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Programmes that have aged poorly and programmes that have aged well?

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HaveYouHadYourBreak · 05/04/2026 16:13

What programmes that you loved have surprised you on rewatching?

I've just finished the first series of This Life and was surprised at how well it has aged for the most part (but so much smoking!). It was refreshing to see people with imperfect teeth and pubic hair and wobbly bums living in a grotty house share past their early 20s. I'm re-living my youth with the music too.

But Coupling! Oof! I remember it being really good but some clips I've seen (like making sex videos without consent and the way women are talked about) demonstrate exactly why I've never seen any re-runs.

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Carla786 · 07/04/2026 00:03

GellerYeller · 06/04/2026 23:05

Someone sent my kids a clip of Mind Your Language as though it was a meme. They were appalled when I told them that unbelievably, it was real. And is still shown on one of the Sky channels. They were similarly fascinated with Little Britain.

They do adore Love Actually but I get overly wound up that everyone has to speak like Richard Curtis in his films: ‘blue and wibbly’, ‘fuck a doodle doo’.

I love Margo Leadbeater. I think she’s an absolute style icon with her kaftans and matching headbands.

I was a bit surprised when reading Malala Yousafzai's autobiography to find that she was a big fan of Mind Your Language!

Carla786 · 07/04/2026 00:02

Appalonia · 07/04/2026 00:00

Charlie's Angels was on TV recently. I couldn't believe it had a trigger warning at the start! I enjoyed rewatching it, but that's probably just because it was a nostalgia trip.

My mum (Gen X) loved Charlie's Angels as a little girl & introduced it to me..it was pretty proto-feminist for its time. Why was there a trigger warning??

Appalonia · 07/04/2026 00:00

Summerhillsquare · 06/04/2026 06:56

Someone said the Upper Hand but actually I think the characters and even the situation are quite modern! Still funny and warm.

Weirdly, a lot of 80's American TV they show on that Legend channel is astonishingly 'woke': Knightrider; the A team, even to a point Charlie's Angels, because the themes are social justice and right overcoming right. And then Star Trek is in a class of its own. Even the tech in Knightrider stands the test of time.

Charlie's Angels was on TV recently. I couldn't believe it had a trigger warning at the start! I enjoyed rewatching it, but that's probably just because it was a nostalgia trip.

GellerYeller · 06/04/2026 23:50

Just adding that they were fascinated at how appalling Little Britain was. It wasn’t clear from my post.

GellerYeller · 06/04/2026 23:05

Someone sent my kids a clip of Mind Your Language as though it was a meme. They were appalled when I told them that unbelievably, it was real. And is still shown on one of the Sky channels. They were similarly fascinated with Little Britain.

They do adore Love Actually but I get overly wound up that everyone has to speak like Richard Curtis in his films: ‘blue and wibbly’, ‘fuck a doodle doo’.

I love Margo Leadbeater. I think she’s an absolute style icon with her kaftans and matching headbands.

CruCru · 06/04/2026 22:49

Dollymylove · 06/04/2026 22:30

I hated Mr Bean but loved Blackadder and the Thin blue line 😊

Same here!

Dollymylove · 06/04/2026 22:31

rc22 · 06/04/2026 21:22

Richard Briers didn't like the character, Tom Good, in the Good Life. He said he was selfish and inconsiderate to Barbara.

Now I'm in my late 40s, I really fancy Jerry 😂

I always wanted Jerry and Barbara to get it on 😉😉🥰

Dollymylove · 06/04/2026 22:30

Lalgarh · 06/04/2026 19:29

Ugh I always hated Mr Bean

I hated Mr Bean but loved Blackadder and the Thin blue line 😊

Hummingbird01 · 06/04/2026 21:46

LindorDoubleChoc · 06/04/2026 20:27

YABU.

This thread should be moved to Telly Addicts

nah, it needs more traffic

rc22 · 06/04/2026 21:22

Richard Briers didn't like the character, Tom Good, in the Good Life. He said he was selfish and inconsiderate to Barbara.

Now I'm in my late 40s, I really fancy Jerry 😂

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 06/04/2026 21:20

godmum56 · 06/04/2026 18:37

I indrstand that "Till Death Us" was supposed to portray Alf in a bad light, similar to Les Patterson, but too many people agreed with him

This is my understanding too. Apparently it used to drive Warren Mitchell mad when people used to agree with Alf. The whole premise of the show was to challenge his world view not endorse it.

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 21:15

Octoberfest · 06/04/2026 16:29

I know it's a film not a programme but I was amazed at how dreadful Love Actually was (watched it for the first time this Christmas). Male sexual privilege on steroids, and crap plotlines. I can't quite believe it was made and that no-one called out the dreadful way that the female characters were portrayed.

I think Richard Curits is a brilliant screenwriter, with a great imagination of what will be popular; but a major weakness is that he works alone, as well as his default attitude towards women. I don't think he's a deliberate misogynist, but just generally quite clueless and dismissive when it comes to women.

