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AIBU to think airline seats no longer fit average-sized adults?

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Frequency · 04/04/2026 20:21

Do any airlines have adult-sized seats? Not obese adults, just regular adults?

We've just flown with Jet2 and my back is still in agony from the trip there. I was in the middle seat between my friend, who is slightly overweight but also short, so proportionately, she is not much wider than an average height, average weight woman, and a man who was maybe bordering on obese, his ass fit in his own seat, but his shoulders took a good three/four inches of my seat. My friend's shoulders took maybe a cm or 2 of my seat.

I'm not on the small side myself; I'm not overweight, but I am not what you'd describe as skinny. I needed all my shoulder space to myself. I was unable to sit back the entire flight because I literally didn't fit. I had to hunch forward with my shoulders rolled in.

On the way back, I was sitting between my friend, a short, slim lady. I could sit back, but I was touching both people on either side of me, and there was no elbow space or wriggle room.

For next year, I need either my shoulders shaved down and a few ribs removed or actual, people-sized seats. Do such seats exist?

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Frequency · 04/04/2026 20:52

TheChosenTwo · 04/04/2026 20:48

We booked an extra legroom seat on a Dreamliner on the way home from our last holiday, they were front row and had boxy chunky arms and dh was so uncomfortable we ended up swapping with the people behind us before we’d even taken off. The were indeed extra legroom but the space within the seat itself was smaller than normal because of these weird extra wide arms between the seats! He is overweight but not obese- it was weird!

I found the leg room fine in regular Jet2 seats, not spacious by any stretch of the imagination, but if I stretched my feet under the seat in front of me, I had space. Ditto hip/ass room. It was shoulder space/elbow room I didn't have.

My friend's butt didn't encroach on my seat at all. The man's did slightly, but I had extra room around my hips, so that didn't feel uncomfortable. It was shoulder space I needed.

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PhoebeBuffay1234 · 04/04/2026 20:51

I was a size 20 when I flew Jet2 in the middle seat last year and was very comfortable. That said I do think the seats are getting smaller.

dizzydizzydizzy · 04/04/2026 20:51

TheChosenTwo · 04/04/2026 20:48

We booked an extra legroom seat on a Dreamliner on the way home from our last holiday, they were front row and had boxy chunky arms and dh was so uncomfortable we ended up swapping with the people behind us before we’d even taken off. The were indeed extra legroom but the space within the seat itself was smaller than normal because of these weird extra wide arms between the seats! He is overweight but not obese- it was weird!

the extra wide arms in the leg room seats are for the tray tables.

KnewYearKnewMe · 04/04/2026 20:50

Just back from a Jet2 holiday - flight was 4 hours and the seats were fine.

im 5’4 and a size 14 - had an aisle seat. Quite a big man in the middle seat, and his smaller wife by the window.

i thought the seats were quite roomy. Could have been a different plane though - and middle seats are horrible so you have my sympathy.

TheChosenTwo · 04/04/2026 20:48

We booked an extra legroom seat on a Dreamliner on the way home from our last holiday, they were front row and had boxy chunky arms and dh was so uncomfortable we ended up swapping with the people behind us before we’d even taken off. The were indeed extra legroom but the space within the seat itself was smaller than normal because of these weird extra wide arms between the seats! He is overweight but not obese- it was weird!

atiaofthejulii · 04/04/2026 20:48

I flew Air Canada in December after my last few flights being Ryanair and I was very pleasantly surprised at how much more room there was. I'm 5'8", 74kg and I can sit ok in a Ryanair seat, but it was lovely having more space.

Bellyblueboy · 04/04/2026 20:47

It’s dreadful - embarrassing for some people and irritating for others.

I once flew to Australia between a father and daughter. I suspect they had booked the window and aisle seat in the hope the middle would remain vacant. They were both very obese. They needed seatbelt extenders. The flight was full and I couldn’t move seats. It was a very long flight and I spent as much time as I could walking up and down the plane because they were pressing against bother sides of my body.

While I don’t blame them- and I know this can be very embarrassing for people- I paid the same as they did yet, I couldn’t fit in my seat because they took up so much of it.

Bjorkdidit · 04/04/2026 20:47

Jet2 seats are absolutely fine and quite spacious compared with Ryanair. DP is very broad shouldered and muscular and we always take window (him) and middle (me) because that means he has a bit more room, which he does need, but we have plenty of room to sit both properly against the back rest. I have plenty of space in the middle seat even though I'm tall and a size 16 so far from tiny.

Frequency · 04/04/2026 20:47

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:40

Lots of people are typically using this as a dig at overweight people...all the predictable comments that we have lost sight of what a healthy weight is...blah blah blah

The seats are tiny on budget short haul flights...even for slim/thin people. Just because you can fit in it doesn't mean it's comfortable or big enough.

Precisely. The people sat next to me were not obese; they were average-sized people. The seats are not fit for purpose if 3 average people cannot fit in them.

I might be wrong about the man; maybe he was obese. I don't think he was. He didn't look obese. I know I am not obese. My BMI is 22/23 so well within the healthy range.

My friend has been on WLI for the last 7 months, so I know she is overweight not obese, because she rang me in happy tears a couple of months ago to tell me her BMI was 29 and she was no longer obese; she has only gotten smaller since then.

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SunMoonandChocolate · 04/04/2026 20:46

As a matter of interest I just consulted Google and it would seem that
the airlines with the smallest seat widths are British Airways, Jet2, KLM, Norwegian, Ryanair, Tui and Aer Lingus, which are all tied with 17 inches. Meanwhile, Vueling is in the middle with 17.5 inches.

