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To think it’s easter not christmas?

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backagainohdear · 05/04/2026 07:50

What is going on with easter these days?
My social media is full of photos of piles of easter eggs, toys & clothes!
Mine got one each (well a tub of haribo for one as he doesn’t like easter eggs.)
AIBU to think people go over the top in some weird bid to show off?

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TheHouse · 05/04/2026 23:20

I remember when my kids were little and my MIL started buying them clothes for Easter.
I just remember thinking wtf, an egg would have done. So odd. I mean obviously I was grateful and we said thank you but there was absolutely no need. I had a Catholic upbringing. Never had new clothes. As my nan would say, god don’t care what you wear in his house 😂

Lifeomars · 05/04/2026 23:15

Itsmetheflamingo · 05/04/2026 11:19

Celebrating events and festivals is a key part of family and cultural life. What would people do if they didn’t have celebrations? Just work all the time?

Read, listen to music, play games, go swimming, go for walks, go on picnics, play football, take the kids to the park, garden, sew, do crafts, bake, go for a bike ride, watch a film, there are masses of lovely things to do as a family. The festivals are fun too, it just seems endless and excessive at times especially given how many are struggling with the cost of living

Cel77 · 05/04/2026 23:12

An easter egg hunt in the garden with lots of small eggs and a few bigger ones to find. There's absolutely no need for all the other stuff. I agree with you.

Damnloginpopup · 05/04/2026 22:35

Great day with my parents and kids and partner & family.

Massive roast. Massiver trifle. Fat as pigs now. Whole Easter egg for breakfast. Too.many hot cross buns since Friday.

Praise be to Judas Iscariot I say.

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 05/04/2026 21:52

Netcurtainnelly · 05/04/2026 19:41

exactly it's a horrible obsession assuming everyone is interested in your mundane life

In order to see someone normal’s social media posts, you have to have actively taken the decision to follow them. (Unlike businesses /professional content creators who pay to have their posts “suggested for you”)

What the fuck are you doing choosing to follow people whose “mundane lives” you have no interest in?! What were you expecting ordinary, non-famous people to post about?

If you just see SM posts as boasting, why bother with it? Why follow normal people on SM? Why stay online friends with people you don’t like in real life?

That’s the real madness, not buying a couple of extra gifts and treats for a traditional feast day.

illsendansostotheworld · 05/04/2026 20:26

IceIceBabyBump · 05/04/2026 08:04

YABU

Fuck that.

Christmas is the best time of year so why not do it twice?

Sitting here in my Easter grotto, wearing an Easter jumper, drinking bucks fizz, ready to open presents 😍😍😍😍😍

I actually prefer Easter to Christmas because its all the good stuff (presents, foo, wine, time off) but even better (light nights, better weather) and without bullshit expectations that swirl around and ruin Christmas (endless work/group drinks, family visits).

I absolutely fucking love Easter

Edited to add: I'm atheist, I don't have any children and I'm not on any social media 🤣 It's just me and DP and we've "done" Easter like this for about 15 years before it was trendy

Edited

Me too - it's my favourite time of year - no e of the pressure of Christmas and l love making the kids search for their treasure (which consists of carrots, plastic reusable eggs etc etc) - no pics on social media from me, just kids having fun with some.chocolate at the end. And roast lamb is much nicer than turkey!

Netcurtainnelly · 05/04/2026 19:41

FitAt50 · 05/04/2026 12:53

It's just another reason for common people to post pictures of how much money they have spent on their spoilt kids. It's as bad as the Facebook pics of stacks of birthday/Christmas presents etc.

exactly it's a horrible obsession assuming everyone is interested in your mundane life

Coconutter24 · 05/04/2026 19:21

Silvers11 · 05/04/2026 19:15

Why wouldn't you assume that? Easter is THE most important event in the Christian Calendar. People do 'celebrate' at Easter for other reasons, as evidenced by this thread, but Easter is a religious festival in origin?

I wouldn’t assume that because religion and beliefs are not only celebrated in a church

Silvers11 · 05/04/2026 19:15

Coconutter24 · 05/04/2026 18:10

Why would you assume all Christians go to church on Easter?

Why wouldn't you assume that? Easter is THE most important event in the Christian Calendar. People do 'celebrate' at Easter for other reasons, as evidenced by this thread, but Easter is a religious festival in origin?

backagainohdear · 05/04/2026 18:15

TheGoldenOwl · 05/04/2026 16:22

I prefer Easter to Christmas tbh

So do I, it’s better on my pockets. 😂

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Coconutter24 · 05/04/2026 18:10

Gall10 · 05/04/2026 10:02

Why?
if you ‘celebrate’ Easter then I assume youre Christian & go to church today?

Why would you assume all Christians go to church on Easter?

Coconutter24 · 05/04/2026 18:07

backagainohdear · 05/04/2026 08:15

Yes this is what I mean!
A few crafts is lovely but christmas piles I mean really? 😩 Who has the space for all this stuff? It’s way over the top.

Why is acceptable to have a Christmas pile but not an Easter pile?

EasterEggCrazy · 05/04/2026 17:52

Gall10 · 05/04/2026 10:02

Why?
if you ‘celebrate’ Easter then I assume youre Christian & go to church today?

