Are most kids like this?

I don't know if this glimpse into the future might help OP, but my DS was like this at that age. He attended a very small primary school with only 20 kids in Y6 by the time he left. He always wanted us take him out, be with him at home, etc.

By age 12, he was at a big busy secondary school, had found his tribe of like minded people and got involved in all the sport, music and drama.

Now at 15 he is always on the go and out and about independently (though we live in London so that's quite easy for teenagers to get around).

Turns out he's an extrovert who thrives in the company of others and likes to be busy with activities as opposed to being at home. It's much easier now he can arrange his own stuff and he has a self - generated, full and interesting life.

So I guess I'm saying hang in there, you might end up with a self - starting teenager like I did.

It's ok for children to be bored. Children need to learn to amuse themselves and in a way it sounds as if your daughter has too much, loads of toys, adults to provide entertainment, escorting outside etc. Maybe pull back a bit.

I learned to occupy myself pretty early because if I ever said I was bored my mum or dad would give me a job. Might that work and you could get your car cleaned into the bargain 😀

It sounds like she needs to learn to be bored OP.

my youngest DD is a similar age - she has just found crocheting and it’s been a game changer; she’s obsessed!

Is she an only child? Do you think she’d be different if she had siblings of a similar age to play with? I only ask as my 6 yo dd sounds a bit similar- not as bad as you describe but is always asking me to play with her and can’t seem to entertain herself. I often think it’d be very different if she had a sibling

Whilst recognising it’s easier for me to say this as neither of my children did this - I can’t imagine I’d tolerate this from an 8 year old op. ‘I’m tired darling and would like to watch a film. You can watch it with me if you like or find something on your room to play with.’ And that would be the end of that discussion.

Ooof I'd be inclined to do a reset of sorts.
I couldn't live like this.
My kids are younger but even my 4 yo knows there are limits and her best bet is "quiet sulking"

Remove some of the toys
Limit screen time
Introduce quiet time
Introduce independent play with consequences for not following rules.
Be clear Whinging means no ice cream / activities end and she gets to be very bored / gets a consequence
I'd give her some chores
And id let ger choose what she does one Am /pm per week with one parent (other gets some r&r) visit a cafe... park... trip to town she is "the boss"

In answer to your question, neither of my dds were like that, no.
I don’t think I ever directly said it, but they would have known that saying ‘I’m bored’ wouldn’t have been an option.
if memory serves, they played a lot with og type dolls around that age, had loads of play dates and did their respective sports 5 or so hours a week. I don’t think I would ever have been expected to play with them by that age. Still read them stories so that would have been the major time together.
I have no answer for how to deal with it btw, sorry, sounds tough.

She needs to start to play on her own / do things a bit independently
Does she have play dates / cousins etc
does she enjoy reading or creating
maybe get a project or similar from hobby craft which she can do on her own and needs minimal supervision

She needs to learn to occupy herself . Sounds like you need to be a bit firmer with saying no to her .