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Programmes that have aged poorly and programmes that have aged well?

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HaveYouHadYourBreak · 05/04/2026 16:13

What programmes that you loved have surprised you on rewatching?

I've just finished the first series of This Life and was surprised at how well it has aged for the most part (but so much smoking!). It was refreshing to see people with imperfect teeth and pubic hair and wobbly bums living in a grotty house share past their early 20s. I'm re-living my youth with the music too.

But Coupling! Oof! I remember it being really good but some clips I've seen (like making sex videos without consent and the way women are talked about) demonstrate exactly why I've never seen any re-runs.

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QueenOfHiraeth · 06/04/2026 15:17

I understand that things become uncomfortable or jarring when we are conflicted but am amazed at people who cannot watch things with an understanding that times and attitudes have changed.

Reading this thread reinforces why there are so few good new programmes now, because everyone is so ready to be offended and the list of things that cannot be said has grown so long there's hardly anything left!

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 14:55

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 14:39

The Other One was outstanding - so astutely written and hilarious, as well as having multi-dimensional characters who inspired sympathy and dislike at the same time. Also an ensemble of strong, interesting female characters, with only a few very minor male characters on the periphery.

I looked for it only a couple of days ago, but I couldn't find it anywhere to watch - does anybody know where it might be available?

I've just seen you can get the DVDs on Amazon - £24 for each of the two series!!

Dollymylove · 06/04/2026 14:48

CruCru · 06/04/2026 12:27

I remember loving the theme tune to it. I saw it a few times but was a bit too young to understand what it was about.

Dolly Partons Butterflies. I was never a fan of Carla Lane but I watched this because I wanted Rhia to dump boring Ben and get with Leonard 😅

godmum56 · 06/04/2026 14:41

drivinmecrazy · 06/04/2026 12:42

Loved this at the time because the Wendy Craig character was very much not my mum, though I wished she was.
I also remember an earlier Wendy Craig series where she played the part of a Nanny and would go to different grand houses.
its frustrated me for many years that I can’t find it online anywhere

It was called Nanny or The Nanny

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 14:39

HollyGolightly4 · 06/04/2026 14:20

I find it frustrating when people generalise that there's no good sitcoms on any more - I think there's plenty, on varied topics, but I don't think people watch them in the same way because how we've watched TV has changed.

For example, The Other One is a brilliant BBC sitcom, with a great cast. Alma's Not Normal- hard hitting but funny, Mammoth- amusing. If people are streaming though, or don't look them out, they don't get watched!

The Other One was outstanding - so astutely written and hilarious, as well as having multi-dimensional characters who inspired sympathy and dislike at the same time. Also an ensemble of strong, interesting female characters, with only a few very minor male characters on the periphery.

I looked for it only a couple of days ago, but I couldn't find it anywhere to watch - does anybody know where it might be available?

HaveYouHadYourBreak · 06/04/2026 14:37

I do agree that the amount of unnecessary swearing makes some things much less funny/watchable. Case in point - the first series of Schitts Creek. The name put me off and then I almost stopped watching it because of the amount of swearing. Luckily they toned it down for later series.

And very few programmes are improved with sex scenes. You can make it clear characters had/are going to have sex (and even the type of sex) without showing naked people writhing noisily.

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Purplebunnie · 06/04/2026 14:36

starfishmummy · 06/04/2026 14:23

Keeping up Appearances reminds me of my late Mum! The "just been to the hairdressers for a shampoo and set" look was exactly her. She also airs and graces and an element of snobbery! (But she certainly didn't hen peck Dad nor terrorise the postie!!).

Reminds me of my late mom as well. There was a strong facial resemblance and definitely the same hairstyle. Mom also had some airs and graces but not as many and could be quite snobby. Probably a generational thing. Never hen pecked my dad who resembled a young Eric Morcombe. My dad died quite young though

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 14:28

RockItLikeRocketFuel · 06/04/2026 13:52

I saw Two Pints was on recently and watched a bit for curiosity's sake, remembering a light-hearted argument I had with someone in what must have been the late 2000s about what was the funniest thing on TV; Two Pints was her appalling choice. It was actually better than I remember it being, which means one of two things: either it was better than I remember it being, or the standard of sitcom writing gets worse. I'll let the MN Collective draw their own conclusions.

