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Programmes that have aged poorly and programmes that have aged well?

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HaveYouHadYourBreak · 05/04/2026 16:13

What programmes that you loved have surprised you on rewatching?

I've just finished the first series of This Life and was surprised at how well it has aged for the most part (but so much smoking!). It was refreshing to see people with imperfect teeth and pubic hair and wobbly bums living in a grotty house share past their early 20s. I'm re-living my youth with the music too.

But Coupling! Oof! I remember it being really good but some clips I've seen (like making sex videos without consent and the way women are talked about) demonstrate exactly why I've never seen any re-runs.

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HaveYouHadYourBreak · 06/04/2026 10:29

Labelledelune · 06/04/2026 09:12

But we were so much happier , maybe because we just took things as they were not trying to find fault like discrimination, sexism etc in everything we see.

Were we happier or were we just oblivious to the impact we were having on the people being portrayed?

Some of it was lowest common denominator and just lazy. I remember really liking Little Britain at the time but with more knowledge I can see how dodgy some of it is. Like someone above mentioned, is it actually funny to laugh at disabled kids because of their disability?

If you look at the comedies that have aged well, they are a lot cleverer than making jokes about someone's foreign name or accent. For instance Drop The Dead Donkey made fun of sexism so it was funny but didnt target people.

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Growlybear83 · 06/04/2026 10:28

I don’t think I’ve ever cringed when Ive watched re-runs of the programmes I watched many years ago. I can accept that a lot of people might think they are not appropriate now, but they were acceptable at the time they were made. Just because times have moved on, it doesn’t mean that old programmes which were funny at the time are no longer funny. I’d forgotten to check what was on tv today but thanks to this thread, Im off to watch the end of the Steptoe film, and have set my video to record Carry on Matron and Carry on Abroad. 🤣🤣

Differentforgirls · 06/04/2026 10:18

RampantIvy · 06/04/2026 10:18

Everyone?
All Brits?

No, mainly English people in my experience.

RampantIvy · 06/04/2026 10:18

Differentforgirls · 06/04/2026 10:16

Might be the reason why people all over the world dislike British people.

Everyone?
All Brits?

Differentforgirls · 06/04/2026 10:16

Labelledelune · 06/04/2026 10:04

Yes we should. It’s what the British have always done.

Might be the reason why people all over the world dislike British people.

Dollymylove · 06/04/2026 10:15

Lalgarh · 06/04/2026 10:10

I remember On the Buses got repeated initially in the 90s and I was braced for it being like an extended party political for the NF but I was pleasantly relieved there wasn't as much racism as id expected. Maybe they just didn't show the worst episodes.

The film versions of it are absolutely horrendous though, particularly how they treat Olive. She's sexually assaulted in a swimming pool at one point in the holiday camp and the sitcom has been repeated more recently and she's just bullied like hell. Poor Anna Karen died quite recently in a fire. Used to work as an exotic dancer with Barbara Windsor.

ITV3 are now doing their bank holidays Thing of rerunning ancient Carry Ons and the film version of steptoe. Within the first 5 minutes Albert has tried to poach neighbours chickens and Harold has just been jumped on by Diana Dors next to the dead body of her husband. OKAAAAAY!

I'm mainly sticking with it for when Yootha Joyce turned up

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Anna Karen was an actress, acting. It wasnt real!! She was dressed for the part with the glasses and the dowdy clothing. In real life she was a glamorous and attractive woman. You are reading far too much into these 50 odd year old shows

Lalgarh · 06/04/2026 10:10

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 03:53

Aside from the many, many issues with On The Buses, it was pure nastiness how appallingly Olive was treated throughout - when she was actually one of the nicer characters, yet still shamed for nothing more than her plain looks.

Blakey was a deeply unpleasant chatacter, yet because he was a man, he was always treated by Stan and Jack with a kind of respectful friendly rivalry; yet Olive was shown no mercy at all and horribly abused for being a woman who dared not to be stunningly beautiful. Their mum was also treated dismissively and as nothing more than a 'service person', but because she was old, she at least was never judged for her looks.

I remember On the Buses got repeated initially in the 90s and I was braced for it being like an extended party political for the NF but I was pleasantly relieved there wasn't as much racism as id expected. Maybe they just didn't show the worst episodes.

The film versions of it are absolutely horrendous though, particularly how they treat Olive. She's sexually assaulted in a swimming pool at one point in the holiday camp and the sitcom has been repeated more recently and she's just bullied like hell. Poor Anna Karen died quite recently in a fire. Used to work as an exotic dancer with Barbara Windsor.

ITV3 are now doing their bank holidays Thing of rerunning ancient Carry Ons and the film version of steptoe. Within the first 5 minutes Albert has tried to poach neighbours chickens and Harold has just been jumped on by Diana Dors next to the dead body of her husband. OKAAAAAY!

I'm mainly sticking with it for when Yootha Joyce turned up

Labelledelune · 06/04/2026 10:04

SisterThorn · 06/04/2026 09:50

Yes, we should still be allowed to take the piss out of accents etc
Hmm

Yes we should. It’s what the British have always done.

AlecTrevelyan006 · 06/04/2026 10:03

Fantastic writing and delivery - and still true

PottingBench · 06/04/2026 10:00

Myneighbourisanosyoldgit · 06/04/2026 07:04

Currently watching 'George and MIldred' love the gentle humour and easy going story lines.

Man About The House is similar. A real snapshot of a time. There's sexism but the women very much have the upper hand.

LibraColour · 06/04/2026 09:59

ANTM, I loved it when it first aired but it aged sooooo poorly and the recent documentary also was revealing of some ugly stories behind the scene

Coclare · 06/04/2026 09:56

Labelledelune · 06/04/2026 09:12

But we were so much happier , maybe because we just took things as they were not trying to find fault like discrimination, sexism etc in everything we see.

