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AIBU not to tell my colleague about her daughter's OnlyFans

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DallazMajor · 05/04/2026 16:42

I found out via a friend that a colleagues daughter is selling explicit content on OF.

She is 19.

I think I should keep it to myself but my friend says we should tell my colleague.

AIBU to not tell.

edited to add that other colleagues already know and have been viewing the content.

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Coconutter24 · 05/04/2026 16:49

What do you want your colleague to do, confiscate her 19 year old daughters phone?

ItsOnlyHobnobs · 05/04/2026 16:49

Sounds like a horrible workplace, sharing a colleagues teenage child’s explicit images for gossip.

Shatteredallthetimelately · 05/04/2026 16:49

my friend says we should tell my colleague.

Probably translates to......
Your friend thinks you should tell your colleague.

If she wanted the colleague to know she'd have told her herself, leave it to her to do, then the messenger that gets shot won't be you.

Credittocress · 05/04/2026 16:49

DallazMajor · 05/04/2026 16:46

We were told and shown on a work social event.

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As soon as someone mentioned it you should have left the conversation as inappropriate-you shouldn’t have stayed in the conversation long enough to be shown.

MayaPinion · 05/04/2026 16:49

How do you know she doesn’t already know. I’m more disgusted with your colleagues for sharing explicit content at work. In my job that would be gross misconduct.

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DallazMajor · 05/04/2026 16:46

OttersOnAPlane · 05/04/2026 16:44

I cannot imagine the conversation about how you and your friend discovered this "explicit" OF. account, to be honest.

We were told and shown on a work social event.

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LlynTegid · 05/04/2026 16:46

I think you should be talking to the 19 year old first if you can.

ErlingHaalandsManBun · 05/04/2026 16:45

Absolutely do not tell her. Its nothing to do with you. Stay out of it.

For all you know she already knows about it and she probably won't thank you for gossiping and judging her daughter behind her back.

GroovyChick87 · 05/04/2026 16:44

Keep to yourself. I'd tell you the same even if she was your best mate, but she's not, she's your work colleague. None of your business, unless you feel like causing a load of trouble for someone.

ThatWaryLimePeer · 05/04/2026 16:44

Butt out.

Credittocress · 05/04/2026 16:44

Stay well out of it. If your colleague wants to tell that’s their business, but no good will come of it. You shouldn’t be discussing it between yourselves either

OttersOnAPlane · 05/04/2026 16:44

I cannot imagine the conversation about how you and your friend discovered this "explicit" OF. account, to be honest.

ANEC · 05/04/2026 16:43

I think it has nothing to do with you and you should keep well out of it.