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AIBU?

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To be really uncomfortable about this?

104 replies

Littlebitpsycho · 06/04/2026 14:18

More than happy to be told I am being unreasonable here, but I find it weird and inappropriate.

DD is on holiday abroad with her dad. No issue with this, we co-parent well and have done for many years.

DD facetimed me earlier to show me their hotel room and it transpires that the hotel made a mistake - meaning there is only one bed in the room, and they have to share for the week.

AIBU to think that this is really inappropriate and Dad should either kick up a stink until they change rooms, or he asks for another mattress/air bed and sleeps on the floor?

DD is teenage if that helps, and says she isn't bothered (but he was listening to the call)

YABU - why are you being weird about this, it's fine
YANBU - it's weird and he should sleep on the floor/change rooms

PS - have not brought this up with her dad yet, wanted some unbiased opinions first

OP posts:
Flamingojune · 06/04/2026 14:25

Littlebitpsycho · 06/04/2026 14:23

I don't even really know, I just feel like it's a bit inappropriate to share a bed at that age? But I am happy to be told I'm wrong

I completely agree. Its weird

Littlebitpsycho · 06/04/2026 14:23

pinkyredrose · 06/04/2026 14:19

What's making you uncomfortable?

I don't even really know, I just feel like it's a bit inappropriate to share a bed at that age? But I am happy to be told I'm wrong

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krustykittens · 06/04/2026 14:20

He's her Dad and he is obviously one of the good ones because she feels safe with him and sees it as nothing more than an inconvenience, but they both need their privacy. The hotel should be sorting this asap and he should be kicking up a huge fuss if they prove reluctant to do so.

pinkyredrose · 06/04/2026 14:19

What's making you uncomfortable?