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Programmes that have aged poorly and programmes that have aged well?

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HaveYouHadYourBreak · 05/04/2026 16:13

What programmes that you loved have surprised you on rewatching?

I've just finished the first series of This Life and was surprised at how well it has aged for the most part (but so much smoking!). It was refreshing to see people with imperfect teeth and pubic hair and wobbly bums living in a grotty house share past their early 20s. I'm re-living my youth with the music too.

But Coupling! Oof! I remember it being really good but some clips I've seen (like making sex videos without consent and the way women are talked about) demonstrate exactly why I've never seen any re-runs.

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Foxesinthesnow · 07/04/2026 10:35

rc22 · 06/04/2026 21:22

Richard Briers didn't like the character, Tom Good, in the Good Life. He said he was selfish and inconsiderate to Barbara.

Now I'm in my late 40s, I really fancy Jerry 😂

I’ve always loved Richard Briers. It makes me feel so much better knowing he hated Tom as well. It always sat off with me that he had played this role.

TempestTost · 07/04/2026 10:32

Orangemintcream · 06/04/2026 09:18

Big bang was a bit close to the line when it was shown and now there are bits of it that are horrifying. Howard’s treatment of women in particular but also the casual “funny” racism.

Horrifying?

That seems extreme.

So people think we are meant to take everything that is said in a comedy as if it is a righteous thing to say? Very often the opposite is true.

It wasn't sophisticated stuff, but horrifying is way over the top.

CoffeeCantata · 07/04/2026 10:31

godmum56 · 07/04/2026 10:08

I never liked it....not keen on Monty Python either. I did like Marty Feldman and Antony Newley in Gurney Slade.

Whilst I think John Cleese is clearly very clever and inventive I now suspect there's more than a bit of him in Basil Fawlty!!

I mean...he's been married many, many times for a start.

Toddlerteaplease · 07/04/2026 10:16

@almondflakeOh Dr Beeching was brilliant. But never seen it repeated, it’s set in the 50’s.

Lalgarh · 07/04/2026 10:14

Im like that but about Metroland by John Betjeman. At one point he mentions some event at a station "in 29" and stuff about the 90s and you have to remember he's talking about the 1890s and 1929

godmum56 · 07/04/2026 10:10

not a comedy but am watching programs made by Jack Hargreaves about country life as he remembers it....of course its double history now because the programs themselves were made between 1960 and 1986

godmum56 · 07/04/2026 10:08

KimberleyClark · 07/04/2026 10:06

When Fawlty Towers was first on, I remember the reception was very much on the side of Basil and against 'nagging, hen-pecking, frumpy, overbearing' Sybil. Also, his bullying of Manuel was largely seen as funny and again, the view was that Basil was justified because Manuel was an idiot. When I re-watched it I was struck by how brilliant Sybil is in keeping everything afloat and pitied her having to deal with the appalling Basil. And I couldn't watch some bits where Basil belittles and bullies Manuel.

Sybil also spent a lot of time supporting her friend with her personal/marital problems. She was actually a lovely woman.

I never liked it....not keen on Monty Python either. I did like Marty Feldman and Antony Newley in Gurney Slade.

KimberleyClark · 07/04/2026 10:06

When Fawlty Towers was first on, I remember the reception was very much on the side of Basil and against 'nagging, hen-pecking, frumpy, overbearing' Sybil. Also, his bullying of Manuel was largely seen as funny and again, the view was that Basil was justified because Manuel was an idiot. When I re-watched it I was struck by how brilliant Sybil is in keeping everything afloat and pitied her having to deal with the appalling Basil. And I couldn't watch some bits where Basil belittles and bullies Manuel.

Sybil also spent a lot of time supporting her friend with her personal/marital problems. She was actually a lovely woman.

Dollymylove · 07/04/2026 09:19

Carla786 · 07/04/2026 00:02

My mum (Gen X) loved Charlie's Angels as a little girl & introduced it to me..it was pretty proto-feminist for its time. Why was there a trigger warning??

Maybe because the women were very attractive biological females?
That seems to be a crime in some quarters nowadays!!

