Trans nursery workers?

*small minority

Wouldn’t bother me but we had both Women and Men at my kids nursery (no idea if any were trans I never thought to ask)

What is this "gender" that they've changed? Do you really think they've swapped one set of likes and dislikes and natural aptitudes for another? What have they actually changed other than their name, pronouns and clothing?

I think the concerns you mention are entirely reasonable. It might also be worth looking into the reading materials and general approach to see if they are pushing a certain agenda. Also worth remembering that you can be completely clear and open with your child when they start asking questions. If the man moves to your site I would definitely move your child because in that environment it indicates that they are not taking safeguarding seriously.

Yes i would , as i would expect all Male staff to do changing as its not a sex act - its hygiene

they are vetted the same and now a days usually go to the toilet/ changing area in twos to avoid allegations ( or achual abuse ) from taking place

Ultimately it’s up to you, but you have to ask yourself whether it’s more important for you that your DC has a settlement environment, or who the staff are: you could move DC and then weeks or months down the line find the new setting also employs a transperson or a man, and you probably aren’t going to be wanting to move nursery whenever it happens. Likewise, your concerns about the staff member’s social media: any of the people working with your DC could have a mental health problem or beliefs at odds with yours, and just not be posting about any of it.

In true TRA style we jump straight to genitals. And worse you disregard the safeguarding risk of men working with children as recently seen in the press. Not all men, we know.

Its actually about beliefs and how this persons beliefs could be inappropriately instilled to a young child without the parents consent.

And the fact that the individual is managing complex mental and physical health conditions that in my view does compromise their ability to work with children and ensure appropriate safeguarding

I might not move straight away but I would monitor more closely, sensitively ask my child questions and look at alternative options in readiness.

The problem with this is the potential gaslighting of very young children.

The transman is NOT a man. Will this person insist on preferred pronouns? Are they an activist type who will tell the kids they can change sex if they want to? Many of these young trans people are like that because they believe it themselves.

It's not good to lie to children in this way. It teaches them to ignore their instincts and disbelieve the evidence of their own eyes. I'd be removing my child immediately. Frankly a business that is endorsing gender ideology is suspect anyway, even if my child was not personally being cared for by a trans person.

mental health issues! So I would say no.

I don’t want my child growing up with the false notion that you can change sex.

Would you be ok with a trans person who understands biology and knows they have only changed their gender?

Very few trans people think they have changed sex.

From a putrely practical point of view:
For all you know, other parents are having the same thoughts. I'd get my skates on about enquiring about spaces elsewhere, because you can't move if the spaces are gone.
Once you have that information then you can make a decision.

For a lot of men, cross-dressing is sexual behaviour.

So yes, that would worry me a lot.

I wouldn't have my child being indoctrinated in the lies that make up gender identity. It's why I didn't allow them to do Brownies or rainbows. A friend actually admitted that I was right that the "non binary" leader did take the chance to push her ideology and tell the children that she was neither a man or a woman.

Same.

My worry would be that gender - which is a load of stereotypes and regressive ideology - would become both accepted and promoted in an educational setting to the detriment of the children. Its hard enough for small children who are beginning to decipher sex to understand that short hair doesnt make you a boy, or liking pink a girl. That what's between your legs doesn't define your personality.

True. But I don't get that sex is a thing trusting nursery teachers or not.

I wouldn't like it. My concern would be with the fact that a woman was being introduced to my very young child as a man. I wouldn't want my nursery age child being exposed to the idea that people can change sex, or being told that an obviously female person is actually a man.
Whether I actually moved her would depend on how much I liked the nursery otherwise, and what alternatives were available, but if I left her there is be tempted to ask some questions of the staff about what the children were told about this person.

This too 💯

I wouldn't mind. It's a nursery teacher.

What about their sex? Is that your business? Would you want a trans woman (man) helping your DD use the toilet or changing her nappy?