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Is London a crime infested shithole?

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Netcurtainnelly · 12/04/2026 14:36

Is London a crime infested shithole? 👀

A woman was gang raped after leaving a nightclub, has come up in the news today. I saw someone describing London as a crime infested shithole and it's not a safe place anymore.😫

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VickyEadieofThigh · 12/04/2026 15:27

Netcurtainnelly · 12/04/2026 15:19

It's not always safe getting a cab though.
John Warboys was a taxi driver

John Worboys committed his offences as a taxi driver 2007-8.

You'll find criminals in all cities, throughout time. Reaching back almost 20 years to suggest getting into a cab in London isn't safe is a stretch of ludicrous proportions.

SecondHandEmbarrassed · 12/04/2026 15:27

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 12/04/2026 15:15

I live in north london and work in town (soho)

Same! But I don’t feel scared. Interesting isn’t it how much is down to personal perspective.

Frazerblazer · 12/04/2026 15:26

It happened in Surrey.

is Surrey a crime infested shit hole?

ProudAmberTurtle · 12/04/2026 15:26

Meadowfinch · 12/04/2026 15:19

Funny you mentioning the Cut. Our last Xmas party was up there and returning to the tube afterwards, two employees had their phones stolen in separate incidents.

Friday night, lots of people around, man snatched a phone and when one of our team gave chase, he pulled a knife and stared him down. Not worth it, so let him walk away with it. That sums up London for me now. Get a cab and travel in groups for safety.

OMG

Thatsthebottomline · 12/04/2026 15:25

London is no worse now then its always been. Now if you want to move to somewhere like Hull I guarantee you’ll think of London as paradise.

ProudAmberTurtle · 12/04/2026 15:24

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 15:15

It “looked like he had a weapon”?

no offence but this sounds like a common or garden encounter with a nutter that happens everywhere

He was carrying / concealing something and being aggressive and extremely mad. I didn't hang around to find out what it was.

BillieWiper · 12/04/2026 15:23

Yeah Epsom is a small town in Surrey.

London is perfectly safe. It's a sophisticated huge city with different areas having different positives and negatives. But it's not a shit hole whatsoever. Not compared to plenty of other places in the UK.

BIWI · 12/04/2026 15:23

Netcurtainnelly · 12/04/2026 15:13

Not safe from terrorism at all.

Well, to be fair, no major city these days is. But we have had very few attacks since the London Bridge attack in 2019. Would suggest that the police and MI5 do a good job of keeping us sae.

Meadowfinch · 12/04/2026 15:22

CIaudetheCat · 12/04/2026 15:15

Nowhere is 100% safe from terrorism, is it? Terrorist attacks can happen anywhere. It ws the same back in the 80s when the IRA was active. I remember when there were some bombs left in litter bins in my local high street.

Err, I'm fairly sure Goldfinch Bottom, West Berkshire is not on anyone's terrorist hit list. 😁

CIaudetheCat · 12/04/2026 15:21

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 12/04/2026 15:15

I live in north london and work in town (soho)

I know north London very well indeed. Many of my friends are in Tottenham, Haringey and Archway. Also Edmonton and Enfield. They don't report lawlessness. In fact lots of areas of North London have been "gentrified" in recent years.

BIWI · 12/04/2026 15:20

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 12/04/2026 15:07

I've lived in london 40yrs.
We are approaching lawlessness now.

You can do what you like with virtual impunity.

Sadiq's solve for phone thefts is a yellow line...

I see abuse and violence on tfl far more regularly these days.

I just try and keep to myself.

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Where on earth do you live?!

I've lived in London for 45 years now and for most of that time used TfL daily. It's absurd to say that you're seeing that regularly.

What do you mean by this:

Sadiq's solve for phone thefts is a yellow line...

(Genuine question - I don't understand what you're trying to say)

ProudAmberTurtle · 12/04/2026 15:20

CIaudetheCat · 12/04/2026 15:11

I walked along the Cut and Lower Marsh every working day and also often in the evening for almost 20 years. There were a few interesting characters around, most memorably the man with no legs who used a sort of skateboard to scoot himself around. But no trouble from anyone. You were unlucky.

I don't remember the guy with no legs but also walked on The Cut almost every day for about 15 years (about 2005-2020)! Generally felt safe but maybe not towards the end.

Used to love the street food v near Waterloo - the Mexican in particular!

Netcurtainnelly · 12/04/2026 15:19

Meadowfinch · 12/04/2026 15:19

Funny you mentioning the Cut. Our last Xmas party was up there and returning to the tube afterwards, two employees had their phones stolen in separate incidents.

