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to think it’s time to ban dogs from shops and cafes?

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timetoban · 10/04/2026 13:07

I’ve just read a BBC article about the increase in dog attacks in the UK.

Dogs seem to be everywhere now. Cafes, shops, even places where food is being served. I’m not anti-dog at all, but I don’t really want to be eating or shopping surrounded by them.

It’s not just about preference either. Some people are allergic, some are genuinely scared, and others just don’t want to deal with barking, smells or dogs getting under their feet. The BBC piece even mentioned people feeling like they have to avoid going out because dogs are everywhere now.

I also don’t really get how it’s hygienic in places serving food. I know people say “well-behaved dogs are fine” but not all dogs are well-behaved, and staff aren’t exactly going to challenge every owner.

Before anyone says it, yes obviously assistance dogs are different and should be allowed. That’s not what I mean.

I just feel like we’ve swung too far the other way where dog owners expect to take them absolutely everywhere, and everyone else just has to put up with it.

Surely it’s not unreasonable to have more dog-free indoor spaces again?

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Onleemoi · 11/04/2026 07:37

Never? Are you stalking them or just making shit up again?

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 07:33

'This is what has changed: a massive increase in dog-owing, often by people who prioritise their lifestyle over the needs of their dog, and the love of visiting cafes and shops instead of taking these critters for proper walks'

This. A lot of dog owners just do not understand that dogs like walks, sniffing, being outdoors playing. They don't like crowded noisy areas, being stood on, tripped over and being treated like the nuisance they are fidgeting and whining in coffee shops.

Walk them, play with them and them leave them happily at home while you go for your cake and coffee.

I'm off now for a brisk walk and guarantee the sensible dog owners I see out will not be crammed indoors later with their poor pooch getting stood on in a Costa or similar. Likewise the coffee shop goers never seem to be out walking!

RosesR · 11/04/2026 07:32

I do not give custom to eating places that allow dogs or buy goods from the shops. Like many many others, I just go elsewhere and the business loses the money. Dogs owners are very vocal as soon as they cannot take their animal somewhere, but businesses under estimate the trade they unknowingly lose.

MandingoAteMyBaby · 11/04/2026 07:06

Whydidyouletmedown · 11/04/2026 01:15

Thanks for that, Einstein. What exactly is a ‘normal’ temp day in your expert opinion?

One where the temperature of the interior of a parked car doesn’t exceed 19’C

Bradbury4858 · 11/04/2026 06:49

CoffeeCantata · 11/04/2026 05:34

I think the bigger picture is that, over the last 30 or so years, shopping and cafe going have become major leisure pursuits at the same time as vastly more people have bought dogs.

Once dogs were either working dogs: sheepdogs, police dogs, gun dogs etc or family pets, but there were far fewer of them and owners didn't expect to take them absolutely everywhere with them (even in handbags, God help us!).

This is what has changed: a massive increase in dog-owing, often by people who prioritise their lifestyle over the needs of their dog, and the love of visiting cafes and shops instead of taking these critters for proper walks.

So not true. The service industry is on its knees as is the high street.

CoffeeCantata · 11/04/2026 05:34

I think the bigger picture is that, over the last 30 or so years, shopping and cafe going have become major leisure pursuits at the same time as vastly more people have bought dogs.

Once dogs were either working dogs: sheepdogs, police dogs, gun dogs etc or family pets, but there were far fewer of them and owners didn't expect to take them absolutely everywhere with them (even in handbags, God help us!).

This is what has changed: a massive increase in dog-owing, often by people who prioritise their lifestyle over the needs of their dog, and the love of visiting cafes and shops instead of taking these critters for proper walks.

QuokkasAreLovely · 11/04/2026 01:44

LighthouseLola · 10/04/2026 22:18

I have seen several mums change nappies on tables in Costa

That's disgusting as well. I've never seen that happen but I do believe it.
Doesn't take away from the fact that dogs shit on the floor in shops.
Neither scenario is acceptable.

Sadly, can confirm that people do change nappies on restaurant tables, and are brazen about it! - even though where I worked at the time, had changing facilities.
Can also confirm that on several occasions, we have had to clean up human (adult) poo from not only the entire mens toilets, ( including the ceiling but none in the actual loo!) but from the restaurant floor as well. We have had children announcing they need a poo, Mummy has ignored them, so they’ve dropped trousers and pooed where they stood!
Mummy wasn’t interested in cleaning it up either!
In 20+ years in hospitality, I’ve seen every human bodily fluid, drugs, illicit alcohol and the worst of human behaviour.
I like dogs.

Whydidyouletmedown · 11/04/2026 01:15

MandingoAteMyBaby · 11/04/2026 00:52

On a normal temp day the car is fine; if it’s warm then use the cage. Not hard.

