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to think it’s time to ban dogs from shops and cafes?

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timetoban · 10/04/2026 13:07

I’ve just read a BBC article about the increase in dog attacks in the UK.

Dogs seem to be everywhere now. Cafes, shops, even places where food is being served. I’m not anti-dog at all, but I don’t really want to be eating or shopping surrounded by them.

It’s not just about preference either. Some people are allergic, some are genuinely scared, and others just don’t want to deal with barking, smells or dogs getting under their feet. The BBC piece even mentioned people feeling like they have to avoid going out because dogs are everywhere now.

I also don’t really get how it’s hygienic in places serving food. I know people say “well-behaved dogs are fine” but not all dogs are well-behaved, and staff aren’t exactly going to challenge every owner.

Before anyone says it, yes obviously assistance dogs are different and should be allowed. That’s not what I mean.

I just feel like we’ve swung too far the other way where dog owners expect to take them absolutely everywhere, and everyone else just has to put up with it.

Surely it’s not unreasonable to have more dog-free indoor spaces again?

OP posts:
vodkaredbullgirl · 11/04/2026 09:51

It's quite amusing really 😆

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:50

Oh dear @MandingoAteMyBaby.

Something must have gone very wrong in your life for this to be your hobby.

vodkaredbullgirl · 11/04/2026 09:48

Time to walk the dogs up the local hills, looks okay out there. Might even pop into the pub on the way back or a cafe 😆

MandingoAteMyBaby · 11/04/2026 09:43

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:35

What’s cruel about clipping a dog by the leash to a wall ?
The dog could be attacked, released or stolen and used for cruel purposes.

For those worried that isn’t secure then a cage could be proivded. Not a veal crate, there would be room for movement. Zoos keep animals in cages, it happens. Not cruel.
Veal crates have been banned in Europe for 20 years.
Most zoos are moving away from keeping animals in cages.
"Room for movement" - give me strength.

On days when the temperature is safe to do so, there’s literally nothing wrong with leaving a dog in the car. Some modern cars even have a dog mode to keep the temperature safe.
Not everyone has a modern car.
The temperature in cars fluctuates hugely and cannot be relied upon not to change. On previous threads you've suggested dogs be kept in cars/cages overnight.

I would prefer dogs banned everywhere, I find them extremely antisocial, and a phenomenon that very selfish people impose on the rest of us, similar to smoking. That’s not controversial. Smokers cause health problems for others, and so do dogs. Smoking causes litter and pollution and so do dogs.
Dogs were here long before you. Humans have lived alongside them for tens of thousands of years.

The children in cages thing is dreadful.

“Dogs” in a very broad sense have been around for thousands of years, I agree.

Dogs as we know them today - genetically engineered by humans for their own amusement - have not; they’re not natural and wouldn’t even exist were it not for humans.

Perhaps cages could be made a bit prettier, call it a kennel or crate instead.

to think it’s time to ban dogs from shops and cafes?
TheGoldenOwl · 11/04/2026 09:42

Tutorpuzzle · 11/04/2026 09:31

You might want to have a read of their previous posts @Gloriia . They are properly weird.

Well, like many people on this thread I’m off now for a walk and coffee with my lovely pups. It will be mainly dog walkers in the cafe I choose (hurrah) because the weather isn’t great. Bring on the slobber!

Me too. Want to get out to the location and get the walk circuit done and get to the café before their brunch menu ends. Both the walk and this café are new ones for us today.

See you there @Gloriia ? 😂

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:40

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 09:30

Everything has been covered yes burt e are still allowed to contribute thanks.

Walk your dogs, leave at home go for coffee. Simple. They don't like crowded noisy places. More importantly many don't like dogs in coffee shops so think about others.

Owners know if their dogs are comfortable in busy cafes much better than you do. My dog loves a pub. Will actively head towards them given the chance (which is often a good excuse for a pint).

There are plenty of dog free places for a coffee. There are plenty of dog friendly cafes. We can live and let live without ever treading on each others toes.

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:35

MandingoAteMyBaby · 11/04/2026 09:24

What’s cruel about clipping a dog by the leash to a wall ? I showed earlier that for example in Switzerland clips are provided for that purpose.

For those worried that isn’t secure then a cage could be proivded. Not a veal crate, there would be room for movement. Zoos keep animals in cages, it happens. Not cruel.

On days when the temperature is safe to do so, there’s literally nothing wrong with leaving a dog in the car. Some modern cars even have a dog mode to keep the temperature safe.

I would prefer dogs banned everywhere, I find them extremely antisocial, and a phenomenon that very selfish people impose on the rest of us, similar to smoking. That’s not controversial. Smokers cause health problems for others, and so do dogs. Smoking causes litter and pollution and so do dogs.

