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to think it’s time to ban dogs from shops and cafes?

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timetoban · 10/04/2026 13:07

I’ve just read a BBC article about the increase in dog attacks in the UK.

Dogs seem to be everywhere now. Cafes, shops, even places where food is being served. I’m not anti-dog at all, but I don’t really want to be eating or shopping surrounded by them.

It’s not just about preference either. Some people are allergic, some are genuinely scared, and others just don’t want to deal with barking, smells or dogs getting under their feet. The BBC piece even mentioned people feeling like they have to avoid going out because dogs are everywhere now.

I also don’t really get how it’s hygienic in places serving food. I know people say “well-behaved dogs are fine” but not all dogs are well-behaved, and staff aren’t exactly going to challenge every owner.

Before anyone says it, yes obviously assistance dogs are different and should be allowed. That’s not what I mean.

I just feel like we’ve swung too far the other way where dog owners expect to take them absolutely everywhere, and everyone else just has to put up with it.

Surely it’s not unreasonable to have more dog-free indoor spaces again?

OP posts:
mydogisthebest · 10/04/2026 17:49

Me and DH take our dog to cafes, coffee shops, restaurants, garden centres and some shops. We think it is great that we can do so. We had over 30 years of having to sit outside to eat with our dog when on holiday even if it was freezing cold or pouring. Now we can be inside in the warm.

We go out for breakfast at least once a week, lunch at least twice and week and evening meals probably every other week. We have never ever seen a dog sitting on a chair. We also have never seen a dog wandering around not on a lead or doing a pee or poo. Either some people are liars or they have just been unlucky

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 17:48

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:45

I know Bath very well. I am there one day a week, every week in the city centre and until recently worked there for 30 years. There are reasonable number of dogs, but not 'loads'. As I say, it's a country town really -there are going to be dogs. Lots of dog free places there though.

I didn't say it wasn't a country town or there 'shouldn't' be dogs. As for 'loads' versus 'reasonable number', I don't know what the metric is for that. All I can say is that I was very much in the minority not having one.
I don't know what else to say.
I don't know why it seems to matter so very much to you.

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:47

Gingercatlover · 10/04/2026 17:45

Yes, I have been on Mumsnet for years and can say I have seen one previous post about dogs, not that I go looking for them.

But folks can start threads about whatever they want really.

There are hundreds of them. Multiple times a week.

Tryagain26 · 10/04/2026 17:47

LaurieFairyCake · 10/04/2026 13:15

The vast majority of places you can’t take dogs to. That’s still the case. So Yabu imo.

Not in my experience. Most local cafes allow them as do shops.
It's unusual to find somewhere where dogs are not allowed

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:46

RaraRachael · 10/04/2026 17:43

I' m not sure @PottingBench as it wasn't local to me. I just don't see the need for dogs to be in shopping centres at all, apart from assistance dogs.

Other people clearly do see a reason though including the business owners.

Gingercatlover · 10/04/2026 17:45

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:30

But could you do that @Gingercatlover if nearly every day you encountered threads saying such terrible things about cats? E.g. that the are anti-social shit?

Yes, I have been on Mumsnet for years and can say I have seen one previous post about dogs, not that I go looking for them.

But folks can start threads about whatever they want really.

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:45

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 17:22

I'm talking about my Zone 2 neighbourhood rather than Leicester Square or Soho etc. It's hoaching with them.
I don't know why you're trying to say I didn't see loads of dogs in Bath. Why would I lie? Hmm
I didn't say I saw them in cafes etc; I meant just around town. As a tourist, I was largely in the centre, and yes, believe it or not, there were a lot.

I know Bath very well. I am there one day a week, every week in the city centre and until recently worked there for 30 years. There are reasonable number of dogs, but not 'loads'. As I say, it's a country town really -there are going to be dogs. Lots of dog free places there though.

mydogisthebest · 10/04/2026 17:43

MandingoAteMyBaby · 10/04/2026 16:49

In Switzerland shops / cafes etc provide these handy hooks to clip the leash to while the owner goes inside and their sentient plaything remains safely outside. Let’s have this, away from the door so you can enter and leave without being bothered.

Next to the ashtray so all the antisocial shit stays out of the indoor space.

Edited

Oh yes what a good idea to leave your dog outside unattended. Ever heard of dog thefts?

If they are ever introduced can we also have the screaming pain in the arse children tied to them as well?

RaraRachael · 10/04/2026 17:43

I' m not sure @PottingBench as it wasn't local to me. I just don't see the need for dogs to be in shopping centres at all, apart from assistance dogs.

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:39

RaraRachael · 10/04/2026 17:36

I was in a shopping centre last week and there were dogs in it.

Was it a shopping centre that allowed dogs? Some do, some don't.
Most shopping centres have security staff who will chuck people out if they're not following the rules. I'm made a mistake myself in the past (when the rules had changed to no dogs) and I've been asked to leave which is fair enough.

