AIBU to expect my husband to buy lubricant for sex?

Messing about with the pill, buying lube, dealing with thrush and the sulky man. Wouldn't even want the sex.

You know you don't have to have sex with him,

I share an Amazon account with my bloke. We can’t see each other’s orders.

Can’t you order it online I mean plenty of sites sell all different kinds of lube these days or even do a scan as you shop & pop it straight into your shopping bag. You are entitled to a sex life being a teacher personally I wouldn’t give a hoot what anyone saw in my trolley. Supermarkets sell sex toys these days there’s no shame in it. You both utilise the lube so both take responsibility for making sure you’ve got it & crack on with enjoying fun time with your husband.

So you share an Amazon account with his mum. Guess what? I think given the fact you've got kids, she already knows you have a sex life with her son 😂

Otherwise there's LoveHoney, Ann Summers and a million other places you could order lube online.

Have you been to the dr about the bleeding? Its not normal to bleed when you have sex. I really think you need to get checked out.

Slightly off topic but if you're getting thrush often is your DH treating himself for thrush or only you?

I hope he's been treated for thrush too. You should address this

It’s the principle. He should sort it and hasn’t . He sounds like an arse.

You clearly have no understanding of teenagers. They will have done an MI5 espionage level of analysis of her trolley contents in the time she's said 'Why are you buying WKDBlue.' And will have posted pics of it online before she's through the checkout.

I can't believe the amount of posters missing the actual point.

Her husband's knows she bleeds and sex is painful. She is fully responsible for contraception, he has one job and sulks when reminded because he isn't arsed about his wife's comfort when they have sex.

I'd say the issue is much deeper than 'buy your own lube, you prude'

Leaving aside the nonsense about shared Amazon accounts (other online retailers of lube are available), why are you letting a man penetrate you vaginally if it's going to lead to pain and bleeding?

There's hundreds of online shops to buy lube from.

I think the pair of you have made an unnecessary drama over something that amounts to little more than needing to buy milk or shower gel.

The surprising thing to me is that you keep having sex with him. You know it hurts you, he hasn't bothered to pick up lube (liquid silk btw much better than anything else) so just don't have sex.

Of course. ANY teenager would.

You could just buy it online but actually I don't think you are being unreasonable at all.

I'd just refuse sex at all until he sorts it 🤷‍♀️

Not the point of your thread but you commenting on the bleeding and thrush made me want to comment and suggest you look up a condition called lichen sclerosus and if you do have those symptoms please mention it to your GP.

Don't order from Amazon then, get it from superdrug online or something.

Or just don't have sex until he goes and buys some.

YANBU. But I also don't understand why either of you doesn't just order it online! You can set up another free Amazon account, or order it from anywhere else on the internet.

If you get thrush and you use lube, it could be the lube you use. Lots of them contain glycerin and some preservatives. Yes or Sutil don't, you can buy them online.

Your GP gave you 6 months of antibiotics .... for thrush?
Thrush is a fungal infection. ABs won't sort that, they often cause it.

Are you sure it's thrush?

I can't believe that such a simple problem can't be resolved by the simple process of buying online. Can't you alter privacy settings on Amazon so no one else can see your purchases?

Order it online from Boots or Superdrug for click & collect - it will be handed to you in a bag or box, nobody can see what’s inside.

It’s how I buy our lube. And you get it cheaper on subscription. Have you turned it into a little test for him? I couldn’t be arsed with that.