I enjoyed it at the time; however the writing wasn't strong enough to back up some of the very well-thought-out situations. Wasn't the writer only about 16 or 17 at the time? Yes, she was amazing for her age; but I think it would have benefited from having an older, more experienced writer or two in addition to her youthful brilliance.

starfishmummy · 06/04/2026 14:23

scalt · 05/04/2026 18:46

Keeping up appearances is very fondly remembered, and has mostly aged well. Just imagine if Hyacinth had been on Mumsnet, or Facebook, or had been a Covid marshal!

Keeping up Appearances reminds me of my late Mum! The "just been to the hairdressers for a shampoo and set" look was exactly her. She also airs and graces and an element of snobbery! (But she certainly didn't hen peck Dad nor terrorise the postie!!).

Differentforgirls · 06/04/2026 14:21

CarlaH · 06/04/2026 13:52

I almost get a physical nostalgic pain when watching the brilliant 1981 Brideshead Revisited.

The last time I watched it I was reminded that it wasn't actually made by the BBC but Granada for ITV. Those were the days.

I absolutely adore that programme and the book is one of my favourites. 😊

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 14:21

Dollymylove · 06/04/2026 10:15

Anna Karen was an actress, acting. It wasnt real!! She was dressed for the part with the glasses and the dowdy clothing. In real life she was a glamorous and attractive woman. You are reading far too much into these 50 odd year old shows

That's not the point, though. The character she played was not only made to look dowdy and plain, but she was repeatedly bullied and humiliated for it.

Her 'character flaw' was not in being mean, rude, arrogant, deceitful, lazy, selfish, dishonest... her 'fault', for which she was repeatedly criticised, was in being a young woman who wasn't pretty. And one of the saddest things of all was the way that she just accepted that treatment as her lot in life.

HollyGolightly4 · 06/04/2026 14:20

I find it frustrating when people generalise that there's no good sitcoms on any more - I think there's plenty, on varied topics, but I don't think people watch them in the same way because how we've watched TV has changed.

For example, The Other One is a brilliant BBC sitcom, with a great cast. Alma's Not Normal- hard hitting but funny, Mammoth- amusing. If people are streaming though, or don't look them out, they don't get watched!

Purplebunnie · 06/04/2026 14:17

DeafLeppard · 06/04/2026 08:49

Yes, Babylon 5 was much better (and strangely prophetic about the future). JMS could also write strong women, even if he did do Ivanova dirty!

G'kar is my absolute favourite. I sometimes go and watch his speeches on YouTube, incredibly well written and delivered with such emotion

Ivanova's death incarnate speech is worth a watch

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 14:11

ThisJadeBear · 06/04/2026 07:56

I watch The Royle Family at least once a year.
There is no way it would be commissioned now, mostly because of what comes out of Jim’s mouth.
However, I still love it, mainly because of Nana. The Queen of Sheba episode was my favourite.

There is no way it would be commissioned now, mostly because of what comes out of Jim’s mouth.

Or another orifice Grin

CarlaH · 06/04/2026 13:58

KimberleyClark · 06/04/2026 13:57

Brideshead Revisited and The Jewel in The Crown remain the best things ITV ever made.

Ooh yes The Jewel in the Crown was brilliant.

KimberleyClark · 06/04/2026 13:57

CarlaH · 06/04/2026 13:52

I almost get a physical nostalgic pain when watching the brilliant 1981 Brideshead Revisited.

The last time I watched it I was reminded that it wasn't actually made by the BBC but Granada for ITV. Those were the days.

Brideshead Revisited and The Jewel in The Crown remain the best things ITV ever made.

CarlaH · 06/04/2026 13:52

I almost get a physical nostalgic pain when watching the brilliant 1981 Brideshead Revisited.