I can't help thinking that, if he worked in collaboration with others, including female ones - all having an equal say in everything - his films would be so much better, and much less problematic.

merryhouse · 06/04/2026 21:05

yeah, back in the 90s I watched one episode of Butterflies because H had said it was really good

Decided I was bored with people who thought "can't be arsed to find out what to do with food, EVEN though it's the only thing I have to do to stop myself dying of boredom" was funny. And what the hell made her think latching onto a slightly different man would improve things?

BalloonSlayer · 06/04/2026 20:52

Charlize43 · 06/04/2026 12:17

Probably showing my age now but does anyone remember Butterflies with Wendy Craig?

I remember watching that as a child and wondering if this was what married life was like? It's full of 70s attitudes but I loved the stoic absurdity of Craig's dysfunctional character who can't cook being caught up in being a traditional wife role and having two grown (sexist) sons and a (old school) husband to deal with. It was written by a woman so it was wonderfully perceptive and human and feminist without being in-yer-face 'I hate men' feminism.

I enjoyed Butterflies when it was originally broadcast in the late 70s but have seen it since and been appalled.

She can't get a job because "her husband doesn't want her to." He's a nice-enough vague sort of bloke - would he even notice if she got a job? He certainly doesn't notice anything else.

But she decides she can't work. She'll be a housewife: "reluctantly." She has a cleaner. She can't cook. She is bored stiff. Erm . . . why not LEARN to cook?

I thought she was pathetic, drifting around vaguely doing nothing and leading on an equally pathetic man.

There was a scene when Elkie Brooks ' "Lilac Wine," was on the radio. Ria exclaimed: "Pull yourself together, you stupid cow!" to much hilarity.

My irony-meter nearly exploded - it in exactly what I had thought watching every single episode of Butterflies.

LindorDoubleChoc · 06/04/2026 20:27

YABU.

This thread should be moved to Telly Addicts

Lalgarh · 06/04/2026 20:13

Carry On Girls is the greatest feminist action film of all time

Growlybear83 · 06/04/2026 20:06

KatiePricesKnickers · 06/04/2026 18:36

Love the Carry On films.

I’ve watched two films this afternoon. They are so light hearted and I still find them very funny even though I’ve seen most of them several times.

Piglet89 · 06/04/2026 19:49

Sartre · 05/04/2026 19:11

Keeping Up Appearances has aged well imo. It’s still funny and it’s harmless.

Gimme Gimme Gimme had an awful episode I watched months ago when I was going through a nostalgic spell. They were trying to impress a black man so they dressed up in African attire. It was really grim.

Patricia Routledge was a multi-talented performer: a complete class act. She and Lansbury - icons both.

I love that PR had the guts to call time on “KUA” because she felt some of the ideas for the scenes were becoming repetitive and maybe because she didn’t want to get typecast. She was just brilliant, basically married to the craft and it showed in the most wonderful way possible.

Lalgarh · 06/04/2026 19:47

Lindy West!

She's back in the news in the US (and expect the graun to start running articles on her very soon) because, for all her feminist no nonsense on Love Actually she's ended up in a Throuple with a shit who duped her into it as a sort of reparation for slavery (yes. Really).

She's essentially the woke Liz Jones now

Piglet89 · 06/04/2026 19:43

ginasevern · 06/04/2026 13:52

Agreed. Although I do think that Tom's "flirting" with Margot was very tongue in cheek rather than a serious play to get in her knickers. He was efffectively making fun of Margot and Barbara found it a source of amusement too (not right, but that's what it was). But I always thought Margot and Jerry were lovely, generous people whilst Tom and Barbara were both pretty self absorbed and at times very unpleasant.

Paul Eddington was an absolutely wonderful, sympathetic comedic actor, sadly taken far too soon: he was outstanding.

Lalgarh · 06/04/2026 19:29

Ugh I always hated Mr Bean

Brownbananaspot · 06/04/2026 19:19

Dragonflytamer · 05/04/2026 19:45

Even Mr Bean is a bit questionable. I was watching one last night as my little girl loves it. In the swimming pool one he end up flashing a group of school girls, and in the school open day he uses static to make a girl's skirt go up to reveal her knickers, which is meant to be hilarious. I'm sure if it was made now it would be different.

The point was that Mr Bean was an idiot (and an alien) who ended up in situations embarrassing to him like losing his swimming shorts when diving and accidently flashing a load of girls. He also ends up in a toilet with a man when trying to retrieve his credit card that the guy mistakenly puts in his back pocket. You're meant to laugh at his misfortune.

Edit: I'd also forgotten he headbutts the queen by accident!

Like Ab Fab these aren't people to emulate but to be laughed at.

godmum56 · 06/04/2026 19:03

Differentforgirls · 06/04/2026 18:37

There’s a second series coming out. Maybe you could try again? It really was good.

only if they learn to use language more creatively

CruCru · 06/04/2026 19:00

A few years ago, I watched She-Ra with my son and it was brilliant. It had a plot that carried on through the series so you needed to have watched them all to understand what was happening.