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Would this be an improvement on eating chocolate? Or would it be worse?

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Chocccg · 12/04/2026 12:16

I eat so much chocolate and I know it’s so unhealthy. Aside from that I do eat generally well and I’m not overweight. But I know I eat too much sugar as I can easily eat say three Mars bars in one night or two packs of biscuits etc.

I’ve tried cutting it back and not buying it as often but find it incredibly hard. I wondered if I put a bit of sugar on fruit would that be a start to improve or is that actually more sugar than what’s in a bar of chocolate?!

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Jaipurrrr · 12/04/2026 13:44

Madarch · 12/04/2026 13:20

Another dates (in moderation) fan here!

I take the stone out and add a splodge of peanut butter.

Better than them snickers bars.

Make a batch of these - then drip melted dark chocolate and freeze - take out 2 every morning for your end of day treat.

UniquePinkSwan · 12/04/2026 13:35

Why would you add sugar to fruit when it already has loads of sugar in it? Yes, the sugar in fruit is still sugar before anyone comments

BillieWiper · 12/04/2026 13:31

Have you tried protein bars? They're more filling but equally sweet as regular chocolate bars. And they're more expensive too so that's an incentive not to eat loads.

You can't really binge on them I don't think as they're kinda sickly. But they are better for you than regular candy I think.

Madarch · 12/04/2026 13:28

Chocccg · 12/04/2026 12:27

But how much sugar is in a bar of chocolate versus a spoonful on fruit?

You can compare calories and it's likely they'd be on a par, but a Mars bar is nutritionally void. Fruit at least contains fibre and other nutritinal goodies. The fibre in the fruit also stops you from binging.

I would avoid adding refined sugar totally (including fruit syrups which are worse than your common or garden refined granulated sugar due to fructose content)

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 12/04/2026 13:24

AlPaccacino · 12/04/2026 13:16

We used to have raw rhubarb and a little bowl of sugar. So sweet and sour

I hate rhubarb cooked (makes it too soft) but this sounds absolutely delicious since I love sour and sweet. I love things like Sour Patch Kids but would like a more natural version obviously!

Madarch · 12/04/2026 13:22

And, if i REALLY need chocolate, I keep a stash of greater than 80% 'proper' chocolate and bust out a cpuple of squares when I need it.

WarriorN · 12/04/2026 13:21

Upgrade slowly to darker chocolate. Start with normal dark cadburies and then move to 70%.

I had to move up to 85 and sometimes 90 as my tastes changed 😆 but there’s only so much you can eat if that. Eat it very slowly.

Eat more protein snacks like low fat baby bels , nuts and seeds.

CoastalCalm · 12/04/2026 13:20

I like a bowl of still frozen fruit - mango and mixed berries to which I sprinkle a little sugar , takes a while to eat and fills that snack urge when watching tv

Madarch · 12/04/2026 13:20

Another dates (in moderation) fan here!

I take the stone out and add a splodge of peanut butter.

Better than them snickers bars.

AlPaccacino · 12/04/2026 13:16

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 12/04/2026 12:31

My favorite memories are having strawberries dipped in sugar with my gran. She didn’t give me many processed sweets of any type; it was a lot of either home made puddings in which case you couldn’t really eat double or the whole family would be going on about one person hogging it, or thinks like this - sweet cup of tea, strawberries with sugar. I mean, on the whole strawberries with sugar is about 100x better for you than a chocolate bar that has even more sugar than that, plus saturated fat, plus God knows what oils.

We used to have raw rhubarb and a little bowl of sugar. So sweet and sour

Unicornsandprincesses · 12/04/2026 13:10

PandyMoanyMum · 12/04/2026 12:19

Have you tried eating dates? I find they taste chocolate-y and sweet and can help as a substitute?

This is what I was going to suggest. 2 dates and some squares of the darkest chocolate you can stand. It gives me the “hit”. I even like to dip the chocolate in a cuppa 😆

the dates (only will buy medjool or noice ones. Anything else is too dry) are so full of fibre and other stuff that I believe it doesn’t spike your blood sugar to much. So you don’t get the same crash. But it tastes like sticky toffee pudding so it’s yummy

Breadcat24 · 12/04/2026 13:05

@Chocccg In addition to the chocolate the Mars bars have toffee which is just sugar.
Spooning sugar on fruit might be a bit difficult to control the quantity you add.
Also it my not be the "sweet" you crave but also the fattiness of the chocolate.
Could you melt a small amount of dark chocolate and drizzle it lightly over the fruit.
Chocolate tastes stronger when warm so you only need a very small amount.
Then you get the added benefit of the fibre and vitamins in the fruit rather than just empty calories

YouCantOpenAWindowInSpace · 12/04/2026 13:04

PandyMoanyMum · 12/04/2026 12:19

Have you tried eating dates? I find they taste chocolate-y and sweet and can help as a substitute?

I came on to recommend dates -but only 4 or 5 a day.