The last time I watched it I was reminded that it wasn't actually made by the BBC but Granada for ITV. Those were the days.

RockItLikeRocketFuel · 06/04/2026 13:52

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 13:12

Some of the classics seem to pop up on BBC4, though - and BBC3 often has things like Two Pints, which probably aren't that much more recent than when OFAH finished.

I don't get why they would keep making and showing new episodes of Mrs Brown's Boys on BBC1 whilst ignoring their vast archives of similar-style 'traditional' sitcoms that they already have.

I saw Two Pints was on recently and watched a bit for curiosity's sake, remembering a light-hearted argument I had with someone in what must have been the late 2000s about what was the funniest thing on TV; Two Pints was her appalling choice. It was actually better than I remember it being, which means one of two things: either it was better than I remember it being, or the standard of sitcom writing gets worse. I'll let the MN Collective draw their own conclusions.

ginasevern · 06/04/2026 13:52

AnnaMagnani · 05/04/2026 18:07

Tom in The Good Life is a monster. Forever messing things up and making Barbara's life harder just because he's had a midlife crisis then flirting with Margot in front of her.

I am stunned that I ever thought he was lovely and Jerry was stuffy and boring. Jerry is just quietly being a perfect husband.

Agreed. Although I do think that Tom's "flirting" with Margot was very tongue in cheek rather than a serious play to get in her knickers. He was efffectively making fun of Margot and Barbara found it a source of amusement too (not right, but that's what it was). But I always thought Margot and Jerry were lovely, generous people whilst Tom and Barbara were both pretty self absorbed and at times very unpleasant.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 06/04/2026 13:41

InternetResearchedOut · 05/04/2026 16:18

I happened across an episode of Yes Prime Minister the other evening, which remains so topical. DC love Father Ted too.

Yes Minister/Prime Minister is somehow always topical on tv or radio!

PistachioTiramisu · 06/04/2026 13:30

godmum56 · 05/04/2026 20:59

I am really enjoying watching New Tricks.

Love New Tricks and it's still watchable multiple times (with a bit of a gap in between!).

Also loved Hustle and that's pretty timeless too.

PistachioTiramisu · 06/04/2026 13:17

One show which I recently re-watched and loved all over again is Sapphire and Steel - still spooky and thought-provoking, and of course it features the wonderful Joanna Lumley and David McCallum.

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 13:12

MasterBeth · 06/04/2026 04:06

The reason OFAH isn't shown on "the main" BBC channels any more is because no old sitcoms are shown on "the main" BBC channels any more.

Some of the classics seem to pop up on BBC4, though - and BBC3 often has things like Two Pints, which probably aren't that much more recent than when OFAH finished.

I don't get why they would keep making and showing new episodes of Mrs Brown's Boys on BBC1 whilst ignoring their vast archives of similar-style 'traditional' sitcoms that they already have.

PistachioTiramisu · 06/04/2026 13:05

Dollymylove · 06/04/2026 12:08

Maybe Im missing something here, yes its true that some older shows were problematic, racism, sexism, women in suspenders being chased by men etc
Fast forward to 21st century offerings and we have the F word (and others) thrown around like confetti, graphic and gratuitous scenes of violence and murder, and explicit, virtually naked graphic sexual scenes etc.
So who is saying this is more acceptable than the old stuff?

I completely agree with you. Some of the old comedy which is now frowned upon was truly laugh out loud amusing. I hate current comedy, most of which seems to concentrate on sex, swearing and bodily functions. I really dislike being confronted with writhing bodies on my TV when I am eating dinner!

Monolithique · 06/04/2026 12:58

drivinmecrazy · 06/04/2026 12:42

Loved this at the time because the Wendy Craig character was very much not my mum, though I wished she was.
I also remember an earlier Wendy Craig series where she played the part of a Nanny and would go to different grand houses.
its frustrated me for many years that I can’t find it online anywhere

Nanny (The Nanny?) was actually later than Butterflies iirc.

Loved it and (along with to The Manor Born) it fuelled my desire to life in a big old house surrounded by rolling fields and with horses.

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