with asking for cash.

aspirationalferret · 13/04/2026 21:15

If paying cash doesn’t work for you then sounds like you might need a new dog walker?

is he good and worth keeping?

cash is correct. It’s just not what you want.

Lovemycat2023 · 13/04/2026 21:13

I would find that a pain in terms of getting cash (a lot of our local ATMs are gone after coop raids) and having the right change. agree with others - ask if there is another solution like paying for walks in advance by bank transfer.

LoremIpsumCici · 13/04/2026 21:12

WoollyandSarah · 13/04/2026 20:57

That's not what the government says. It says 60% from small businesses.

Look at table 1.1

The 60% doesn’t tell you the % of the £46bn, but the % of small business category having a tax gap.

The total tax gap in £ from small businesses:
PAYE was £0.9bn
Corp Tax was £14.7bn

Total £15.6bn

Hint: a dog walker isn’t going to have filed with companies house as a corporation,

SarahAndQuack · 13/04/2026 21:09

I do the sort of work where people often assume I'd prefer to be paid cash (I don't, actually), and I think it would be totally reasonable to say no, it's not convenient for you. If you wanted to, you might suggest paying upfront by bank transfer? One of my clients offered to do this (so she'd pay a month's worth in advance). I don't care myself, but I appreciated the thoughtfulness. Otherwise, a bank transfer these days ought to be visible almost immediately and he could certainly send you the confirmation from his end so you'd see it straight off.

Cosyblankets · 13/04/2026 21:06

BoredZelda · 13/04/2026 20:59

Banks charge businesses to put cash in, though.

You don't have to use a business account to run a small business.

funtimetoni · 13/04/2026 21:04

Reversetail · 13/04/2026 20:33

how much do you pay?

Is that relevant?

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funtimetoni · 13/04/2026 21:03

As stated in opening post I always pay on time. Paying by cash would be inconvenient and I'd be much more likely to be a late payer.

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InMyOpenOnion · 13/04/2026 21:02

I hardly use cash at all these days and probably couldn't be bothered faffing about at an ATM on a regular (so many have closed near me recently). So it would be a no from me, but for the hassle factor more than anything else.

BoredZelda · 13/04/2026 20:59

Jellycatspyjamas · 13/04/2026 20:25

I have a business where most clients pay in cash, it’s all accounted for and taxed accordingly. Paying cash means I’m not paying bank charges and keep more of the money I’m paid. Given I pay 50% tax and NI on my small business, another 2% in bank charges makes a difference to it being viable to trade at all. It’s not always about avoiding fiscal responsibility.

Banks charge businesses to put cash in, though.

Tortephant · 13/04/2026 20:58

No. Pay him as you have been, you need a paper trail to protect yourself. Is he insured?

Flushitdown · 13/04/2026 20:58

You're assuming he wants cash so he doesn't pay tax?

Do you have reason to suspect that?

I pay my nail lady and cleaner cash. For both it's because they find it easier to manage their books and means they don't need to get a business account, which costs them money. Both pay tax and have all the legal paperwork.

If you don't like it, find another dog walker. But don't assume he's not paying tax.

WoollyandSarah · 13/04/2026 20:57

LoremIpsumCici · 13/04/2026 20:51

Most of that tax gap- 71% is from big businesses not paying corporation tax, excise taxes and NICs

That's not what the government says. It says 60% from small businesses.

1. Tax gaps: Summary

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/measuring-tax-gaps/1-tax-gaps-summary

Peoplehuvtaeknow1 · 13/04/2026 20:56

quocket · 13/04/2026 20:51

Cash isn’t free to bank into a business account

This. I have to pay a fee to deposit cash.

Usernamenotfound1 · 13/04/2026 20:55

gamerchick · 13/04/2026 20:22

Tell him you will for a discount.

Usually though the cash discount is because it’s not being declared for tax.

so yes, ask for a discount for cash. You are basically saying you expect him to not report is as earnings.

Peoplehuvtaeknow1 · 13/04/2026 20:54

I'm a dog walker. Nearly all my customers pay bank transfer, only two pay cash. thats their choice, I respect their choice and work with them.
If you'd rather continue paying by bank transfer then tell him that. Its up to him if thats a deal breaker but most of us quite like holding on to our clients!

previouslyknownas · 13/04/2026 20:52

I pay cash for pretty much everything if I can
I’ve walked out of places that refuse cash even if I’ve ordered something

I don’t mind if I choose to pay by card
but I don’t like being told I can’t pay cash

quocket · 13/04/2026 20:51

DPotter · 13/04/2026 20:18

Cash is a correct channel - it is, as they say, legal tender.

Bank transfer cost the seller - cash is free.
It may be more inconvienent for you I accept, however many people prefer dealing in cash andd that's fair enough

Cash isn’t free to bank into a business account

LoremIpsumCici · 13/04/2026 20:51

WoollyandSarah · 13/04/2026 20:38

A substantial amount of tax evasion in the UK is through cash-in-hand work. You obviously can't guarantee that this particular dog walker is evading tax, making fraudulent benefit claims or avoiding child maintenance, but there is more chance that they are doing if you pay cash. The gap between what tax should be paid and what is paid is £46bn. That's money that could be spent on the NHS, schools, filling potholes or whatever.

I'm sick of reading threads on MN where someone's ex is paying £7 a week because they've persuaded CMS that they don't earn anything, but their lifestyle doesn't match that. Posters are totally sympathetic on those threads, but then are fine with paying cash, sometimes with a discount. It's complete cognitive dissonance.

Most of that tax gap- 71% is from big businesses not paying corporation tax, excise taxes and NICs

sunsu · 13/04/2026 20:49

I was self-employed and often preferred to be paid by clients in cash. Sometimes I’d be chasing payments for weeks or would have to pay fees to the bank, etc. While you pay on time, perhaps others don’t and it’s easier to implement a blanket policy instead of trying to remember who pays by what method.

Yes, some people avoid taxes or child benefit by using cash but there are plenty other legal reasons. I also think it’s entirely up to the individual how he chooses to run his business.

CarolinaLiar · 13/04/2026 20:46

I haven’t paid cash for anything in years, so I’d find the having to withdraw it a minor inconvenience. But not a big problem.

fabstraction · 13/04/2026 20:44

Do what you want, but if you're happy with the service he offers, I'd rather pay in cash than have to find another dog walker. (And I'd rather stay on the good side of the person I'm entrusting with my dog.)

JustAnotherWhinger · 13/04/2026 20:44

CatJump · 13/04/2026 20:37

Its the obvious reason.
More likely to end up chasing cash payments as it involves going to withdraw cash rather than being able to log on and instantly transfer it.

My DDs both insist on cash payments for their PT jobs (dog walking/cat sitting and cleaning) as they find people remember much better.

My cleaner also does cash. Although she is confident enough to just be very black and white that if there’s no payment there she leaves. Makes no difference to me as we use cash at the local shops (butcher and fruit shop) anyways

LindorDoubleChoc · 13/04/2026 20:40

If you are earning a really low annual salary (ie. under £12,000 whatever it is per year) being paid by bank transfer is a real pita because you have to submit accounts (time consuming) only to be told you don't owe any tax.

I was recently considering taking a job for 9 hours a week on just above minimum wage. I would have wanted paying cash.

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