Octoberfest · 07/04/2026 08:59

Piglet89 · 06/04/2026 19:39

@Octoberfestre Love Actually: have a read of this.

https://www.jezebel.com/i-rewatched-love-actually-and-am-here-to-ruin-it-for-al-1485136388

Laugh out loud funny.

Brilliant. What a take-down

Housewife2010 · 07/04/2026 08:56

WalkDontWalk · 07/04/2026 06:55

Also Morecambe and Wise.

They were friends though, rather than a couple.

CoffeeCantata · 07/04/2026 08:23

Great thread! Some points that occur to me:

  • Yes, it's sobering to see that in the past actors who weren't immaculate physical specimens were allowed to exist and work! Dodgy teeth, frizzy hair etc etc. It really reinforces how distorted things have become in recent years.
  • When Fawlty Towers was first on, I remember the reception was very much on the side of Basil and against 'nagging, hen-pecking, frumpy, overbearing' Sybil. Also, his bullying of Manuel was largely seen as funny and again, the view was that Basil was justified because Manuel was an idiot. When I re-watched it I was struck by how brilliant Sybil is in keeping everything afloat and pitied her having to deal with the appalling Basil. And I couldn't watch some bits where Basil belittles and bullies Manuel.
  • I'm just old enough to have seen a few Till Death Us Do Parts, and I hated it. I know that Johnny Speight intended to satirise Alf Garnett's horrible attitudes, but I think it backfired badly and lots of people actually took it at face value.
  • Great to read pps' reassessment of The Good Life! I thought I was the only one who found the Goods insufferable.
RedBalls · 07/04/2026 07:27

I don’t think Friends has aged particularly well, although I expect a lot of people will disagree.

I think the classic series of Doctor Who has aged fairly well, on the whole. And “of their time” moments are a few and far between. There are a some episode, for example, where a white British actor plays a Chinese character, which simply wouldn’t happen today; however, it wasn’t unusual then, and the serial itself, if you can get over that, is really excellent.

worrisomeasset · 07/04/2026 07:20

Carla786 · 07/04/2026 00:03

I was a bit surprised when reading Malala Yousafzai's autobiography to find that she was a big fan of Mind Your Language!

I’ve been down a bit of a Mind Your Language rabbit hole since reading this thread and I’ve found that the show was massively popular in Pakistan and India. It was shown in both those countries for years after its initial run, which is how someone as relatively young as Malala is familiar with it. In India, they liked it so much that they made their own version of it.

Charlize43 · 07/04/2026 07:11

I wonder what people would make of Nighty Night with Julia Davis today?

I absolutely loved it (have it on DVD) although the jokes & humour are really below the belt. Her other works, Human Remains & Hunderby were also brilliant. Her style of comedy probably isn't allowed today as there were jokes on Cancer, disabilities (Rebecca Front was brilliant as the ever polite Cath); facial tics; lesbians, murder, sexual harassment, false rape, etc and of course the monstrous Jill Tyrell, who seemed to have no limits. Even in 2004, some people felt that it was totally inappropriate.

WalkDontWalk · 07/04/2026 06:55

Housewife2010 · 07/04/2026 04:47

There definitely wasn't any strict rules re showing couples in bed on TV at the time Faulty Towers was filmed. Robin's Nest and Upstairs Downstairs were filmed in the 70's and both showed unmarried couples in bed together.

Also Morecambe and Wise.

Housewife2010 · 07/04/2026 04:47

scalt · 05/04/2026 18:37

Little Britain has not aged well, although it was very popular when it was first on. Mocking weak stereotypes isn’t “acceptable humour” any more.

Most of Fawlty Towers is still very relevant: customer service, class snobbery, couples who hate each other, and is a masterclass in comic writing and timing. Certain practical things have dated: young viewers say “it’s weird to see them smoking indoors”, or Basil and Sybil in separate beds: there used to be strict rules about showing couples in the same bed on TV. There is of course the bumbling Major’s casual racism, and it has often been pointed out that the show is mocking the Major, not the people he refers to; and similarly, the Germans: the show does not mock the Germans, but Basil’s attitude to them.