They all advocate buying an extra seat if you're overweight, but of course not many people want to accept that they're fat enough that they actually NEED two seats, and also don't want to spend the extra money.

Ryanair - News, views, pictures, video - Daily Record

https://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/all-about/ryanair

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:45

LVhandbagsatdawn · 04/04/2026 20:42

Yes they are.

Which is why they're designed with a theoretical, average, healthy weight person in mind.

The fact the average person is actually now overweight isn't factored in.

HTH.

Well no because many slim people people find them uncomfortable and cramped

Fibrous · 04/04/2026 20:44

I’m 5’1 and 55kg - so short and a healthy weight. I find short haul flights really cramped, long haul are fine although I always go for an aisle seat as my bladder can’t cope with getting trapped.

SunshineOnARainyLeith · 04/04/2026 20:42

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:32

The seats are designed with average, healthy weight people in mind

No. The seats are designed to squeeze in as many people as physically possible to maximise profit.

Hth

That's right. Some airlines are reducing space in economy seats, to try to "encourage" passengers into paying more for an economy-plus seat with slightly more legroom. Good WSJ article on this but it's behind a pay wall. This gives the gist and a link to the article. It's disgusting because the cramped conditions are really uncomfortable and can cause problems.

www.google.com/search?q=wsj+econom6+airline+legroom&oq=wsj+econom6+airline+legroom&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIJCAEQIRgKGKABMgkIAhAhGAoYoAEyBwgDECEYnwUyBwgEECEYnwUyBwgFECEYnwUyBwgGECEYnwUyBwgHECEYnwUyBwgIECEYnwUyBwgJECEYnwUyBwgKECEYnwXSAQkxNDg4NmowajeoAhSwAgHxBaTLSolT_Wyl8QWky0qJU_1spQ&client=ms-android-samsung-ss&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8#lfId=ChxjMe

LVhandbagsatdawn · 04/04/2026 20:42

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:32

The seats are designed with average, healthy weight people in mind

No. The seats are designed to squeeze in as many people as physically possible to maximise profit.

Hth

Yes they are.

Which is why they're designed with a theoretical, average, healthy weight person in mind.

The fact the average person is actually now overweight isn't factored in.

HTH.

Shallotsaresmallonions · 04/04/2026 20:41

Pinkgin00 · 04/04/2026 20:37

The space is not big enough if you need to angle your legs. My husband has to book an aisle seat or extra leg room due to his height. Planes squeeze in as many seats as they can.

My DH is 6'5 and manages. He'd be more comfortable in an extra leg room seat for sure though.

In my mind, the seat size and leg room are two different things. Obviously lots will disagree with that.

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:40

Lots of people are typically using this as a dig at overweight people...all the predictable comments that we have lost sight of what a healthy weight is...blah blah blah

The seats are tiny on budget short haul flights...even for slim/thin people. Just because you can fit in it doesn't mean it's comfortable or big enough.

Sartre · 04/04/2026 20:39

We’re a family of 7 so DH draws the short straw when we fly and has to sit with strangers. Last summer he sat beside an obese woman who needed the seatbelt extender. He was squished as hell and looked uncomfortable. I think obese people should book two seats. I should also say I fit in the regular seats just fine as a regular sized 5 ft 7 woman. My DS is 6 ft 2 and he fits fine too.

Shinyhappyapple · 04/04/2026 20:39

I think your problem was being in the middle seat. I normally like an aisle seat and have plenty of room - but sometimes I end up in the middle and it’s not so comfortable. We’ve been lucky a couple of times recently and there has been no third person in our row.

Pinkgin00 · 04/04/2026 20:37

Shallotsaresmallonions · 04/04/2026 20:32

I think it's the other way around. Average sized people don't fit into the airline seats.

I'm 6'0 and don't have a problem fitting into the seats, other than having to angle my knees towards one side.

The space is not big enough if you need to angle your legs. My husband has to book an aisle seat or extra leg room due to his height. Planes squeeze in as many seats as they can.

Mightneedencouraged · 04/04/2026 20:37

I think Jet2 is fine. My local bus company on the other hand... Not enough room for shoulders rather than arses.

Pineapplewaves · 04/04/2026 20:37

People are getting fatter, that’s the problem.

Shallotsaresmallonions · 04/04/2026 20:35

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:33

If you have to angle your legs in a certain way, then the seats aren't big enough

The size of the seat and leg room are two different things in my mind.

I do the same thing on most public transport buses and trains and I don't hear people complaining about the size of those seats.

OldJohn · 04/04/2026 20:34

I am a fairly normal weight and size, I weigh 74kg. I think every passenger should be asked to step on a set of scales with all their luggage.If the total is over 95kg then they need to pay for the excess weight. That would mean the seriously obese people pay extra and so can get bigger seats

whiteblackwhite · 04/04/2026 20:34

I find people are usually wrong about what they think obese is. People often think people who are obese are just ' overweight', and that overweight people are a healthy weight.

Many people have lost sight of what a healthy weight is.

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:33

Shallotsaresmallonions · 04/04/2026 20:32

I think it's the other way around. Average sized people don't fit into the airline seats.

I'm 6'0 and don't have a problem fitting into the seats, other than having to angle my knees towards one side.

If you have to angle your legs in a certain way, then the seats aren't big enough