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to think it’s time to ban dogs from shops and cafes?

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timetoban · 10/04/2026 13:07

I’ve just read a BBC article about the increase in dog attacks in the UK.

Dogs seem to be everywhere now. Cafes, shops, even places where food is being served. I’m not anti-dog at all, but I don’t really want to be eating or shopping surrounded by them.

It’s not just about preference either. Some people are allergic, some are genuinely scared, and others just don’t want to deal with barking, smells or dogs getting under their feet. The BBC piece even mentioned people feeling like they have to avoid going out because dogs are everywhere now.

I also don’t really get how it’s hygienic in places serving food. I know people say “well-behaved dogs are fine” but not all dogs are well-behaved, and staff aren’t exactly going to challenge every owner.

Before anyone says it, yes obviously assistance dogs are different and should be allowed. That’s not what I mean.

I just feel like we’ve swung too far the other way where dog owners expect to take them absolutely everywhere, and everyone else just has to put up with it.

Surely it’s not unreasonable to have more dog-free indoor spaces again?

OP posts:
PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:28

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 17:19

You really don't need to be a 'frothing dog hater' to not want dogs in cafes.

You're right @ConstanzeMozart.

There are two camps here.

People who don't want dogs in cafes. Fair play.

Then there are spitting mad, hateful anti-dog posters Mainly a handful of regular haters and the odd specially-designed-user-name provocateur. Frothing.

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 17:28

RS1987 · 10/04/2026 17:27

I agree. You always used to see dogs tied up outside shops when I was a kid, you never see it now.

A dog tied up outside is not in control by its owner.

RS1987 · 10/04/2026 17:27

Untailored · 10/04/2026 13:17

Is it partly because people don’t want to leave dogs tied up outside anymore? Fear of dognapping?

I agree. You always used to see dogs tied up outside shops when I was a kid, you never see it now.

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 17:26

I’m so sorry @YeOldeGreyhound , it’s just hideous, isn’t it?
I still keep a collar and lead on the coat rack belonging to a very good girl who died nearly two years ago.
I do pity these dog haters, really I do. And ‘frothing’ is absolutely the right word.

ladyofshertonabbas · 10/04/2026 17:25

i do t think it’s feasible to cater to everyone’s fears/ phobias or allergies. Where would the line be drawn? A dangerous dog, however, shouldn’t be inside or outside a cafe, or anywhere at all.

Gingercatlover · 10/04/2026 17:25

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 10/04/2026 13:20

Christ, the daily "dogs in cafes" post. 🙄

You know you can scroll right on by?

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 10/04/2026 17:24

Don’t go where they allow dogs. Just like I can’t go where people take small children unless I want a splitting headache for the rest of the day.

Not sure of the issue.

LighthouseLola · 10/04/2026 17:23

Vote with your money and tell businesses why

I have a hotel booked in a couple of weeks for a short holiday in the UK.
I injured my knee recently and can't manage stairs so rang said hotel to ask for one of their downstairs courtyard rooms. They told me it would be £20 extra per night for a dog. "A dog? I haven't got a dog!" Oh, she said, she thought I was asking for a courtyard room because downstairs rooms are their dog friendly rooms. I said I didn't want to stay in a room where a dog had been so I'd have to cancel. She said it was too late to cancel and I'd be charged the first night.
I said I won't be paying that. Two weeks notice should be enough if they can't guarantee a dander/hair free room. Anyway, manager later agreed it was fair comment. I do, however, have to now find another hotel.

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 17:22

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:16

I am often in central London and can honestly say I have rarely been to a place with fewer dogs. I'm a country dweller and the lack of dogs was really noticeable to me.

Bath is essentially a small city in the country so I'm not surprised you saw dogs there, but in the centre? Not really 'loads'.

Places in Bath that won't allow dogs
Sally Lunn
Wetherspoons
The Olive Tree
Premier Inn
Browns (indoors)
Pret a Manger
The Pump Rooms

Just an example, I'm sure there are many more.

I'm talking about my Zone 2 neighbourhood rather than Leicester Square or Soho etc. It's hoaching with them.
I don't know why you're trying to say I didn't see loads of dogs in Bath. Why would I lie? Hmm
I didn't say I saw them in cafes etc; I meant just around town. As a tourist, I was largely in the centre, and yes, believe it or not, there were a lot.