Another vote for Porridge aging well. Reportedly, prisoners loved the show, because of how real it was. The video orderly would have the important duty of taping it.

Edited to add: with Fawlty Towers, there is a lot of physical violence: Basil to manuel, and Sybil to Basil, all played for laughs, but does that make uncomfortable viewing now?

Edited

There definitely wasn't any strict rules re showing couples in bed on TV at the time Faulty Towers was filmed. Robin's Nest and Upstairs Downstairs were filmed in the 70's and both showed unmarried couples in bed together.

TippyTee · 07/04/2026 03:25

I think the movie Double Jeopardy, is great. I think it stands the test of time. I highly recommend (love it when that guy in the library tries to hit on her!).

Pineapplewhip · 07/04/2026 03:10

Keeping up appearances has aged perfectly. The characters are so well done that you could imagine them just slotting into modern day life.

Except for Rose - I always thought the actress really overdid that role and it was too panto.

Appalonia · 07/04/2026 00:35

Carla786 · 07/04/2026 00:02

My mum (Gen X) loved Charlie's Angels as a little girl & introduced it to me..it was pretty proto-feminist for its time. Why was there a trigger warning??

Why? God knows! It was something like, this show contains language and attitudes that may not be acceptable today and some may find offensive. Totally unnecessary IMO, maybe the women were too slim, glamorous and beautiful...?!

Appalonia · 07/04/2026 00:31

I rewatched At Elmo's Fire at the weekend. I don't think it's aged well at all, especially the men's treatment of the women. But again, it was representative of its time. You can't expect things that were made 40 years ago to portray the values that are considered acceptable today, times have changed but that's no reason to cancel them.

WeirdyBeardyMarrowBabyLady · 07/04/2026 00:12

ScottChegg · 05/04/2026 21:05

I used to love Goodnight Sweetheart but now I can't think why I did. I suppose I liked the idea of going back in time. Gary Sparrow was a reprobate though.

Richard Herring had a whole comedy thing about Goodnight Sweetheart which was broadly along the lines of all the things he could have done for humanity and the course of history with this weird time portal and he basically just used it to have an affair.

Carla786 · 07/04/2026 00:11

Dollymylove · 06/04/2026 12:08

Maybe Im missing something here, yes its true that some older shows were problematic, racism, sexism, women in suspenders being chased by men etc
Fast forward to 21st century offerings and we have the F word (and others) thrown around like confetti, graphic and gratuitous scenes of violence and murder, and explicit, virtually naked graphic sexual scenes etc.
So who is saying this is more acceptable than the old stuff?

I agree that some things have got better but some worse. I'm Gen Z & I think my generation as a whole are bored & turned off by graphic sexual content after too much porn exposure and sexual stuff in media. I don't mind some sexual content but not the amount we have now, it's not fair on the actors, frankly. Violence ditto.

There are plenty of good shows that don't have that, though.

Carla786 · 07/04/2026 00:09

WalkDontWalk · 06/04/2026 15:31

Richard Briers didn't think that Tom was happy-go-lucky at all. He thought he was selfish, obsessive, insensitive and facetious, and that's how he played him.

Apparently he got it right.

Yes, my mother put The Good Life on a while ago and it started with Tom calling Barbara a bitch. Poor Barbara - she didn't deserve him.
I get it wasn't trying to make out Tom was nice- I thunk she had just remembered it as a soft show from when she was a child, I suppose Tom etc went over her head then.

Carla786 · 07/04/2026 00:07

QueenOfHiraeth · 06/04/2026 15:17

I understand that things become uncomfortable or jarring when we are conflicted but am amazed at people who cannot watch things with an understanding that times and attitudes have changed.

Reading this thread reinforces why there are so few good new programmes now, because everyone is so ready to be offended and the list of things that cannot be said has grown so long there's hardly anything left!

I'm not convinced there's so few good new programs now, but I do think we are a bit low on comedy. I liked Derry Girls though, for one.