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Is London a crime infested shithole?

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Netcurtainnelly · 12/04/2026 14:36

Is London a crime infested shithole? 👀

A woman was gang raped after leaving a nightclub, has come up in the news today. I saw someone describing London as a crime infested shithole and it's not a safe place anymore.😫

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ArtAngel · 12/04/2026 22:13

Well all the stupid sheep sucking up the Bots and R Wing social media will be sorry soon. Because unfortunately the belief that London is a lawless, Shariah-governed shit hole of a death trap is beginning to affect tourism.

And London is the biggest net contributor to the GDP: 5 times higher than the next contributor, Manchester. Frighten the tourists and the international service industries and finance sector away (even more than the R Wing and Bot driven Brexit thinking did) and the impact will be badly felt by cosy village dwellers across the land.

The OP is an obvious troll

HoppityBun · 12/04/2026 21:13

WallowingInMud · 12/04/2026 19:40

You say tomAYto I say tomAH’O.

Because I was born in Zone 1 and, when they were a thing, had an 071 phone number.

And I was born when we had letters followed by 4 numbers. A Cockney is a Londoner. A Londoner is not necessarily a Cockney. But these days you’d practically have to be born on the steps of the church to be able to hear the bells.

DdraigGoch · 12/04/2026 21:12

BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:59

@lovealieinortwo given that I've lived here for twice as long as I lived previously, I definitely claim that I'm a Londoner.

Fuck me, I even support a London football team.

You could be a true Londoner and support Manchester United. They wouldn't have many fans left otherwise...

DdraigGoch · 12/04/2026 21:08

RosesAndHellebores · 12/04/2026 19:41

A true cockney is born within earshot of St Mary Le Bow on Cheapside. I think they have a wide range. I imagine a true Londoner is born and brought up in a London Borough.

What if they live in the London Borough of Haringey but claim to be in Middlesex?

Squirrelsnut · 12/04/2026 20:53

I never feel unsafe in London, really. There are 10 million+ people there, so obviously there will be 'more' crime, but on the whole it's safe if you use common sense.

Whatafustercluck · 12/04/2026 20:46

It's a narrative that Reform like to push, on the basis that they despise Sadiq Khan. It's also a narrative that Elon Musk likes to push.

I don't live in London, but I've visited frequently for both work and leisure over the years (including twice per week for the past couple of years). I've never felt unsafe there, even as a lone woman of coming home late at night.

HRTQueen · 12/04/2026 20:35

No it is not but there are certainly concerns around crime as there has always been in a large city like London

Crime patterns change there is more knife crime but less home breaks ins and car theft which impacted everyone I knew at some point

knife crime didn’t so much in the 80/90’s but every teenager I know has a knife story to tell which is very sad but they don’t seem bothered it’s how life is

Chocaholick · 12/04/2026 20:32

No.

I don’t get this ‘everything is so dangerous now, you used to be able to leave your front door open’ thing.

Seriously how old are you? Do you remember the 90s and early 2000s? Happy slapping, mugging, teen pregnancy, hoodies, drugs EVERYWHERE, town centres were filled with packs of tracksuited yobbos stealing or trying to nick your handbag, chav culture was a BIG thing. Rape wasn’t really reported - I can think of multiple rapes which happened when I was a teenager that were never acknowledged as ‘crimes’, more unlucky-but-what-do-you-expect-going-out-late-in-that-short-skirt.

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:30

I can’t remember that, but do remember paying 30p.

@Wishitwas1996 I felt very adult when I got mine 😆

Wishitwas1996 · 12/04/2026 20:25

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:21

Off topic but my travel card was so cheap back in the 90s!

I was thinking recently how much I loved my travel card when I moved to London in the early 90s. It made me feel like I had some kind of access all areas pass (along with millions of others).

WallowingInMud · 12/04/2026 20:23

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:21

Off topic but my travel card was so cheap back in the 90s!

Do you remember when it was 5p for kids on the bus?

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:21

Off topic but my travel card was so cheap back in the 90s!

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 12/04/2026 20:19

BIWI · 12/04/2026 19:57

@SalmonOnFinnCrisp

Sadiq's solve for phone thefts is a yellow line...

You still haven't said what you mean by this. I'm not the only poster who has asked you to explain. And it's a genuine question - I really don't understand what you mean.

I tell a lie.
Purple lines "mind the grab"

CocoaTea · 12/04/2026 20:17

BIWI · 12/04/2026 14:48

@Netcurtainnelly

I saw someone describing London as a crime infested shithole and it's not a safe place anymore.

Who was that then?

You need to understand that this is an increasingly well-worn 'tale' told by the far-right.

(And see PP for correction about the rape story - where did you get that from that you didn't even get the right location?)

Thank you!

@Netcurtainnelly It’s so tiresome when people post these type of posts with zero fact checking.

Passingthrough123 · 12/04/2026 20:16

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:13

@Passingthrough123 I was born in North London but raised in South, class myself as Sarf obvs.

I lived south when I moved to London at 23 but fell in love with someone from north of the river and moved. Sarf in my bones though.

Newyearawaits · 12/04/2026 20:14

Born and raised in London, an amazing city that is vibrant and full of culture.
There are good and not so good things everywhere. It really irritates me when people say to me that they are scared of coming to London.

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:13

Passingthrough123 · 12/04/2026 20:07

Agree! You're either south of the river or north of the river, end of.

@Passingthrough123 I was born in North London but raised in South, class myself as Sarf obvs.

RosesAndHellebores · 12/04/2026 20:13

I think we all have to accept we view things differently.

EndorsingPRActice · 12/04/2026 20:12

I’ve worked in London for over 35 years and commuted in and out and socialised there and I love it. I feel quite safe.

WallowingInMud · 12/04/2026 20:11

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:09

Yes they were, I used to have to buy a travel card to go to school!

Yes. There was an inner and outer zone.

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:11

Well no, not really. I just don't think that what you're saying makes any sense

But it makes sense to me & all the other posters disagreeing with you.

Your stance doesn’t make sense to me at all.

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:10

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 20:08

How can you say you’re a true whatever when you weren’t born or brought up somewhere? Your upbringing/ childhood is a huge, formative part of what you are.

I do think it’s odd to diminish that but @BIWI has made up their mind!

BIWI · 12/04/2026 20:10

Well no, not really. I just don't think that what you're saying makes any sense.

And I say that very calmly, with a strong sense of zen ...

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:09

BIWI · 12/04/2026 20:08

No I'm not angsty Grin
I just think you're talking bollocks.

Hit a nerve then? 😆

lovealieinortwo · 12/04/2026 20:09

Itsmetheflamingo · 12/04/2026 20:06

zones Are bollocks. They’re just invented by tfl. South London wasn’t even in zones 20 years ago.

real Londoners don’t talk zones 🤨

Yes they were, I used to have to buy a travel card to go to school!