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to think it’s time to ban dogs from shops and cafes?

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timetoban · 10/04/2026 13:07

I’ve just read a BBC article about the increase in dog attacks in the UK.

Dogs seem to be everywhere now. Cafes, shops, even places where food is being served. I’m not anti-dog at all, but I don’t really want to be eating or shopping surrounded by them.

It’s not just about preference either. Some people are allergic, some are genuinely scared, and others just don’t want to deal with barking, smells or dogs getting under their feet. The BBC piece even mentioned people feeling like they have to avoid going out because dogs are everywhere now.

I also don’t really get how it’s hygienic in places serving food. I know people say “well-behaved dogs are fine” but not all dogs are well-behaved, and staff aren’t exactly going to challenge every owner.

Before anyone says it, yes obviously assistance dogs are different and should be allowed. That’s not what I mean.

I just feel like we’ve swung too far the other way where dog owners expect to take them absolutely everywhere, and everyone else just has to put up with it.

Surely it’s not unreasonable to have more dog-free indoor spaces again?

OP posts:
Tableforjoan · 10/04/2026 18:40

Ohhhwell · 10/04/2026 18:38

While im here Not just dogs on the list can we also bar, unruly feral kids, parents that have there heads in their phones instead of parenting, parents that need the whole shop aisles and paths with prams that dont have kids in them becaus their kids are running riot, and old people with trollys on the bus that insist they stay in the middle of the floor.

Deal

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Ohhhwell · 10/04/2026 18:38

While im here Not just dogs on the list can we also bar, unruly feral kids, parents that have there heads in their phones instead of parenting, parents that need the whole shop aisles and paths with prams that dont have kids in them becaus their kids are running riot, and old people with trollys on the bus that insist they stay in the middle of the floor.

Superhansrantowindsor · 10/04/2026 18:36

I wish someone would open a dog free cafe where I live. There isn’t a single one that bans dogs. I don’t think they should be banned everywhere but I would like just one place to be dog free.

Hankunamatata · 10/04/2026 18:35

I agree

Keepingthingsinteresting · 10/04/2026 18:34

timetoban · 10/04/2026 16:16

I think this is the answer!

You make a whinny post, we are entitled to respond and disagree. It’s also really boring to keep wanging on about the same thing week after week.
We get some people don’t like dogs, that’s fine for them, but they don’t get to set the rules for other people. We live in a (largely) free and capitalistic company, if a business owner wants to allow dogs they can and your only impact on that is to choose not to use them. If allowing dogs was depressing their business they wouldn’t do so, ergo you are in the minority.

Onleemoi · 10/04/2026 18:34

Dodging endless puddles of wee. Rivers of free flowing shit.

You’re weakening any valid points you might have.

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 18:33

PinkiOcelot · 10/04/2026 18:31

Endless puddles of wee?! Where do you live? Can’t say I’ve walked along any street in my town and had to dodge puddles of wee.

Any big city is drowning in human piss on the weekends 😆

PinkiOcelot · 10/04/2026 18:31

MigGirl · 10/04/2026 13:34

Our town has become very dog friendly, I don't like it and feel like most cafes here do accept dogs. The thing I hate the most though is having to dodge the endless puddles of wee on the pavement. It feels very unhygienic.

I don't agree that this is where dog attacks are happening though. Most of those seem to happen in people's homes. Not shops or cafes.

Endless puddles of wee?! Where do you live? Can’t say I’ve walked along any street in my town and had to dodge puddles of wee.

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 18:31

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 18:28

Dogs (and cats) are stolen to be used as bait in dog fights.
They’re stolen for extortion. Or to be sold on. Or for all the animal abuse videos that no one takes down.

Bit different to having your fucking ford fiesta nicked for a joyride, isn’t it?

I have had a motorcycle stolen. I was fucking fuming, but I got a pay out from the insurance and got a new one.

I have known people who have had dogs stolen or go missing, and the heart break they go through is devastating. Dogs are family. A vehicle is not.

Onleemoi · 10/04/2026 18:29

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 18:21

I've just Google imaged Bath city centre busy photos.

Hundreds of photos. Not one dog. One swan though. https://uk.news.yahoo.com/watch-baby-swan-get-escorted-out-of-busy-city-centre-by-police-124524056.html

You’re going to have them whinging about swans being everywhere next!

JulietteHasAGun · 10/04/2026 18:29

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 17:30

But could you do that @Gingercatlover if nearly every day you encountered threads saying such terrible things about cats? E.g. that the are anti-social shit?

Because it’s true they are. I think they should be banned from being allowed outdoors, decimating the wildlife.

Tutorpuzzle · 10/04/2026 18:28

MandingoAteMyBaby · 10/04/2026 17:58

People leave cars outside unattended. Sometimes they get stolen. But they don’t drive their cars into Tesco with them just in case do they ?

I mean, you could ask for cages instead if clips aren’t secure enough.

Not sure why you mentioned children, this thread is about dogs.