Nothing I have suggested is cruel or unheard of.

It was the dog lovers who suggested putting children in the cages btw.

What’s cruel about clipping a dog by the leash to a wall ?
The dog could be attacked, released or stolen and used for cruel purposes.

For those worried that isn’t secure then a cage could be proivded. Not a veal crate, there would be room for movement. Zoos keep animals in cages, it happens. Not cruel.
Veal crates have been banned in Europe for 20 years.
Most zoos are moving away from keeping animals in cages.
"Room for movement" - give me strength.

On days when the temperature is safe to do so, there’s literally nothing wrong with leaving a dog in the car. Some modern cars even have a dog mode to keep the temperature safe.
Not everyone has a modern car.
The temperature in cars fluctuates hugely and cannot be relied upon not to change. On previous threads you've suggested dogs be kept in cars/cages overnight.

I would prefer dogs banned everywhere, I find them extremely antisocial, and a phenomenon that very selfish people impose on the rest of us, similar to smoking. That’s not controversial. Smokers cause health problems for others, and so do dogs. Smoking causes litter and pollution and so do dogs.
Dogs were here long before you. Humans have lived alongside them for tens of thousands of years.

The children in cages thing is dreadful.

Tutorpuzzle · 11/04/2026 09:31

You might want to have a read of their previous posts @Gloriia . They are properly weird.

Well, like many people on this thread I’m off now for a walk and coffee with my lovely pups. It will be mainly dog walkers in the cafe I choose (hurrah) because the weather isn’t great. Bring on the slobber!

Onleemoi · 11/04/2026 09:31

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 09:30

Everything has been covered yes burt e are still allowed to contribute thanks.

Walk your dogs, leave at home go for coffee. Simple. They don't like crowded noisy places. More importantly many don't like dogs in coffee shops so think about others.

No. Simple.

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 09:30

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:25

Everything you have just said has already been covered ad infinitum up thread.

Everything has been covered yes burt e are still allowed to contribute thanks.

Walk your dogs, leave at home go for coffee. Simple. They don't like crowded noisy places. More importantly many don't like dogs in coffee shops so think about others.

Onleemoi · 11/04/2026 09:28

She did the old ‘can’t have any friends if they take their dog to cafes’ line on another thread. Not one to listen to when it comes to decent behaviour.

TheGoldenOwl · 11/04/2026 09:25

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PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:25

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 09:23

Well yes we have to but the point is we shouldn't have to.

Really it is common sense to walk a dog then leave it a home for a bit. Be responsible owners, think of what's best for your poor dog and crowded noisy places are not it.

Try and be considerate to others. Owners of cafes may allow dogs but others do not want them there. Why be that person that everyone without a dog thinks ffs when they're enjoying a coffee and cake and they see a dog at the next table?!

Everything you have just said has already been covered ad infinitum up thread.

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 09:25

Tutorpuzzle · 11/04/2026 09:22

Why be polite to that particular poster,@Gloriia ? Their contributions spit with venom.
And I see we’re back to the bingo card! Yapping, bums on seats, scratching, slobbering…I remain intrigued as to where all these reprobate dogs are, and even if they do exist why don’t you go to dog free places??!!

Jesus, it’s not hard.

I didn't say be polite I said challenge them fine but announcing there is 'something wrong with someone' is a bit venomous in itself, no?

MandingoAteMyBaby · 11/04/2026 09:24

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:13

Have you read his posts?
A sample of their suggestions -
Dogs should be shut outside shops in cages.
Dogs should be shut in cars.
Dogs should be tied up outside shops.

Dogs banned in all public spaces.
Dogs should be tied up "Next to the ashtray so all the antisocial shit stays out of the indoor space."

He makes similar/the same comments on almost every other dog thread.

Do you think there is something wrong with someone who says these things repeatedly?

What’s cruel about clipping a dog by the leash to a wall ? I showed earlier that for example in Switzerland clips are provided for that purpose.

For those worried that isn’t secure then a cage could be proivded. Not a veal crate, there would be room for movement. Zoos keep animals in cages, it happens. Not cruel.

On days when the temperature is safe to do so, there’s literally nothing wrong with leaving a dog in the car. Some modern cars even have a dog mode to keep the temperature safe.

I would prefer dogs banned everywhere, I find them extremely antisocial, and a phenomenon that very selfish people impose on the rest of us, similar to smoking. That’s not controversial. Smokers cause health problems for others, and so do dogs. Smoking causes litter and pollution and so do dogs.

Nothing I have suggested is cruel or unheard of.

It was the dog lovers who suggested putting children in the cages btw.