Friday night, lots of people around, man snatched a phone and when one of our team gave chase, he pulled a knife and stared him down. Not worth it, so let him walk away with it. That sums up London for me now. Get a cab and travel in groups for safety.

It's not always safe getting a cab though.
John Warboys was a taxi driver

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Meadowfinch · 12/04/2026 15:19

CIaudetheCat · 12/04/2026 15:11

I walked along the Cut and Lower Marsh every working day and also often in the evening for almost 20 years. There were a few interesting characters around, most memorably the man with no legs who used a sort of skateboard to scoot himself around. But no trouble from anyone. You were unlucky.

Funny you mentioning the Cut. Our last Xmas party was up there and returning to the tube afterwards, two employees had their phones stolen in separate incidents.

Friday night, lots of people around, man snatched a phone and when one of our team gave chase, he pulled a knife and stared him down. Not worth it, so let him walk away with it. That sums up London for me now. Get a cab and travel in groups for safety.

WednesdaysChild73 · 12/04/2026 15:17

BlakeCarrington · 12/04/2026 14:52

Glad you and others on the thread find the poor young woman’s gang rape such good comedy material. Gross.

Agree fucking it’s fucking vile @BlakeCarrington

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 15:17

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 12/04/2026 15:07

I've lived in london 40yrs.
We are approaching lawlessness now.

You can do what you like with virtual impunity.

Sadiq's solve for phone thefts is a yellow line...

I see abuse and violence on tfl far more regularly these days.

I just try and keep to myself.

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What does “Sadiq's solve for phone thefts is a yellow line...” mean?

IAxolotlQuestions · 12/04/2026 15:16

Nah. London is fine. Some areas have occasional problems, but overall it’s perfectly safe.

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 15:15

ProudAmberTurtle · 12/04/2026 15:02

I wouldn't describe it that way but I've had incidents about 20% of the time when I've had to go there in recent years.

One of the worst was walking down The Cut and some bloke came up to me and said I'd done something to him and needed to pay. He looked unhinged and It looked like he had a weapon on him. It was terrifying - this was about 6pm and everyone else just got out of the way in a 'mad bloke about to attack - clear' sort of way.

I think I assured him it was mistaken identity and he sort of let me go quite quickly without touching me. I basically ran for it the moment I had the chance.

I suppose that could have happened anywhere anytime but it's put me off London ever since.

It “looked like he had a weapon”?

no offence but this sounds like a common or garden encounter with a nutter that happens everywhere

CIaudetheCat · 12/04/2026 15:15

Netcurtainnelly · 12/04/2026 15:13

Not safe from terrorism at all.

Nowhere is 100% safe from terrorism, is it? Terrorist attacks can happen anywhere. It ws the same back in the 80s when the IRA was active. I remember when there were some bombs left in litter bins in my local high street.

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 12/04/2026 15:15

CIaudetheCat · 12/04/2026 15:13

Whereabouts are you?

I live in north london and work in town (soho)

Meadowfinch · 12/04/2026 15:14

I left London after 10 years (when I was 28) and was glad to go. I wasn't unsafe but I didn't feel comfortable going out at night by myself. Even then the grooming gangs were everywhere. Being a female undergrad could be risky.
Getting to know people was extremely hard, there seemed little sense of community and yes there were some nasty crimes and a lot of trivial ones that were still very wearying.
Now I live in a village where I know about half the 400 residents to chat to, and if I need help with anything, I can ask the village FB group. Usually someone is willing & able. Been here 15 years, lots of friends, no crime yet. A lovely place where I can run alone in the evenings without being hassled, and a decent place to raise ds.

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 15:14

unfortunately woman raped outside nightclub is not an unusual occurrence in any city or town in the uk. And I suspect, used to be even more common when nightclubs were more popular

CIaudetheCat · 12/04/2026 15:13

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 12/04/2026 15:07

I've lived in london 40yrs.
We are approaching lawlessness now.

You can do what you like with virtual impunity.

Sadiq's solve for phone thefts is a yellow line...

I see abuse and violence on tfl far more regularly these days.

I just try and keep to myself.

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Whereabouts are you?

GuineaPigWig · 12/04/2026 15:13

I just try and keep to myself

Probably best for everyone @SalmonOnFinnCrisp if you have that extreme perspective.

Netcurtainnelly · 12/04/2026 15:13

Not safe from terrorism at all.

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