Morning all,
My dd20 lives at home.
She often stays over at boyfriend’s house. She could be there 3 days and nights, then home from a day then back again. She also could be home for 5 days and go there at the weekend. Sometimes I feel she is never here, then other times she is here for a week.
She now has a job in same town as boyfriend, so it feels like home every other night (works part time, hours change weekly).
We are really struggling financially. I mentioned her paying rent and it was a flat out no. She says as she is rarely here why should she.
I do understand her 20 year old view on this, but at the end of the day she does no housework apart from will clean bathroom about once a week if lucky. Doesn’t help with cooking or do her own laundry, put her dishes in dishwasher, you get the picture.
She does however take 1 hour showers or run a huge deep bath.
What is fair here? What would you do?
Thanks