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Is London a crime infested shithole?

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Netcurtainnelly · 12/04/2026 14:36

Is London a crime infested shithole? 👀

A woman was gang raped after leaving a nightclub, has come up in the news today. I saw someone describing London as a crime infested shithole and it's not a safe place anymore.😫

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BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:52

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 19:51

You can’t contribute to preserving the accents though!

I can do a really good Cockney though!

BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:52

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 19:48

@BIWI but it’s different to be born & raised somewhere no?

How so?

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 19:51

BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:47

You see, I do see myself as a True Londoner. I moved here when I was 21. I've lived here for 45 years.

You can’t contribute to preserving the accents though!

ilovesooty · 12/04/2026 19:51

It's deliberately disruptive tosh driven by Farage.

But I imagine @Netcurtainnelly knows that.

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 19:48

@BIWI but it’s different to be born & raised somewhere no?

BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:47

RosesAndHellebores · 12/04/2026 19:44

Me too @BIWI but I was born in the Home Counties and brought up there, arriving in London in 1980. I love London but don't think I'm a Londoner. We moved a little way away about ten years ago.

You see, I do see myself as a True Londoner. I moved here when I was 21. I've lived here for 45 years.

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 19:46

I think i’m a true Londoner, born in z1 & raised in z 2/3.

If I moved to Cornwall would I become Cornish after a certain number of years?

RosesAndHellebores · 12/04/2026 19:44

Me too @BIWI but I was born in the Home Counties and brought up there, arriving in London in 1980. I love London but don't think I'm a Londoner. We moved a little way away about ten years ago.

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 19:44

I think it’s changed somewhat.

I grew up in a then fairly sketchy part, normal to see prostitution & druggies in the day etc but you knew where to avoid at certain times. As long as I stuck to the advice I was fine.

London in the 90s was dirtier, poorer & likely more crime ridden than now. However I did feel the area I live in became more dangerous for my children which I disliked, so many muggings of young boys on the way home from school. My neighbours son was mugged by a child with a knife on a busy street in the afternoon. That just didn’t happen when I was young & if it did more people would intervene.

Wolmando · 12/04/2026 19:44

We never go there nowadays

RosesAndHellebores · 12/04/2026 19:41

BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:31

Born to the sound of Bow Bells

No. That's not about being a 'true Londoner' (whatever the fuck that is). That's the definition of a true Cockney. Totally different.

A true cockney is born within earshot of St Mary Le Bow on Cheapside. I think they have a wide range. I imagine a true Londoner is born and brought up in a London Borough.

WallowingInMud · 12/04/2026 19:40

BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:31

Born to the sound of Bow Bells

No. That's not about being a 'true Londoner' (whatever the fuck that is). That's the definition of a true Cockney. Totally different.

You say tomAYto I say tomAH’O.

Because I was born in Zone 1 and, when they were a thing, had an 071 phone number.

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 19:38

BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:34

I've lived here since 1981. From The North. Oh - how dare I! When will you agree I'm a 'true Londoner'?

I promise you that I'm fully integrated.

I’m not a true Londoner either

BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:34

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 19:15

I actually do agree the death of the true Londoner is a tragedy. When I moved to London in 1998 you could still tell whether someone was north east south or west London by their accent. Now the London accent is diluted to the point of lost really.

they all had to ship out to Kent and Essex to make way for Sophie and James from Berkshire to buy their first flat in the docklands

I've lived here since 1981. From The North. Oh - how dare I! When will you agree I'm a 'true Londoner'?

I promise you that I'm fully integrated.

BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:31

Born to the sound of Bow Bells

No. That's not about being a 'true Londoner' (whatever the fuck that is). That's the definition of a true Cockney. Totally different.

Echobelly · 12/04/2026 19:28

I've lived here for almost all of my 48 years, mostly in 'nice' parts, sometimes in ones not considered so nice. Crime ebbs and flows as in any big city, but I wouldn't say I feel less safe. Things have definitely become dirtier and more run down with more visible homelessness after so many years of Tory austerity but it doesn't make me feel endangered, it's just sad.

It's worse in the least privileged communities but 'gang related' violence only tends to affect people who have some connection with that culture (doesn't mean they are gang members but if they have family/friends involved or go to a school college where there are gang members it may affect you, otherwise unlikely to). Basically other than phone snatching stuff that happens in any city, casual visitors and people from areas without much gang violence and not likely to be affected by gang related crime, which is what a lot of people's panic seems to be about.

MyBrightPeer · 12/04/2026 19:19

No, it isn’t. It is a city of millions of people though so of course there is more crime than local tiny village.

The way some people talk about a place people live is grim. You don’t want to live here? Fine. Don’t live here.

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 19:15

WallowingInMud · 12/04/2026 18:56

Born to the sound of Bow Bells or similar. Reclaiming from all the day trippers and tourists who clog our streets obvs.

I actually do agree the death of the true Londoner is a tragedy. When I moved to London in 1998 you could still tell whether someone was north east south or west London by their accent. Now the London accent is diluted to the point of lost really.

they all had to ship out to Kent and Essex to make way for Sophie and James from Berkshire to buy their first flat in the docklands

WallowingInMud · 12/04/2026 18:56

CousinBette · 12/04/2026 17:52

What’s a true Londoner? How are you reclaiming the city? From who?

Born to the sound of Bow Bells or similar. Reclaiming from all the day trippers and tourists who clog our streets obvs.

Tryagain26 · 12/04/2026 18:02

Netcurtainnelly · 12/04/2026 17:04

Do stop being so patronising. I copied this from social media Not my words.

Where do you live?
You posted the link about a horrible crime that took place not in London to ask your question about how safe London is.

Jc2001 · 12/04/2026 17:58

BlakeCarrington · 12/04/2026 14:52

Glad you and others on the thread find the poor young woman’s gang rape such good comedy material. Gross.

It's a shame that the op used the poor woman's gang rape as a launchpad for such a goody thread.

Tryagain26 · 12/04/2026 17:56

zurigo · 12/04/2026 14:52

It's bad for petty crime, that's for sure. Both my DH and my DS have had their mobile phones stolen - DH's was snatched out of his hand outside a tube station (and yes, he knows what an idiot he was to have it out), and DS and his friend were mugged for theirs on the tube. It's always been bad though. I was robbed and mugged in London in the early 2000s too. I am now very careful and very vigilant. I don't wear nice jewellery, I don't get my phone out in public unless I've checked my surroundings first - it's a shit way to have to live.

I have had my phone and purse stolen in a small town. It happens everywhere

CousinBette · 12/04/2026 17:52

WallowingInMud · 12/04/2026 14:44

The more that believe this the more we true Londoners can reclaim our city.

So - yes of course this is 💯 correct blanket assessment of a conurbation that covers many miles and 10 million plus inhabitants.

What’s a true Londoner? How are you reclaiming the city? From who?

Tryagain26 · 12/04/2026 17:51

No it isn't
London is a lively vibrant and very interesting city.
Of course there is crime, there is some crime in every city, town and village in the world. London is no more violent or crime ridden than other major world cities and much less so than many.
Epsom isn't in London though it's a fairly affluent town in Surrey

BIWI · 12/04/2026 17:49

@Netcurtainnelly

I copied this from social media

Then you need to use a bit more critical thinking.

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