They are packed with fibre, low GI, delicious and sweet but are full of calories.
Honey or maple syrup isn’t that much of a better option than refined sugar tbh, it’s still sugar, albeit a little less processed with some nutritional benefits.

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 12/04/2026 12:59

Chocccg · 12/04/2026 12:27

But how much sugar is in a bar of chocolate versus a spoonful on fruit?

Chocolate is about 50% by weight (so 100g bar is about 50g sugar, plus a lot of fat too which has higher calorific density)

A (5ml) teaspoon of sugar is about 5g of sugar.

A strawberry (low sugar fruit) is about 5g per 100g (much of it is water).

Fruit is not a good substitute for chocolate though - it hits differently primarily given the low fat content which reduces that "had enough" feeling.

My advice:
A) Don't buy chocolate when you shop - easier to resist once and not buy it, than every time you open the cupboard.
B) Buy 80% dark chocolate and only eat small lumps

LadyKenya · 12/04/2026 12:59

Meredusoleil · 12/04/2026 12:20

I am nearly as bad as you, probably a bar of chocolate per day. At worst, maybe 2. So I would definitely say adding sugar to something like strawberries is better!

But I'm sure someone else will come along shortly and remind us that fruit has naturally occurring sugar etc and that it should be enough without adding any more 🙄

Which is perfectly true. Mangoes that are sweet, melons that are sweet, would not require any sugar to be added on top.

watchingthishtread · 12/04/2026 12:56

I suspect that the sugar isn't the problem. It might be worth trying to cut out ultra processed foods. They are designed to be addictive. Non ultra processed sweet foods won't be nearly as bad for you. Make a cake or cookies. Something like this https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/microwave-mug-cake takes no skill and doesn't have all the awful ingredients of a mars bar.

Chocolate microwave mug cakes with napkin and spoons

Microwave mug cake

Need a quick chocolate fix? Try making this easy microwave mug cake with storecupboard ingredients. It's even more delicious with a scoop of vanilla ice cream

https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/microwave-mug-cake

EmpressaurusKitty · 12/04/2026 12:55

curlyfriess · 12/04/2026 12:45

Dates with peanut butter are quite good. Better for that chocolate hit though is Montezumas 100% dark orange chocolate (dark chocolate generally still has loads of sugar but this is sugar free), melt it and add sugar free muslei and make them into cornflake cake type things.

100% is the best though it takes some working up to. I didn’t know Montezuma did a 100% dark orange.

curlyfriess · 12/04/2026 12:45

Dates with peanut butter are quite good. Better for that chocolate hit though is Montezumas 100% dark orange chocolate (dark chocolate generally still has loads of sugar but this is sugar free), melt it and add sugar free muslei and make them into cornflake cake type things.

zantez · 12/04/2026 12:41

Melt a either dairy, white or dark choc, or all three in separate little bowls, dip the tip of your strawberries in it. Allow to set. Sit back, and enjoy.

whatisforteamum · 12/04/2026 12:34

Just limit the chocolate increase the fruits until the balance is achieved.
Cutting out chocolate is a way to make you want it more.
Speaking as someone who has had an eating disorder.Good luck.
Also find out why you binge these foods are you lonely..bored .

Newmeagain · 12/04/2026 12:33

You need to understand what is driving you to eat three mars bars a day. There have been studies that show that what we eat has a profound impact on our gut biome, which acts as a second brain. If you are consistently eating lots of sugar and other junk you disrupt all the usual signals in your body and basically develop cravings for more and more junk.

you need a complete reset.

Kittkats · 12/04/2026 12:33

A cup of strawberries contains 1.5 teaspoons of sugar.
A mars bar contains 7.5 teaspoons of sugar.
Even if you added a couple of teaspoons of sugar to the strawberries it’s still less than half a mars bar.

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 12/04/2026 12:31

Meredusoleil · 12/04/2026 12:20

I am nearly as bad as you, probably a bar of chocolate per day. At worst, maybe 2. So I would definitely say adding sugar to something like strawberries is better!

But I'm sure someone else will come along shortly and remind us that fruit has naturally occurring sugar etc and that it should be enough without adding any more 🙄

My favorite memories are having strawberries dipped in sugar with my gran. She didn’t give me many processed sweets of any type; it was a lot of either home made puddings in which case you couldn’t really eat double or the whole family would be going on about one person hogging it, or thinks like this - sweet cup of tea, strawberries with sugar. I mean, on the whole strawberries with sugar is about 100x better for you than a chocolate bar that has even more sugar than that, plus saturated fat, plus God knows what oils.

Evaka · 12/04/2026 12:29

I blend up frozen mango with kefir or yoghurt and it honestly kills any sugar cravings (haribo/fizzy jelly shite is my downfall).

mindutopia · 12/04/2026 12:29

Well, fruit would be better in the sense that it’s more fibre, which we all need.

Why not just switch to dark chocolate or dark chocolate dipped frozen banana slices or drizzle some chocolate over medjool dates and stick in the fridge?

You still get the chocolate, but less ultra processed food and more fibre. It’s simply a habit and you need to break it and then you won’t even think about it anymore.

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