My friend, who I've been friends with from college days, has one or two virtual friends with benefits who she doesn't meet but they talk on the phone, message and do videos. You get the picture. It's definitely not for me.
I've discovered she's been talking to the guys about me. Just in terms of "I did X with my friend Suki" eg watched a film, had dinner, but they've picked it up and run with it.
Things they've said to her are:
Would Suki have a three some
Have you and Suki ever had lesbian fun
Do you and Suki discuss sex
Have you told Suki about me
Does Suki need a friend
Does she masturbate/do you discuss it
Do you and Suki fart in front of each other
That last one in particular sounds like a 12 year old schoolboy.
I've stopped talking to her because I'm so upset and angry. I don't know what to do now. I feel really let down as a friend. I'm very private and don't discuss anything like this especially not with random weirdos. I'd have shut down anyone who spoke to me like that.