Icecreamandcoffee · 10/04/2026 17:21

I really wish we went back to assistance dogs only in cafes and shops. Cafes especially for hygiene reasons.

The main reason for this is due to the huge number of poorly trained dogs and dogs not kept under appropriate control. There are swathes of very poor owners who have no idea what a properly in control and well trained dog looks like and it is creating issues for other dog owners.

There needs to be a huge undertaking of education or dog owners of what a properly in control and properly trained dog looks like. Dogs that paw/ jump/climb or think they can sit on furniture are not well trained. Dogs that beg for scraps and for fuss are properly trained. Dogs that bark or react in any way to another animal, human or wheeled vehicle (pram/ pushchair/ cycle/ children's scooters/ motorised vehicles)are not properly trained. Dogs that cannot pass other animals, humans or wheeled vehicle are not properly trained. Dogs that pull on leads, scent mark in inappropriate places and do not have instant reliable recall are not properly trained. Dogs that approach random strangers without direct instruction from their owners are not properly trained.

There are far too many dogs sitting on cafe chairs, standing on cafe tables, licking plates in cafes clean, begging for scraps and fuss, barking for attention, scent marking soft furnishings and clothing, trailing around cafe's on long leads, approaching people/ animals/ wheeled vehicles without owner instruction, barking or reacting to other animals/ humans/ wheeled vehicles, pulling on leads, jumping up at strangers. This is poor behaviour and shows poor ownership behaviour.

Bradbury4858 · 10/04/2026 17:20

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 17:19

You absolutely should let business owners know @dooradadooradeh , but let’s hope you also keep those cafes etc going in the dead of winter, when it’s often just dog walkers who are actually spending money in them.

A lot of cafes simply wouldn’t survive without dog owners and they know it.

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 17:19

You absolutely should let business owners know @dooradadooradeh , but let’s hope you also keep those cafes etc going in the dead of winter, when it’s often just dog walkers who are actually spending money in them.

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 17:19

Bradbury4858 · 10/04/2026 17:10

Approximately 36% to 41% of households in the UK own a dog, with an estimated population of 11 to 15.5 million pet dogs. Data suggests over one-third of UK households include at least one dog, and roughly four in ten people live with a dog. The majority of dog-owning households (74%) have one dog.

That’s a lot of business to turn down! All the best cafes and pubs are dog friendly, they have a much nicer vibe. We have so many other customers coming over to pet our dog saying they wish they had one. You chat and it’s such nice atmosphere. The frothing dog haters can stay away.

You really don't need to be a 'frothing dog hater' to not want dogs in cafes.

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 17:17

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2026 17:07

I've always got poo bags, even when I don't have my dogs with me.

Me too, and my dog died in Jan.

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:16

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 17:08

In London, and yes there are loads.
I was also in Bath for a week recently and there were tons there too.

I am often in central London and can honestly say I have rarely been to a place with fewer dogs. I'm a country dweller and the lack of dogs was really noticeable to me.

Bath is essentially a small city in the country so I'm not surprised you saw dogs there, but in the centre? Not really 'loads'.

Places in Bath that won't allow dogs
Sally Lunn
Wetherspoons
The Olive Tree
Premier Inn
Browns (indoors)
Pret a Manger
The Pump Rooms

Just an example, I'm sure there are many more.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 10/04/2026 17:16

Boomer55 · 10/04/2026 17:13

I wish. Who needs to take dogs to cafes and shops anyway? They’re not children - leave them at home sometimes. 🙄

Dogs aren’t my favourite either but the anti dog frothing on here is hilarious.

I don’t go in cafes etc because the sound of small children squealing and crying sets me off on sensory overload. And of course I can’t go to a child free place as there isn’t any such thing. So I do what I need to do.

If you can’t stand dogs, don’t go anywhere that’s dog friendly.

Boomer55 · 10/04/2026 17:13

timetoban · 10/04/2026 13:07

I’ve just read a BBC article about the increase in dog attacks in the UK.

Dogs seem to be everywhere now. Cafes, shops, even places where food is being served. I’m not anti-dog at all, but I don’t really want to be eating or shopping surrounded by them.