Onleemoi · 11/04/2026 09:23

Tutorpuzzle · 11/04/2026 09:22

Why be polite to that particular poster,@Gloriia ? Their contributions spit with venom.
And I see we’re back to the bingo card! Yapping, bums on seats, scratching, slobbering…I remain intrigued as to where all these reprobate dogs are, and even if they do exist why don’t you go to dog free places??!!

Jesus, it’s not hard.

She’s ok with nasty comments if the person has similar opinions to her.

ByNimbleGreenFinch · 11/04/2026 09:23

To be honest, this is not my experience at all. Within my friendship group we finally all got kids that are school age and were beginning to get our lives back.

Then a couple of my friends got dogs and it’s like being back to square one. They can go in the odd café or pub but other than that it’s pretty limited. I actually find it really boring that now the only thing we can ever do is go for a muddy cold walk in the park. I’ve been trying to book a weekend away with my best friend and trying to find a half decent cottage somewhere near London that accepts dogs is actually really difficult. particularly when you now need an enclosed garden area, somewhere to put the dog bed and good walks on the doorstep.

I love dogs but I hate how constrained they make your life. Seeing my friends go through this has made me realise I will never get a dog!

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 09:23

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:15

Go to dog free places then.

Well yes we have to but the point is we shouldn't have to.

Really it is common sense to walk a dog then leave it a home for a bit. Be responsible owners, think of what's best for your poor dog and crowded noisy places are not it.

Try and be considerate to others. Owners of cafes may allow dogs but others do not want them there. Why be that person that everyone without a dog thinks ffs when they're enjoying a coffee and cake and they see a dog at the next table?!

Tutorpuzzle · 11/04/2026 09:22

Why be polite to that particular poster,@Gloriia ? Their contributions spit with venom.
And I see we’re back to the bingo card! Yapping, bums on seats, scratching, slobbering…I remain intrigued as to where all these reprobate dogs are, and even if they do exist why don’t you go to dog free places??!!

Jesus, it’s not hard.

RosesAndHellebores · 11/04/2026 09:19

100% agree @timetoban, not because of dog attacks but because it's unnecessary and the doggie community often don't respect the boundaries of others. I had coffee in my nearest departmenr store last week. There were two designer poo/doodle dogs, both were yapping at each other, neither owner removed one. It was unpleasant and I won't go there again.

Similarly the last time I went to Peter Jones's kitchen section, there were a couple of designerish yappers about. One wagged a glass off a shelf, broken glass, one lifted its leg and pee'd up a display. Neither owner was asked to leave. I won't go there again.

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:18

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 09:15

Challenge them politely then or report them if you think there's something untoward, don't just unpleasantly announce 'there's something wrong with them'.

I have challenged them throughout this and other threads.
They are only here to provoke, not engage and their views on dogs are cruel. .

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 09:15

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:13

Have you read his posts?
A sample of their suggestions -
Dogs should be shut outside shops in cages.
Dogs should be shut in cars.
Dogs should be tied up outside shops.

Dogs banned in all public spaces.
Dogs should be tied up "Next to the ashtray so all the antisocial shit stays out of the indoor space."

He makes similar/the same comments on almost every other dog thread.

Do you think there is something wrong with someone who says these things repeatedly?

Challenge them politely then or report them if you think there's something untoward, don't just unpleasantly announce 'there's something wrong with them'.

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:15

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 09:13

'I have had dogs spoil my visit by yapping, scratching, having a big tail bashed against me while I'm seated, or dogs even allowed on to chairs by owners'

Same! I love my dog but I really do not want someone else's sniffing me with the owner telling me they're friendly whilst I'm having a snack.

Go to dog free places then.

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:14

CoffeeCantata · 11/04/2026 09:10

I avoid cafes where there are lots of dogs. The odd one, quietly under a table, doesn't bother me too much.

But there's a point of principle here. If you don't like dogs or have chosen not to have one in your home for hygiene or allergy reasons, it's frustrating when they are allowed in cafes or other places where people are eating. I really don't want to sit on a seat a dog has been on - and that's my choice, and I would have thought, a reasonable expectation in a place where food is served.

I have had dogs spoil my visit by yapping, scratching, having a big tail bashed against me while I'm seated, or dogs even allowed on to chairs by owners.

I like dogs (from a distance). I'm not a dog hater, but I don't like them in close proximity to food, especially when I'm paying for a 'treat' experience.

Go to dog free places then.

PottingBench · 11/04/2026 09:13

Gloriia · 11/04/2026 09:10

'Is cafe/shop-going a substitute for a proper walk?'

No it absolutely is not. The coffee shop goers will insist they do both. Their bored pooches would disagree Grin.

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