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I need to know stats on how many people tell their kids the easter bunny is a real thing like Santa

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supples · 05/04/2026 00:03

Seeing how many people are on taking about it like this is blowing my mind!

yabu - I tell them it’s real
yanbu - no I don’t

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14Sorrow22Bad · 05/04/2026 07:15

I’ve never suggested either are real, and when they’ve asked me I’ve been honest. I always tell them that a lot of other kids do believe, so they should be polite and not contradict them (same rule we have for other people’s religious beliefs). But I’ve never understood the desire to lie to kids about these magical creatures/people.

34feeling54 · 05/04/2026 07:13

BewareoftheLambs · 05/04/2026 00:14

I have never suggested there's a real Easter Bunny, or made a thing of it, but dd has still managed to convince herself this year. I'm going along with it as it's clearly giving her pleasure, but other than our usual Easter egg hunt around the house, I won't be doing anything different.

Same. We've never really made a thing of it, unlike father Christmas, but my daughter seems to 'know' there's an Easter bunny. Last year we had to have a quick rethink of Easter eggs as to which the bunny delivered her 🤣

EasternStandard · 05/04/2026 07:12

ReadingSoManyThreads · 05/04/2026 00:59

I've never mentioned the Easter Bunny as a thing, as I think it's fucking ridiculous. My children have heard of it but know it's not a thing.

Do you not bother with any Easter egg hunts and just hand them over instead?

Girasoli · 05/04/2026 07:12

I never did with DS1, I think DS2 believed it for a year or two age 3-5ish, he must have picked it up at nursery.

We always do an Easter egg hunt in my parents garden, it's fun anyway.

NailsForChristmas · 05/04/2026 07:12

I have such fond memories of the Easter bunny.
First hunting for the eggs, and later, thinking the bunny probably wasn't real and trying to prove it by catching parents in the act of hiding the eggs. So much fun was had.

I will be doing the same for my little one and hope he develops the same fond memories.

Barrenfieldoffucks · 05/04/2026 07:01

I hadn't heard of it as a concept until last year...my youngest is 8 and came home talking about it. I've just said all houses/families are different.

Mine will get a boxed egg from their grandparents, and I'll do an egg hunt in the garden with little ones.

FindingMeno · 05/04/2026 06:57

I told my dc's loads of fibs when they were little. Father Christmas, Tooth Fairy, Easter Bunny, that I had eyes in the back of my head etc etc.
Now they are young adults they look back on it all with fond memories.
Those who are so uptight, you realise that the tiger never actually did come to tea don't you? Half the stories for children are also whimsical make- believe that appeal to their imaginations.

Bluegreenbird · 05/04/2026 06:47

Mine are grown now but I don’t think we ever put the words Easter and Bunny together verbally out loud while the were growing up. We just had egg hunts sometimes.
It’s an American thing isn’t it?

Londonnight · 05/04/2026 06:44

I never did the Easter bunny when my children were young. I don't remember it being a thing when I was a child either.
We did do Father Christmas. Never confirmed that he wasn't real, they just grew out of it.

PollyBell · 05/04/2026 05:19

Can't say it was that complicated we mentioned santa or easter bunny brings presents now it is more "santa" with big dramatic finger quotes

We all pretend in santa we move on

It seems only the internet needs to have some existential crisis over it

frozendaisy · 05/04/2026 04:52

Never confirmed Santa was real - vaguely mumbled he was a symbol of the peace and good will to all men Christmas spirit

Easter bunny stood no chance!

H on the other hand has huge issues with Jesus (not personally just all organised religion as a whole) as do I, so even the nativity story was a bit of a struggle (he got there in the end!)

AntiqueBabyLoanSmurf · 05/04/2026 03:38

Ponoka7 · 05/04/2026 00:55

They were handing out carrots in the Asda, for the Easter Bunny. Tbf the children looked confused. The staff member had ears on. Disclaimer I have to say 'the Asda' coming from Liverpool.

I've always celebrated Easter as a mini Christmas, but never declared the EB to be real. My children had special personalised tooth fairy cushions and I do Christmas Eve boxes etc.

I noticed the free carrots for the EB thing in our Asda and don't remember ever seeing it before.

I did wonder if they'd overestimated the demand for the '5 bags of veg for £1' offer and were looking for any old way to get rid of excess stocks!

I wonder if the Holiday Armadillo will ever take off too?!

Pineapplewhip · 05/04/2026 03:33

Ive always put eggs outside at bloody 5am ready for DS to come downstairs and see twinkles of coloured foil eggs peeping out of the bush. My parents did that for me as a kid and I absolutely loved it! Son imagined that EB was like the Cadbury advert - so a fluffy small bunny - and not just 1 bunny - but rather an army of chocolate egg delivery bunnies 🤣

I kind of think if youre not bothering with an egg hunt - you're just giving your kids a shit load of chocolate for the sake of it? Surely that's more pointless.