Bradbury4858 · 10/04/2026 17:37

Boomer55 · 10/04/2026 17:35

I’d sooner avoid both. But I accept that parents have to take their kids everywhere. Dogs can be left. 🤷‍♀️

Not all breeds of dogs,not if you’re not staying in your own home and not if you’re out all day.

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 17:37

Yep.

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 17:37

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 17:36

They may well have a point, @ConstanzeMozart , I just lost the will to live half way through.

Right, so you're making your own judgment on what the poster said based on reading about half of their post.
Got it.

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 17:36

They may well have a point, @ConstanzeMozart , I just lost the will to live half way through.

RaraRachael · 10/04/2026 17:36

LaurieFairyCake · 10/04/2026 16:28

You can’t take dogs in shopping centres. I’m in London, you can’t take dogs in either of the huge Westfields, Bluewater, Lakeside, Canary Wharf shopping centre. These are the shopping centers closest to me and they are massive and no dogs !

you can take dogs in John Lewis and Liberty in the West end (individual shops) so people blathering on about shopping centers are talking SHITE.

I was in a shopping centre last week and there were dogs in it.

Icecreamandcoffee · 10/04/2026 17:36

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 17:29

Dear god, @Icecreamandcoffee , all that judgement. How do you get through the day?!

So you are admitting your dog is poorly trained. Our entire family have had dogs for years, well over 30 dogs. Every single dog in our family is properly trained. Most have been working dogs but are family pets when not working.

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:35

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 10/04/2026 17:24

Don’t go where they allow dogs. Just like I can’t go where people take small children unless I want a splitting headache for the rest of the day.

Not sure of the issue.

I am the same with pubs that have dozens of massive screens showing sport. I don't like it. I don't like the noise, the big, loud, boozy groups of blokes it tends to attract or the fact that try as I might my eye is repeatedly drawn to some bloody darts match/minor football game that I would never normally look at.

Perhaps like the dog thing, more pubs now have big screens because I've read it makes them more money. It's harder to find pubs without screens now so I go out of my way beforehand and whilst I'm out and about to find pubs without them. I make an effort.

I don't begrudge the pubs making money, I don't begrudge the people who like watching sport - good on 'em. I just steer clear.

Boomer55 · 10/04/2026 17:35

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 10/04/2026 17:16

Dogs aren’t my favourite either but the anti dog frothing on here is hilarious.

I don’t go in cafes etc because the sound of small children squealing and crying sets me off on sensory overload. And of course I can’t go to a child free place as there isn’t any such thing. So I do what I need to do.

If you can’t stand dogs, don’t go anywhere that’s dog friendly.

I’d sooner avoid both. But I accept that parents have to take their kids everywhere. Dogs can be left. 🤷‍♀️

GenieGenealogy · 10/04/2026 17:35

Why won't dog owners accept that the reason these threads pop up all the time is because there is a large percentage of animal owners who have incredibly badly-behaved dogs?

Dogs who jump up, bark, beg for food at tables. Dogs who have no recall. Owners who see no need to remove their pets when they are getting in other people's personal space and just smile on indulgently saying "he's just friendly".

Nobody has an issue with an ancient, biddable labrador snoozing in front of the fire at a country pub, as it used to be 15 years ago. People do have issues with poorly-behaved and poorly-trained animals which cannot be left on their own so their useless owners think they have to take them everywhere with them.,

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 17:33

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 17:29

Dear god, @Icecreamandcoffee , all that judgement. How do you get through the day?!

I agree with Icecreamandcoffee's post. Dogs shouldn't jump up at people, or climb or sit on furniture in public places. They shouldn't beg/bark/react. They should be trained and handled sufficiently well that they don't pull on the lead or scent mark in inappropriate places, or approach strangers.
I'll say it again: I like dogs. None of these behaviours are a dog's fault. It is down to owners who don't know how to or don't seem to think they need to train/socialise/handle them.

Onleemoi · 10/04/2026 17:32

We could scroll on by and dog haters could go somewhere without dogs. Yet here we all are. Again.

Pondering2026 · 10/04/2026 17:31

It seems everywhere I go there are massive dogs in cafes and bars. Ok as well behaved. But what I really dislike is the young waiting staff petting them and then serving food/ handing out cutlery without washing their hands. Some may and I don't see them perhaps but the speed of petting and then serving makes me think not. So for me it's a hygiene peeve.

gemini0606 · 10/04/2026 17:30

Yawn 🥱

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:30

Gingercatlover · 10/04/2026 17:25

You know you can scroll right on by?

But could you do that @Gingercatlover if nearly every day you encountered threads saying such terrible things about cats? E.g. that the are anti-social shit?

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 17:29

Dear god, @Icecreamandcoffee , all that judgement. How do you get through the day?!

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