Thanks for that, Einstein. What exactly is a ‘normal’ temp day in your expert opinion?

MandingoAteMyBaby · 11/04/2026 00:52

Lavender14 · 10/04/2026 21:34

Is this a joke? Absolutely no reason you can think of why you might not want to leave a dog in a car on a warm day? Or in a cage?

On a normal temp day the car is fine; if it’s warm then use the cage. Not hard.

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 22:55

LotusMandala · 10/04/2026 22:53

Yawn.

A mature and informative answer.

Villanousvillans · 10/04/2026 22:54

We went into an almost empty cafe with our dog, when we were on holiday. We were turned away and sent in the direction of another cafe that did allow dogs. The dog cafe was so busy, we had to wait for a table.

LotusMandala · 10/04/2026 22:53

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 19:38

Are you a mind reader? I thought my dog was amazing, but I am curious as to how you think I was wanting you to think the same too.

Yawn.

PottingBench · 10/04/2026 22:22

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 22:15

My neighbours have an English bull terrier and shop exclusively at Waitrose. I’ll let them know they’re really only meant to shop at Asda shall I?

There's a gorgeous English bull terrier near us called King George the Third.

I can't think he'd take kindly to Asda.

LighthouseLola · 10/04/2026 22:18

I have seen several mums change nappies on tables in Costa

That's disgusting as well. I've never seen that happen but I do believe it.
Doesn't take away from the fact that dogs shit on the floor in shops.
Neither scenario is acceptable.

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 22:17

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 22:15

My neighbours have an English bull terrier and shop exclusively at Waitrose. I’ll let them know they’re really only meant to shop at Asda shall I?

I love an EBT. My grandad used to call them bullet heads.

Tableforjoan · 10/04/2026 22:16

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 22:15

My neighbours have an English bull terrier and shop exclusively at Waitrose. I’ll let them know they’re really only meant to shop at Asda shall I?

Well there’s always the odd one out isn’t there.

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 22:15

Tableforjoan · 10/04/2026 21:57

I’m going to sound horrible but I can’t say I’ve seen anyone who looks like they would shop in John Lewis own a bull type breed.

My neighbours have an English bull terrier and shop exclusively at Waitrose. I’ll let them know they’re really only meant to shop at Asda shall I?

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 21:57

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 21:55

I’m always confused by the “some people are allergic” line, often followed by “assistance dogs are different obviously”.

allergies have no idea if your dog is employed or unemployed.

There was a comment on yet another dog thread, where someone was on a bus/train. Her dog was under the seat and no one noticed it.
After a two hour journey, she got up with her dog and the lady opposite suddenly gasped and said the dog set off her allergies.
Now tell me what sort of allergies are only triggered when you notice your trigger.

Tableforjoan · 10/04/2026 21:57

JumpinJehoshaphat · 10/04/2026 21:54

They allow dogs in my local John Lewis. I have yet to see any bull breeds in there biting peoples’ faces off.

You get a nicer class of dog in John Lewis.

I’m going to sound horrible but I can’t say I’ve seen anyone who looks like they would shop in John Lewis own a bull type breed.

MyLuckyHelper · 10/04/2026 21:55

I’m always confused by the “some people are allergic” line, often followed by “assistance dogs are different obviously”.

allergies have no idea if your dog is employed or unemployed.

JumpinJehoshaphat · 10/04/2026 21:54

They allow dogs in my local John Lewis. I have yet to see any bull breeds in there biting peoples’ faces off.

You get a nicer class of dog in John Lewis.

Whydidyouletmedown · 10/04/2026 21:53

TheGoldenOwl · 10/04/2026 21:52

I find this really offensive.

(That you used only two poodles in the revolution march. )

Oops, soz. Have a few more 🐩🐩🐩🐩🐩🐩🐩🐩🐩

TheGoldenOwl · 10/04/2026 21:52

Whydidyouletmedown · 10/04/2026 20:26

Times are a-changing. Mark my words, the doggie revolution is coming

🐕🦮🐕‍🦺🦮🐕‍🦺🐩🦮🐕‍🦺🐩🦮🐕‍🦺

I find this really offensive.

(That you used only two poodles in the revolution march. )

MyLimeGuide · 10/04/2026 21:51

I agree this is a country over run by dogs, not a dog person but... in fairness a lot of humans aren't that pleasant! So I can sort of understand why more and more humans are choosing animal company over human??

YeOldeGreyhound · 10/04/2026 21:46

LighthouseLola · 10/04/2026 21:45

Funny,we use dog friendly cafes and restaurants a lot and have never witnessed pissing/ shitting incidents or unruly dogs. Not seeing any change policy either

I've seen a dog shit in a garden centre and another dog shit in a shop.
It's pretty vile.

I have seen several mums change nappies on tables in Costa.