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AIBU to want out after being love bombed so quickly

206 replies

Pistachioo · 13/04/2026 16:37

I know I am being love bombed. Relentless texting, false promises, the L word so soon. I want out of this relationship but what is the best way to escape this sort of person?

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OriginalSkang · 13/04/2026 16:42

I would just say that I'm afraid its not really working for me and that I wish him all the best

Maybe say a bit more depending on how long you've been together

I wouldn't give him the opportunity to hide his red flags by saying why!

And I wouldn't block him unless it becomes necessary, either

pinkyredrose · 13/04/2026 16:41

All this future faking is too insincere, i don't want to see you anymore.

Excited101 · 13/04/2026 16:40

‘I’m afraid this isn’t working for me. All the best’ and block. Job done.

takealettermsjones · 13/04/2026 16:40

Depends on the circumstances I guess. How long have you been dating? Don't live together presumably?

BMW6 · 13/04/2026 16:40

"You're completely OTT. I am NOT interested in seeing you again.
Please stop contacting me now."

Eightdayz · 13/04/2026 16:39

Yanbu in wanting to escape this person.

Yabu in not knowing how to dump someone.

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