Why not? 🐰

myglowupera · 05/04/2026 17:49

Sonato · 05/04/2026 17:44

Ill tell you what the need is.

The world is a horrible place. As a nation we havent been truly happy in over a decade. Everyone is constantly at each others throats.

If that means finding moments of hapiness where you can, especially with little ones, through boo boxes or easter eggs or decorating the house then fucking do it. Go for it.

The world is full of absolute curmudgeons

Ironically I found a post really bleak that was just a couch full of stuff. There wasn’t even anything Easter related amongst the stuff.
The happy posts are the ones where children are beaming with their Easter eggs or eating their mini egg waffles for breakfast. But that post of the pile of stuff was a bit sad and grey. not exactly joyful.

Labelledelune · 05/04/2026 17:44

Contraversialcatergory · 05/04/2026 07:58

I agree it’s all got worse and my kids can’t have choc for various medical reasons so I hate it

One of my grandsons hate chocolate so we buy him foam bunnies etc

Sonato · 05/04/2026 17:44

Ill tell you what the need is.

The world is a horrible place. As a nation we havent been truly happy in over a decade. Everyone is constantly at each others throats.

If that means finding moments of hapiness where you can, especially with little ones, through boo boxes or easter eggs or decorating the house then fucking do it. Go for it.

The world is full of absolute curmudgeons

Abitofalark · 05/04/2026 17:40

Someone asked: What's a boo box? Someone answered:Like a Christmas Eve box. I fear to ask further in case I come across like Dear Henry in the hole in the bucket song.

Katypp · 05/04/2026 16:56

Itsmetheflamingo · 05/04/2026 08:25

lol. Every year for at least the last decade, feigning wide eyed confusion “when did this happen?”

When we all know it’s an excuse to slag off other families and feel superior for some bizarre puritan coded low self confidence.

let the people spend their money however they want. We live in a capitalist society, the consumers aren’t your enemy.

Oh yes. It always is. Christmas, birthdays , Easter, Halloween, the wide-eyed assemble to compare their surprise and blame it on social media.
I actually didn't get any further than this response, but it doesn't take much imagination to imagine the way the thread will go.
On the basis of how far I got, the cross-stitch kit and hairbrush buyer wins the best parent award so far.

Dragonflytamer · 05/04/2026 16:28

Bloozie · 05/04/2026 16:21

Laughed out loud at this. Jesus is firmly against anyone spending money on affordable bread, milk or cheese today but is fine with bedding plants, tastefully patterned scarves and a slice of something hellishly over-priced from the tearoom. Farm shops are open and selling £48 steak; Farmfoods is closed. Thank goodness consumerism hasn’t taken over THIS holy day.

To be fair Jesus thought that 5 loaves and 2 fishes was adequate to feed 5,000. He would probably have been protesting the sheer gluttony of what people can buy in a supermarket these days.

myglowupera · 05/04/2026 16:25

Brownbear88 · 05/04/2026 15:10

We gave my youngest a cuddly toy, and bought new outfit and bibs, and a couple of books. All themed around bunnies. Easter cardigan, and some stickers a puzzle and game for my middle child. New tracksuit, game to play later as a family for my eldest and some bunny ears for them all to wear.

Easter bunny bought an egg and a little tin of chocolates for each and hid little eggs over the house and garden.

I like to spoil my kids but they are only little once and I sure as heck don’t do it for social media (which I don’t do at all), I don’t judge others for buying more or less for their kids and I don’t buy tat that will end up in landfill, I get stuff they will use throughout the year so I don’t see anything wrong with it 🤷‍♀️ I don’t do boo boxes for Halloween etc. it if people want to what’s the harm?

If they want to, then that’s great for them. But I wonder how many don’t actually want to but still tie themselves in knots and do it. Not helped by social media.

TheGoldenOwl · 05/04/2026 16:22

I prefer Easter to Christmas tbh

Bloozie · 05/04/2026 16:21

Dragonflytamer · 05/04/2026 12:07

At least the garden centers are open! god only hates his followers going to supermarkets he's ok with plants.

Laughed out loud at this. Jesus is firmly against anyone spending money on affordable bread, milk or cheese today but is fine with bedding plants, tastefully patterned scarves and a slice of something hellishly over-priced from the tearoom. Farm shops are open and selling £48 steak; Farmfoods is closed. Thank goodness consumerism hasn’t taken over THIS holy day.

Bloozie · 05/04/2026 16:15

Calliopespa · 05/04/2026 13:14

I think the cross is to represent the cross Christ died on isn't it? I agree Spring was a pagan celebration but I think the Hot Cross Buns are firmly a Christian tradition aren't they?

No, they’re pagan. The quarters represent the four seasons and phases of the moon. Pre-Christian bread was often scored like this to facilitate breaking and sharing.

Wtafdidido · 05/04/2026 15:59

Why does it bother you what other people do to celebrate? Each to their own. Celebrate as much or as little as you want or can afford. It’s personal choice. We do what we do and do t care what anyone else is doing.

Drivingmissrangey · 05/04/2026 15:37

Dontlletmedownbruce · 05/04/2026 14:36

@Drivingmissrangey what's an Easter tree? It is just like a Christmas one but with eggs and chicks or is it a religious thing?

It’s a tiny tree that has some rabbits and chicks on it. DD loves making things so she has made most of the decorations.

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