It’s not just about preference either. Some people are allergic, some are genuinely scared, and others just don’t want to deal with barking, smells or dogs getting under their feet. The BBC piece even mentioned people feeling like they have to avoid going out because dogs are everywhere now.

I also don’t really get how it’s hygienic in places serving food. I know people say “well-behaved dogs are fine” but not all dogs are well-behaved, and staff aren’t exactly going to challenge every owner.

Before anyone says it, yes obviously assistance dogs are different and should be allowed. That’s not what I mean.

I just feel like we’ve swung too far the other way where dog owners expect to take them absolutely everywhere, and everyone else just has to put up with it.

Surely it’s not unreasonable to have more dog-free indoor spaces again?

I wish. Who needs to take dogs to cafes and shops anyway? They’re not children - leave them at home sometimes. 🙄

Bradbury4858 · 10/04/2026 17:10

Approximately 36% to 41% of households in the UK own a dog, with an estimated population of 11 to 15.5 million pet dogs. Data suggests over one-third of UK households include at least one dog, and roughly four in ten people live with a dog. The majority of dog-owning households (74%) have one dog.

That’s a lot of business to turn down! All the best cafes and pubs are dog friendly, they have a much nicer vibe. We have so many other customers coming over to pet our dog saying they wish they had one. You chat and it’s such nice atmosphere. The frothing dog haters can stay away.

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 17:08

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 10/04/2026 17:04

Where do you lot live that there’s millions of dogs in every street?

As a PP said it’s clearly a business decision.

Just like when there’s a discussion on child free pubs etc - if it was financially viable, people would do it.

In London, and yes there are loads.
I was also in Bath for a week recently and there were tons there too.

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2026 17:07

I've always got poo bags, even when I don't have my dogs with me.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 10/04/2026 17:07

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 17:05

Garden centres are a bit confusing as they very often have an outside bit. My dog has pooed in the outdoor bit because to her, it is outdoors.
Of course, I picked it up.

I remember seeing a drunk bloke pissing in the outside bit once 🤣

dooradadooradeh · 10/04/2026 17:07

outdooryone · 10/04/2026 16:58

I now refuse to shop or cafe or accommodation whatever if dogs are welcome.

I was in a rural pub a couple of weeks ago who were saying that despite some nasty reviews on Google and TripAdvisor, their decision to ban dogs from indoors and the beer garden has seen an upsurge in customers and overwhelmingly positive feedback.

Same weekend I walked into a cafe - three dogs and owner arrived in the queue behind me and began barking at another dog in the back. I told the cafe owner why I was leaving.

Vote with your money and tell businesses why.

Yes the dog lobby are a lot more vocal and some will pile on to criticise businesses that don’t allow dogs and there can be an image created that EVERYONE wants more dogs everywhere.

This means some businesses think it’s a win win if they allow dogs because in their eyes, they get more people coming in with dogs and the customers without dogs won’t mind and will still keep coming .

We need to let them know some of us who are not bringing dogs do in fact mind and we will not keep coming!

What they do with that info is up to them, but it’s definitely good to let them know.

At a shopping centre in Glasgow they got lots of complaints during a dog friendly trial so they abandoned it and went back to assistance dogs only.

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 17:05

Gloriia · 10/04/2026 16:57

Our local garden centre has a lovely new 'no dogs please' sign after a poor (probably unwalked dog) did a poo. Not in the cafe thankfully, but in the plant area. The owner didn't have poo bag either 🙄.

Garden centres are a bit confusing as they very often have an outside bit. My dog has pooed in the outdoor bit because to her, it is outdoors.
Of course, I picked it up.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 10/04/2026 17:04

Where do you lot live that there’s millions of dogs in every street?

As a PP said it’s clearly a business decision.

Just like when there’s a discussion on child free pubs etc - if it was financially viable, people would do it.

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:04

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 16:58

So there you have it, @timetoban , posts becoming more and more hysterical in their hating of dog owners (‘rivers of shit’ ffs), until we get here, a vilely insulting post spitting with loathing.

Is that what you wanted?

Interesting that @MandingoAteMyBaby edited her post to add the last line.
Obviously decided the original content was insufficiently full of hate.