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Would you LTB over this?

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Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:26

My husband blew his nose in a tea towel and proceded to wipe the kitchen counters with it. Would I be unreasonable to LTB? He thinks it's reasonable behaviour and cannot see a problem.

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Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 10:18

I've shown him this thread and he still thinks it's funny!

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SoSadSoSadSoSad · 06/04/2026 10:18

How can you let him near you at all?

Notmyreality · 06/04/2026 10:17

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 10:06

😂🤣.
Personal hygiene has been an issue but I don't let him near me unless he is fully abulted and smells fresh as a daisy. Refuse to share a bedroom with him, obviously, so Lord knows what he gets up to in there..

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So why r u with him?

Eenameenadeeka · 06/04/2026 10:17

I really would leave. That's disgusting.

ArduousAndTedious · 06/04/2026 10:15

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 10:06

😂🤣.
Personal hygiene has been an issue but I don't let him near me unless he is fully abulted and smells fresh as a daisy. Refuse to share a bedroom with him, obviously, so Lord knows what he gets up to in there..

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You shouldn’t share a kitchen or sitting room with him either.

Will he change his ways once reading this thread?

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Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 10:13

Happyjoe · 06/04/2026 10:11

Why is he so unwilling to learn and change his ways?

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I don't know. I sometimes think that he must be missing so vital part of his brain thar would usually compute this kind of stuff.

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TinDogTavern · 06/04/2026 10:13

I’m a self-confessed minger and even I think this is rank as fuck.

Happyjoe · 06/04/2026 10:11

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 10:06

😂🤣.
Personal hygiene has been an issue but I don't let him near me unless he is fully abulted and smells fresh as a daisy. Refuse to share a bedroom with him, obviously, so Lord knows what he gets up to in there..

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Why is he so unwilling to learn and change his ways?

Happyjoe · 06/04/2026 10:10

Mansionscoldandgrey · 06/04/2026 10:05

What about jizz?

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You always like this, pedantic? You know perfectly well what was intended in that post.

Happyjoe · 06/04/2026 10:08

Why stop there? Suggest he cleans the toilet with his toothbrush, wipes his arse with his face cloth. I mean, he obviously has no concept of hygiene. And, not being funny but did he learn absolutely nothing during covid? It's not like we were not bombarded with advice how to not spread germs.

I could not live with someone like this, truly, I would find it too triggering!

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Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 10:06

Lurkingandlearning · 06/04/2026 10:03

This stuff can’t be new or has he been hiding his inner scum bag until now. If the latter, what has changed for him to think you’ll put up with his filthy behaviour now? Did you post this before or after packing his bags?

😂🤣.
Personal hygiene has been an issue but I don't let him near me unless he is fully abulted and smells fresh as a daisy. Refuse to share a bedroom with him, obviously, so Lord knows what he gets up to in there..

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Mansionscoldandgrey · 06/04/2026 10:05

ManyATrueWord · 06/04/2026 09:55

Jesus Christ! The most basic hygiene rule is that nothing that comes off your body should touch the body of another person. Snot, spit, shit, piss, scabs, hair, nail clippings, blood -; absolutely disgusting to spread any of these things around. Smearing bodily fluids on something like a tea towel is absolutely horrendous..My stomach turns reading the OP.

What about jizz?

Lurkingandlearning · 06/04/2026 10:03

This stuff can’t be new or has he been hiding his inner scum bag until now. If the latter, what has changed for him to think you’ll put up with his filthy behaviour now? Did you post this before or after packing his bags?

Ahsheeit · 06/04/2026 10:02

Dirty fucker 🤮

FaceIt · 06/04/2026 10:00

I wouldn’t want to be anywhere near someone like that 🤮

ManyATrueWord · 06/04/2026 09:55

Jesus Christ! The most basic hygiene rule is that nothing that comes off your body should touch the body of another person. Snot, spit, shit, piss, scabs, hair, nail clippings, blood -; absolutely disgusting to spread any of these things around. Smearing bodily fluids on something like a tea towel is absolutely horrendous..My stomach turns reading the OP.

ArduousAndTedious · 06/04/2026 09:48

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:35

Oh, I seriously wish it was! I've put up this post so he can see how the rest of the female world views such behaviour.

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Well it actually turned my stomach. 🤢 It’s the most vile thing I’ve read in a long time. Hence I thought it just couldn’t be true - no one could possibly be this unhygienic surely!

Yes, you have every right not to live with such a disgusting human.

shhblackbag · 06/04/2026 09:46

And yes, I absolutely would leave. The bar should not be in hell.

Iwantabucketofsteam · 06/04/2026 09:43

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:41

Leave the bastard.

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or 'Lose the Bastard'

MyTrivia · 06/04/2026 09:42

Ewww

SadTimesInFife · 06/04/2026 09:42

Ducks in a row....

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Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:41

Rileysp · 06/04/2026 09:40

What is LTB?

Leave the bastard.

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Rileysp · 06/04/2026 09:40

What is LTB?

Azulejo9 · 06/04/2026 09:39

Yuck. Why do you even need to ask?
I bet he leaves skid marks on his underwear too. Vile human

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Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:37

TittyGajillions · 06/04/2026 09:31

Why does the sofa have a scab?

Picking a large scab on his leg whilst sitting on the sofa.

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