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To be shocked when adults have absolutely no savings at all?

482 replies

ThisJollyReader · 05/04/2026 17:19

I’m going to be honest, I find it quite hard to understand when adults have no savings at all. Not even £100 put away. I’m not talking about people going through a temporary rough patch but just having nothing set aside whatsoever. Personally, I try to keep around £10k as a buffer (I know everyone’s situation is different), but even putting that aside, I would still feel uncomfortable having nothing at all.

AIBU to feel like having at least something put away is important or am I being too harsh?

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WonderingWanda · 05/04/2026 18:19

Can you not fathom why some people don't have savings? I have loads of savings now but didn't until I was much older. I came from a very working class background and came out of uni in debt with no family money to put towards rental deposits, first car etc. Despite going straight from Uni into teaching and flat sharing with now dh neither of us had savings throughout much of our 20's, a combination of paying back Uni debts and getting on the property ladder. We had endless expenses, buying furniture, shelling out for boilers, replacing knackered out old banged cars etc. By our late 20's dh who worked in the private sector had managed to save enough for us to get married but then back to square one. We had our first child and had to sell things to afford a pram. We had many lean years where I worked pt but saved masses on childcare, where we did camping or £9.99 Sun Holiday caravans and we managed to scrape by and eventually build up some savings again. As the kids got older and I went back full time, and after a profitable house move with a now significantly higher joint income we are comfortable. For many people on lower incomes normal life is so expensive now that I doubt anyone on a low income can afford savings....it's not even a case of living to your means anymore. I think many people literally can't live within their means.

ScholesPanda · 05/04/2026 18:18

It's not great for the adults concerned and you should try and save a buffer if you can.

But given the situation of wages vs. rent, mortgage, energy costs, household maintenance and goods, childcare etc. it's not really surprising some people struggle to put anything by is it?

So, yabu to be 'shocked'.

teraculum29 · 05/04/2026 18:17

OP, shall I not pay council tax so I can save £200 a month??

Enigma54 · 05/04/2026 18:17

You find it hard to understand when adults have no savings? Some people are literally living hand to mouth. Is that so hard to understand too??

usedtobeaylis · 05/04/2026 18:17

ColinOfficeTrolley · 05/04/2026 18:03

OP, are you a fucking prick irl, or just anonymously on the internet?

From your post, I can only assume you have savings because nobody likes you enough to ask you attend any events where you need to spend money.

I always think these threads end up being an exercise in people explaining how they save rather than actually trying to understand why others aren't able to.

usedtobeaylis · 05/04/2026 18:15

Let me guess, people should eat porridge more so they can save a bit.

LBFseBrom · 05/04/2026 18:14

I'm 76 and have about £500 in savings and a few premium bonds. I'm OK, manage quite well.

usedtobeaylis · 05/04/2026 18:13

I'm not sure I'd want to wave your lack of understanding around so much.

Quokka99 · 05/04/2026 18:11

Itsmetheflamingo · 05/04/2026 17:37

This only applies to very poor people though, since the majority of people could buy a kettle with little concern

That's true, but I'm writing from personal experience from a time when I was working full time but still had hardly anything after rent etc. I saved in the months I could save and when I needed my crisis fund for essential goods and repairs I was grateful I had it. I've got a better income but would still feel anxious if I hadn't got a small back up fund, though I get everyone is different.

Firstbornunicorn · 05/04/2026 18:06

It's because their outgoings are consistently equal to, or in excess of, their income. If you aren't capable of understanding this, then perhaps you are a bit dense.

IDontHateRainbows · 05/04/2026 18:06

I presume it's not because they are spending their salary on cocaine and champagne but they are poorly paid with high cost of living expenses.

EarthlyNightshade · 05/04/2026 18:05

Interesting first post, OP.

BeanQuisine · 05/04/2026 18:05

Depends on what you mean by "savings". I always keep a small bowl of coins on the kitchen dresser, for emergency pasta or teabags etc.

DriveVerySlowlyPastNumber23IWantThemToSeeMyHat · 05/04/2026 18:04

We had savings until we had our daughter and the cost of nursery absolutely floored us.

Littlemisscapable · 05/04/2026 18:04

hazelberry · 05/04/2026 17:20

You are easily shocked and a bit goady.

What is it with all these goady threads?

This..its easter sunday?! What's going on..

80smonster · 05/04/2026 18:04

Hard to say really, someone may have not much cash savings, but assets worth hundreds of thousands, someone else may have 50k saved, but be paying rent and relatively speaking not that well off. I would judge it by total assets not cash at the bank.

2dogsandabudgie · 05/04/2026 18:03

Twoshoesnewshoes · 05/04/2026 17:45

Ffs
we went into our overdraft pretty much every month when the kids were little.
all good now, we have savings and money to spend but it was really tight for a decade.

This, I think it depends on what stage of life you're at. We never had savings when our children were little. Had credit card debt and an overdraft. Now we're older we have no mortgage and have inherited money so now have savings.

Eeyorefan · 05/04/2026 18:03

Well if I got paid more I’d stand a better chance of having savings, but as I’m a low band NHS worker it’s not going to happen.

Allonthesametrain · 05/04/2026 18:03

I've always thought trying to save a bit every month if possible is something to strive to do. Even earning £8 a day for jobs while studying I would try to a few pounds into a savings account every month and it's amazing how quickly it adds up. Of course, when you need to you spend it then start again. Once the money's gone from your account and in another pot it's like it's not there anymore to be tempted to waste.

This is only if you can afford it, when you have to rely on overdrafts and credit cards it's impossible 😑

ColinOfficeTrolley · 05/04/2026 18:03

OP, are you a fucking prick irl, or just anonymously on the internet?

From your post, I can only assume you have savings because nobody likes you enough to ask you attend any events where you need to spend money.

CirclesandSpirals · 05/04/2026 18:02

BlackBean2023 · 05/04/2026 17:57

I hate to tell you this but saving doesn’t build a credit score - borrowing and paying it back does.

Yeh I always thought that too, but that was what the man in NatWest said to me. I did have a credit card as well, but not with them.

TheBigFatMermaid · 05/04/2026 18:02

I'm on benefits. My DP works. We still don't have enough to live without UC.

Do you really think the government gives us enough money that we have excess to be able to save?

LividArse · 05/04/2026 18:02

This is the financial equivalent of "can't you just eat less and move more" coming from someone with a full time nanny, a gym in the garage and the money to buy organic veggies.

(I've got some savings and no debt for the first time in my life, mid-40s. Absolutely terrified of the car conking and wiping out all my hard work)

EwwPeople · 05/04/2026 18:01

ThisJollyReader · 05/04/2026 17:32

Yes, I think age plays a part. I wouldn’t expect someone in their early 20s to have much at all. I was more thinking about people a bit further on who don’t tend to have any kind of buffer over time.

Some people live paycheck to paycheck and consider themselves fortunate, that they don’t have to actually get into more debt to get to the end of the month like plenty of other people do. Save what?

TheCurious0range · 05/04/2026 18:01

I'm not surprised people on low income or going through a crisis have no savings, I am often surprised when you see threads on here where people have a very good household income, have done for some time, have regular holidays, cars on finance etc and have no savings.