DS is 11 this year, ive been asking him if he still thinks he wants an egg hunt from EB. He says "up to you!" In a way of - he obviously knows its not real. This year ive left a trail of eggs from bedroom down the stairs and then a little egg hunt for him in the living room (storm near us tonight). Its actually a relief to know that I dont have to go and set up the garden at 5am and will probably be our new "thing" until he really is an older teen that doesn't care!

NewShoes · 05/04/2026 03:21

I don’t think I’ve ever mentioned an Easter bunny! Mine just think mummy and daddy/ grandma and grandad get them an egg or do an egg hunt in the garden, but I don’t think I’ve ever said anything about an Easter bunny. Mine are 7 and 3. I don’t think they’re mentioned it either.

Acunningruse · 05/04/2026 02:26

Yanbu, never told them about the easter bunny. Though tonight at bedtime I did say jokingly right off to bed or the Easter Bunny won’t come but they are 9 and 13 Grin

lemmein · 05/04/2026 01:25

When my grandson was about 3 my DH dressed up as the Easter bunny - he appeared in our garden, waving at my grandson whilst scattering little eggs all over the lawn. My grandson ran out with his arms outstretched and gave the EB a massive hug. It was all very sweet.

A few months later I was scrolling through the pics on my phone and came across a photo of my DGS hugging the EB. I showed him it and said ‘oh look, there’s you….and who’s that?’

‘GRANDAD!’ he said 😐

edwinbear · 05/04/2026 01:22

My DC are older now at 14 & 16, I’ve never explicitly told them Father Christmas, the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny aren’t real. Obviously they know they’re not, but there was never a ‘big reveal’. DD sits with me whilst I order her very specific make up/clothes for Christmas to be sure I get the right things, but Christmas Eve I still tell them they can’t be stomping up and downstairs for food at midnight/having leisurely 10pm baths etc ‘or Father Christmas won’t come’. I put presents and stockings out whilst they’re hiding in their rooms.

DD needed 4 teeth extracted a year ago before having braces, kept the teeth and said in no uncertain terms she expected the tooth fairy to pay up for these ones 🤣 (the tooth fairy left her £20 for those, it wasn’t nice).

EB will be up before them tomorrow, which isn’t hard as they won’t emerge before about lunchtime, but he’ll have left them a couple of eggs. It’s just a bit of family fun really and they are happy to indulge me.

InterestedDad37 · 05/04/2026 01:18

Spoiler alert puh-leeze! 🐇🐰🐣🤔😂

TempestTost · 05/04/2026 01:16

I've always treated Santa, The Bunny, and the Tooth Fairy the same. My eldest also believed in a fairy called Fairy Locks who I inadvertently created with no intent.

The older ones grey out of it by about ten. Though my youngest who is nine is still very into it.

Ozmumofboys3 · 05/04/2026 01:11

We never ‘did’ the Easter bunny, the kids always knew that eggs were from us. I was surprised the amount of their friends whose families did the Easter bunny. I had to tell my kids that some kids believed in the easter bunny and to keep quiet.

We did do the tooth fairy and Santa.

BashfulClam · 05/04/2026 01:09

My colleagues son had SEN and took everything literally. He saw someone dressed as the Easter bunny and said ‘mum his isn’t the real Easter bunny!’ She says ‘of course he is!’ He said ‘why has he got a zip up his back then?’ She had to explain he had helpers like Santas as she thought if she said the Easter Bunny was made up he might start questioning Santa etc.

seasidemum83 · 05/04/2026 01:08

Lavender14 · 05/04/2026 00:36

This^ I didn't tell ds it was a thing but he's taken the notion so now I'm running with it this year. He found a few of the things I was going to hide for his egg hunt so if it comes up then it comes up.

I feel like it's more likely to come out that it's not real than santa and I don't really want him to connect those dots too early.

^This. Previous years My DS was v. Kindly gifted eggs and they would sit in kitchen shelf on run up to Easter for him to look forward to. On Easter Sunday - I would hide said eggs and make up clues just for fun. Despite the fact the eggs were simply moved previous years- he has gone full pelt into Easter bunny - was on the countdown for the Easter bunny tracker to begin ! I was perplexed he was actually watching
i also share same concern that- Easter bunny, like the elf on shelf - just is weaker and will be worked out first

ThatJadeLion · 05/04/2026 01:08

It's a little magic and fun. Of course he's real!!

Meadowfinch · 05/04/2026 01:07

I don't know the percentages but I listened to a dad telling a 4yo girl, today in Tesco carpark, that the Easter bunny was a bit like Father Christmas. She wouldn't actually see him but he would hide Easter eggs in nana's garden on Saturday night.

I can hear our school rector revolving in his grave with fury. 😁 He hated anything other than ecclesiastical reverence for Easter.

Ponderingwindow · 05/04/2026 01:02

We didn’t tell dd santa was real either. Nursery and peer pressure are powerful influences.