What do you find hot in a man? What do you think men like on a woman? Lighthearted Friday chat 🤷‍♀️

Interesting. I've considered cutting mine, just to save the daily faff of washing, brushing etc. But DH isn't keen. He likes to hold onto it at certain moments iykwim.... And I kinda thought a lot of men liked that / the idea of that.

Personally though I find women with shaved heads and tattoos the most attractive women to me. I'm straight but if I had to pick, that looks would definitely win for me

Oh ok. I have to disagree with you here. I've never met a man with long hair I fancied. Nope nope nope. I don't care if he can lift me in one arm and build a tree house with the other. It just doesn't work for me 😂

Except, maybe, Jack Sparrow...

For me it’s:
Sense of humour
Practical and capable
Nice forearms
Glasses

I think men like a woman’s silhouette, so slim waists but curvy hips
Hair
a pretty face
Curiosity in them

Previously, I would have said long hair for women but since I’ve had mine cut super short, I’ve got more attention from men. I didn’t consider how they would view it when I was in the barbers for the first time though.

How about the men?

Northern
Dark hair
must be bearded and hairy
Must have a manual job
Rough hands

Haha, like I say, the sample size is small - I met DH when I was still in my teens. So maybe I've missed out on a whole world of skill and endowment. But I don't think so...

Lucky you!

not asking for much are we?! 🤣😱

I always smile and am friendly.

A smile and friendliness goes a long way in my opinion. I was in the pub the other week with my boyfriend who’d gone outside and a younger man shyly came running up to me with my scarf and said “you forgot your scarf. I’ve got to tell you that I can see you’re attached but you’re stunning” and then smiled in a friendly way, and I’m definitely no Kate Moss. I went on my way happy with my scarf and a compliment.

Gosh, I don't know. The men I know at least claim to hate that fake eyebrows/ fake eyelashes/ fake teeth look.

😂

From the very small sample size of my experience, the biggest was by far the worst. The second biggest was the best, but not because of his size. I married that one.

Well yes I sort of agree on a man mountain type...

but you know, if he opened his mouth and said he was gonna vote Reform, or that the moon landing was a hoax, then I wouldn't care about the size of his cock or forearms he'd immediately lose his hotness 😄

Oh I can’t stand indecisive men, who don’t know where to go for a date and so on. Also prefer a confident man. Not too outgoing though.

What do I find attractive in a man 🤔

Firstly, what I don't find attractive at all;

A man who talks too much, loves the sound of their own voice, talks over people.
A man who doesn't take care of their hygiene, physical and mental wellbeing
Someone who is really into clothes, accessories and flashy watches
A man who is into flashy cars
Work shy, or lacking in ambition (not about money)
Who flirts with other women, or has a wandering eye

So, what I find attractive

A quiet man, a thinker, listens more than talks.
Dark and moody looks (olive skin and dark hair)
Goes the gym, looks after their skin and teeth, makes healthy choices, but not into fashion and bling
Hardworking and ambitious on some level
Loyal

Most well endowed men I’ve known as friends or lovers have been complete and utter arseholes, perhaps I’ve just been unlucky. Current boyfriend just over normal size maybe 7” but chemistry and likability is off the scale and he definitely knows how to use his tackle and pleasure me. Asks for me to tell him what I want.

The rare ability to see what needs to be done and to do it.

I think men want to marry a naturally attractive lady, minimal makeup, similar level of education, family values and income etc.

But, they want a one night stand with the daft eyebrow, implants, caked on makeup 'all look the same Russian Doll ' types.