Reading threads on here and noticed that a lot of people suggested joint parties to save money. Parties are really expensive so I messaged another mum with a birthday around the same time as ds to see if she’d like to throw them a joint party.
She’s replied in a way that’s made me feel really awkward, made it kind of plain that she thinks it’s a really odd suggestion.
I don’t know how to leave it now! Wish I’d never asked.