Clearly someone of privilege who finds it onerous to consider their impact on others.

SisterThorn · 06/04/2026 09:50

Labelledelune · 06/04/2026 09:12

But we were so much happier , maybe because we just took things as they were not trying to find fault like discrimination, sexism etc in everything we see.

Yes, we should still be allowed to take the piss out of accents etc
Hmm

SisterThorn · 06/04/2026 09:49

GlasgowGal2014 · 05/04/2026 21:18

What about In The Thick Of It? I've not rewatched it, but I had to stop watching it when it was first out because it was a bit too real and made me feel uncomfortable about my politics adjacent role. I expect it probably looks pretty tame now given recent events.

I cant watch it though as Chris Langham is in it.

In case anyone doesn't know, I know its easy to google.
On 2 August 2007, Langham was found guilty of 15 charges of downloading and possessing level 5 child sexual abuse images and videos. Langham was jailed for ten months, which was later reduced to six months on appeal. He was made to sign the sex offenders' register and was banned from working with children for ten years.

Dollymylove · 06/04/2026 09:47

katepilar · 06/04/2026 08:39

YABU for posting this in AIBU section and for not saying at the start what type of programmes you mean. Didnt expect this to be about TV shows.

What did you think is was going to be about?

Fernticket · 06/04/2026 09:47

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 06/04/2026 03:43

I know many of us of a certain age will gushing about how amazing Only Fools and Horses was; but there was a lot about it that was problematic and hasn't aged well at all. I think there's a good reason why it's never really shown on the main BBC channels anymore.

I also wonder if it may end up removed from the streaming services too 'at some point', if any of the rumours about one of the main actors turn out to be proven as true.

Aside from that, it's always annoyed me that OFAH flooded the schedules from the start as UK-wide entertainment, whilst the peerless Still Game was largely dismissed as 'Scottish interest' only. I'm from the English Midlands, so culturally no closer to a Cockney than a Weegie; yet I can still love SG for the unparalleled comedic genius that it was (whilst I've never found OFAH any more than smile-worthy, myself).

For what it's worth, I always thought that Dear John (also written by John Sullivan) was far, far superior to OFAH; but that too is very dated now and would never be made these days.

Love Still Game. I can thoroughly recommend it.

LabOwner95 · 06/04/2026 09:47

Desperate Housewives! I watched it for the first time about 3 years ago. The scenes with Juanita (Gabrielle Solis' daughter) are particularly bad, especially the one where she makes her run behind the car to lose weight. I still love it though and I think it's fine to appreciate these things for what they were at the time.

IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 06/04/2026 09:47

Yes Minister - an episode about drunk driving was an uncomfortable watch. Also Coupling and Men Behaving Badly. We loved them both when they were current but cringe at them now.

DH and I love Last of the Summer Wine. It's our current binge when life is stressful. It's almost a period drama now!

Goatsarebest · 06/04/2026 09:37

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 05/04/2026 17:48

Completely agree about The Good Life.

I absolutely love Fawlty Towers, always did, always will, but I suspect some people would struggle with some of it now.

We are currently watching The Sweeney (recorded from Talking Pictures, channel 82 on Freeview) and absolutely revelling in it. It's distilled essence of the 1970s as far as I'm concerned. I never really got into Morse, and one of the reasons was that John Thaw was and always will be Jack Regan for me. I wouldn't say it's aged well, because many people younger than me would have conniptions at some of the dialogue, and the sexism is off the scale. My husband has a virtual bingo card for each episode and calls out every sighting of a fag, a Jag, a lag and a slag. Usually a good few of all of them every single time.

And you can add the episode in the Sweeny where they discuss why underage schoolgirls are so sexy whilst driving past two.

tachetastic · 06/04/2026 09:36

our kids loved the new version of Magnum with female Higgins so when we ran out of episodes we tried the original which I remeber loving as a kid.

Each episode is about 15 minutes of story and 30 minutes of Magnum ogling women in bikinis entirely unconnected to the plot. Even my teenage sons were mystified.

godmum56 · 06/04/2026 09:30

Does anyone remember Jam and Jerusalem? Some very bonkers bits but also funny and touching.

NettleTea · 06/04/2026 09:29

CruCru · 05/04/2026 21:52

League of Gentlemen was always quite an uncomfortable watch but I don’t think it would get made now. The stuff with the German exchange teacher was horrible.

but I think that was the point of it. Pretty much all the characters, apart from Benjamin, were absolutely horrific.
I know that when they did the revival series in 2018 before the tour, they were under pressure to change some of them, but they held fast. The way they dealt with some of the issues that they had been accused of was with some genius script writing.
But then Im a massive fan......

RampantIvy · 06/04/2026 09:28

I can't believe that no-one has mentioned The IT Crowd. It is still so funny.

godmum56 · 06/04/2026 09:28

radio not TV but I still do enjoy Round the Horne and its seqelae

900cherry · 06/04/2026 09:27

HaveYouHadYourBreak · 05/04/2026 16:13

What programmes that you loved have surprised you on rewatching?

I've just finished the first series of This Life and was surprised at how well it has aged for the most part (but so much smoking!). It was refreshing to see people with imperfect teeth and pubic hair and wobbly bums living in a grotty house share past their early 20s. I'm re-living my youth with the music too.

But Coupling! Oof! I remember it being really good but some clips I've seen (like making sex videos without consent and the way women are talked about) demonstrate exactly why I've never seen any re-runs.

Agree with all except for grotty flat - I remember thinking how cool it was at the time !