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Was I unreasonable to "panic buy" on Saturday?

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ahsurelookit · 12/04/2026 19:34

I'm in Ireland there have been protests for nearly a week about the cost of fuel and how much of that cost is tax. Not the point of my post.

Where we are garages had sold out of fuel. Roads have been blocked. The ones in the bigger cities/ sites have been cleared today, Sunday.

I get the food shopping delivered every Monday. I do a weekly meal plan and basically run out of everything on a Sunday evening.

I was getting worried on Saturday about when this would end, so went into our one tiny over priced supermarket. We live rurally - on a farm- the bigger supermarkets are 20kms+ away . I did a very small shop and spent about €60 (milk, veg, fruit, flour, meat, rice, pasta few other small bits)

My relative said I shouldn't have done that. We were told not to panic buy. Yes I did panic. But I didn't go in and buy a tonne of things or stock pile. We have 2 young dc I was a little worried about it! If the roads are blocked we won't get our delivery.

Relative said it was outside my usual pattern so it was panic buying and I shouldn't have done it.

Was I wrong to do the shopping on Saturday?

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BarbiesDreamHome · 13/04/2026 09:32

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 21:06

That is an hilariously shit response 🤣 you obviously tried to go for a number of standard “winning PA responses on an internet forum” yet still managed to make none of them hit 😭😭

Sorry I took so long to reply, I was just crying into the abyss because your response was soooo cutting 🤣

VividPinkTraybake · 13/04/2026 00:17

daisychain01 · 12/04/2026 21:01

I'd ignore your relative from now on.

I imagine that won't be a problem

VividPinkTraybake · 13/04/2026 00:16

tellmesomethingtrue · 12/04/2026 19:36

Sounds like normal shopping. I thought that panic buying is when someone buys loads of each item, like 5 bags of flour or 10 bags of pasta. I assume your shop looked average?

Well obviously someone is mad in this chat. The o.p who has clearly set out why she wasn't panic buying or...the "friend" who has said this without reason...come on people

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 21:06

BarbiesDreamHome · 12/04/2026 21:04

You’d rather contact all those people and raise a welfare concern about your own children than go to supavalue? wait until there is an actual problem rather than panic buying expensive food.

^fixed your typo.

That is an hilariously shit response 🤣 you obviously tried to go for a number of standard “winning PA responses on an internet forum” yet still managed to make none of them hit 😭😭

CaffeinatedMum · 12/04/2026 21:05

I don’t live in Ireland but last week I added a few extra long life bits to my shop just in case we have any issues here. Not much, just a few bits, but definitely some would say that if everyone does that then you have a panic buying situation as the supply chains wouldn’t be prepared for it. I don’t care though, I never again want the fear of stepping into a supermarket while heavily pregnant and seeing just empty shelves all around like I did in Covid. Ever since then I’ve always been a little better prepared, I don’t think that’s a bad thing,

BarbiesDreamHome · 12/04/2026 21:04

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 20:44

You’d rather contact all those people and raise a welfare concern about your own children than go to supavalue? 🤣🤣

You’d rather contact all those people and raise a welfare concern about your own children than go to supavalue? wait until there is an actual problem rather than panic buying expensive food.

^fixed your typo.

daisychain01 · 12/04/2026 21:01

I'd ignore your relative from now on.

Eclipser · 12/04/2026 20:56

I’ve built up approx 3 months of dried, canned and frozen food, and I just keep that topped up. I really recommend this. It helps ride out storms, and shortages but also means I’m not running to the shop, out of turn, because I’ve run out of jam or tea. That’s saved me a small fortune because I always end up buying stuff I didn’t know I needed if I step inside a supermarket.

I built mine up slowly, and just focused on the things we use regularly. I keep my petrol tank topped up at the moment, only buying €10-20 at a time but just not letting it run low, so that hopefully I’ll get through a shortage.

It isn’t ideal when people change their habits suddenly because the shops aren’t set up to deal with that. But I wouldn’t risk bare cupboards with a young family either. It is what it is.

SparkyBlue · 12/04/2026 20:51

Tell your relative to go away and cop on. If the protests hadn’t ended today I bet lots of deliveries would have been cancelled this week so you’d have been left high and dry. DPD cancelled all deliveries on Saturday . DH got up at 7 am on Saturday to go get petrol and luckily our local filling station had gotten a delivery so he got both our cars filled. By 10 am they had run out. So things were strange and unpredictable.

Meteorite87 · 12/04/2026 20:48

ahsurelookit · 12/04/2026 19:43

Thanks the relative made me question myself and my husband said well you did do it out of panic.

Our usual weekly shop is between €120 and €150. I spent about €60 so it wasn't even close to a full shop.