Dogs (and cats) are stolen to be used as bait in dog fights.
They’re stolen for extortion. Or to be sold on. Or for all the animal abuse videos that no one takes down.

Bit different to having your fucking ford fiesta nicked for a joyride, isn’t it?

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 18:21

LighthouseLola · 10/04/2026 18:15

Oh, I must have hallucinated the dogs then. My mistake

My dd lives in Bath and the place is heaving with them. You didn't hallucinate.

I've just Google imaged Bath city centre busy photos.

Hundreds of photos. Not one dog. One swan though. https://uk.news.yahoo.com/watch-baby-swan-get-escorted-out-of-busy-city-centre-by-police-124524056.html

Watch baby swan get escorted out of busy city centre by police

The cygnet was ushered through busy shopping streets in Bath, Somerset, by three police officers.

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/watch-baby-swan-get-escorted-out-of-busy-city-centre-by-police-124524056.html

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 18:21

Onleemoi · 10/04/2026 18:19

Right? It was cigarettes on another thread.

Oh yes, the public health nuisance that is breathing in second hand dog fumes. So many deaths and ill health caused from a dog in the same room.

Onleemoi · 10/04/2026 18:19

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 18:17

This is a new on me. Dog owners get pounced on as soon as they mention badly behaved kids in public. But here we likening dogs to cars.
You could not make it up!

Right? It was cigarettes on another thread.

BreatheAndFocus · 10/04/2026 18:18

YABVU. There are far, FAR more shops and cafes that don’t allow dogs than do. You’re spoilt for choice.

So sick of this tedious and miserable crap each day 🙄 🙄

Or are you just bored during the Easter Hols?

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 18:17

Onleemoi · 10/04/2026 18:10

Why mention cars? This thread is about dogs.

This is a new on me. Dog owners get pounced on as soon as they mention badly behaved kids in public. But here we likening dogs to cars.
You could not make it up!

LaurieFairyCake · 10/04/2026 18:17

LISTLOSTLAST

not calling you a liar - I asked you to NAME the shopping center - just as I have done, the 4 biggest in the capital are no dogs

which one? Do everyone a service and name it so we know to keep away or go to it depending on our preference 😊

LighthouseLola · 10/04/2026 18:15

Oh, I must have hallucinated the dogs then. My mistake

My dd lives in Bath and the place is heaving with them. You didn't hallucinate.

LighthouseLola · 10/04/2026 18:14

Not sure why you mentioned children, this thread is about dogs

The comparison to children always comes up.

Noisy children are a nuisance.
Dogs are a bigger nuisance.
It doesn't have to be one or the other.

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 18:11

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 18:07

I didn't disagree with you about London as you obviously know it better than me.
I believe I know Bath better than you.

Never, in all my lifetime's knowledge of Bath, the population there, the make up of the tourist market have I ever known more people in Bath city centre to have a dog than not have a dog. I'd say it's much less than 1 in 10 or less in the city centre and I can put my hand on my heart to that.

Were you at a dog show perhaps?

Were you at a dog show perhaps?
Sorry, is that a serious question?

I can only say it again: I saw a lot of dogs over a few days/week in central Bath. At a couple of points I explicitly thought about how many people had them.

Gloriia · 10/04/2026 18:10

'We also regularly walk our dog in 2 local cemeteries'

Dogs aren't allowed in our local cemetery thankfully, even if they were allowed it'd be the last place I'd want to walk ours out of respect. It just doesn't seem right does it dogs sniffing about and toileting in such an important place for the bereaved.

Some dog owners just do not get it, walk them and leave them cosy at home. Show some respect and consideration for other people.

Bradbury4858 · 10/04/2026 18:10

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 18:07

I didn't disagree with you about London as you obviously know it better than me.
I believe I know Bath better than you.

Never, in all my lifetime's knowledge of Bath, the population there, the make up of the tourist market have I ever known more people in Bath city centre to have a dog than not have a dog. I'd say it's much less than 1 in 10 or less in the city centre and I can put my hand on my heart to that.

Were you at a dog show perhaps?

Yes it’s full of tourists and apartment dwellers. All those Georgian buildings are flats. Obviously those just outside will have gardens but it’s such an awkward place to take a dog so like many we don’t.

Onleemoi · 10/04/2026 18:10

MandingoAteMyBaby · 10/04/2026 17:58

People leave cars outside unattended. Sometimes they get stolen. But they don’t drive their cars into Tesco with them just in case do they ?

I mean, you could ask for cages instead if clips aren’t secure enough.

Not sure why you mentioned children, this thread is about dogs.

Why mention cars? This thread is about dogs.

ConstanzeMozart · 10/04/2026 18:09

Bradbury4858 · 10/04/2026 18:08

You must have had an unusual day. We know Bath well,used to live there and don’t see many, we don’t take ours because it’s so dog unfriendly. I think others must do the same. It does limit how often we can visit.

I really don't know what else to say. It was the Easter period. It was generally busy, and quite sunny and warm. Maybe more people came/brought their dogs with them?