Didn't even buy one packet of loo roll 😆 lol

If you didn't purchase any toilet roll, and no extra bread, that was not "panic buying" in the real sense 😉

You were anxious (understandably) and picked up a limited selection of your regular items.

aspirationalferret · 12/04/2026 20:47

We often do little top shops if we’ve run low or something has happened out of our control. Very normal. If you’d brought all the pasta and loo roll in sight then that would be panic buying!!

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 20:44

BarbiesDreamHome · 12/04/2026 20:14

I don't really understand why you did it.

I would have waited until Monday to see what happened and if the delivery didnt arrive then I would have gone to the shop. If the shop was out of food, I'd probably call the council, MP, social services, GP, anyone really and raised a welfare concern. It would have been sorted out. Noone is going to let kids starve.

You’d rather contact all those people and raise a welfare concern about your own children than go to supavalue? 🤣🤣

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:42

My relative was just telling me about this. I didn’t realise this was happening.

I think you were fine.

Bristolandlazy · 12/04/2026 20:40

When COVID was starting I saw people in supermarkets with multiple trolleys. I wouldn't think twice about buying that mid week. You're fine.

Unpaidviewer · 12/04/2026 20:38

After covid I will always be making sure that I have enough in for my child. In your situation I would make sure I had enough basics in for a couple of weeks.

We shopped as normally as we could of covid and it really screwed us over. I would go to the supermarket and not be able to buy pasta or tinned tomatoes. We ended up eating some crap meals.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 12/04/2026 20:14

I don’t think you did anything wrong @ahsurelookit. We just spent a week in Ireland, and by chance filled up on Wednesday before we knew about the protests. (The tv in our holiday cottage only had Disney+ and Netflix!)

I don’t think you’ve done anything wrong. Just hedging your bets a bit.

Good luck going forward. If there a shortage of Tayto crisps, I’m afraid that was down to us bribging a few bags home.

BarbiesDreamHome · 12/04/2026 20:14

I don't really understand why you did it.

I would have waited until Monday to see what happened and if the delivery didnt arrive then I would have gone to the shop. If the shop was out of food, I'd probably call the council, MP, social services, GP, anyone really and raised a welfare concern. It would have been sorted out. Noone is going to let kids starve.

Nananana90 · 12/04/2026 20:11

I'm in Dublin ireland and I just topped my diesel up to a full tank as most garages are running out. We couldn't get petrol for my mams car today it was sold out. I haven't panic bought anything only dog food. Once they are OK we will survive. Sure alot of the protests have stopped now

caringcarer · 12/04/2026 20:03

Your relative would rather you could not feed your DC? Panic buying g is when you buy about 200 rolls of toilet paper.

Besidemyselfwithworry · 12/04/2026 20:03

ahsurelookit · 12/04/2026 19:34

I'm in Ireland there have been protests for nearly a week about the cost of fuel and how much of that cost is tax. Not the point of my post.

Where we are garages had sold out of fuel. Roads have been blocked. The ones in the bigger cities/ sites have been cleared today, Sunday.

I get the food shopping delivered every Monday. I do a weekly meal plan and basically run out of everything on a Sunday evening.

I was getting worried on Saturday about when this would end, so went into our one tiny over priced supermarket. We live rurally - on a farm- the bigger supermarkets are 20kms+ away . I did a very small shop and spent about €60 (milk, veg, fruit, flour, meat, rice, pasta few other small bits)

My relative said I shouldn't have done that. We were told not to panic buy. Yes I did panic. But I didn't go in and buy a tonne of things or stock pile. We have 2 young dc I was a little worried about it! If the roads are blocked we won't get our delivery.

Relative said it was outside my usual pattern so it was panic buying and I shouldn't have done it.

Was I wrong to do the shopping on Saturday?

I’m sure a lot of people are getting afew extra bits in and it’s not like you were buying 20 bags of pasta, 24 tins of beans/soup/tomatoes to create a huge stockpile was it??? That happened during Covid round here (East Midlands) and people went crazy and all our local shops were then limiting people to just buying a couple of each thing.
I really wouldn’t worry at all, sounds like a regular top up shop to me x

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 19:59

Your relative is a loon. Although Covid taught us how much the people who love to criticise revel in a panic buy telling off

DramaAlpaca · 12/04/2026 19:57

My DH is about to go to Supervalu in a hunt for bread for his sandwiches tomorrow. Wish him luck...

ahsurelookit · 12/04/2026 19:55

Decacaffeinatednow · 12/04/2026 19:53

How does your relative know the minutiae of your life?

We were over earlier having a cuppa tea. And I said I went into supervalu. She knows I normally get it delivered.

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Decacaffeinatednow · 12/04/2026 19:53

How does your relative know the minutiae of your life?

freedomformeismotherhood · 12/04/2026 19:51

I would panic buy a little 😬