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AIBU to think airline seats no longer fit average-sized adults?

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Frequency · 04/04/2026 20:21

Do any airlines have adult-sized seats? Not obese adults, just regular adults?

We've just flown with Jet2 and my back is still in agony from the trip there. I was in the middle seat between my friend, who is slightly overweight but also short, so proportionately, she is not much wider than an average height, average weight woman, and a man who was maybe bordering on obese, his ass fit in his own seat, but his shoulders took a good three/four inches of my seat. My friend's shoulders took maybe a cm or 2 of my seat.

I'm not on the small side myself; I'm not overweight, but I am not what you'd describe as skinny. I needed all my shoulder space to myself. I was unable to sit back the entire flight because I literally didn't fit. I had to hunch forward with my shoulders rolled in.

On the way back, I was sitting between my friend, a short, slim lady. I could sit back, but I was touching both people on either side of me, and there was no elbow space or wriggle room.

For next year, I need either my shoulders shaved down and a few ribs removed or actual, people-sized seats. Do such seats exist?

OP posts:
Happyhappyday · 04/04/2026 21:15

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:28

Obesity is one issue but I do think plane seats are tiny and getting smaller.its all about money and squeezing more and more people in a small space. They are especially tiny on budget airlines for short haul flights.

I recently took an internal flight in the us...the seats were absolutely huge in economy...I was flabbergasted

But…. They aren’t getting narrower… Less room sometimes front to back though.

when I was a kid a 737 was 3 on each side of the aisle… and a 737 is still 3 on each side of the aisle. I am average height with BMI smack in the middle of healthy range and I fit fine.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 04/04/2026 21:15

Bellyblueboy · 04/04/2026 20:47

It’s dreadful - embarrassing for some people and irritating for others.

I once flew to Australia between a father and daughter. I suspect they had booked the window and aisle seat in the hope the middle would remain vacant. They were both very obese. They needed seatbelt extenders. The flight was full and I couldn’t move seats. It was a very long flight and I spent as much time as I could walking up and down the plane because they were pressing against bother sides of my body.

While I don’t blame them- and I know this can be very embarrassing for people- I paid the same as they did yet, I couldn’t fit in my seat because they took up so much of it.

Stories like this make me never want to get on a plane again tbh!

Simonjt · 04/04/2026 21:15

We flew with jet2 not that long ago, I did have an extra legroom exit row seat, but the actual seat was the same size. I’m six foot and broadish (rugby player) and I was fine in my seat, no one in the row was touching anyone else. My only issue is how tiny the arm rests are on a lot of aeroplanes now, it makes it hard to use them.

CheeryOchreCat · 04/04/2026 21:14

@Frequency you sound like me: competitive swimmer, weightlifter. I also don’t generally have issues fitting clothes to my shoulders, but I think it’s as @Sistersister50 described: the seats are designed with smaller-framed people in mind, so if you get two or more people who don’t fit the mould you end up squeezed in the shoulder department. Even sitting next to my DH who’s also broad-shouldered, but not fat, we find ourselves a bit squashed.

previouslyknownas · 04/04/2026 21:13

no
people have lost sight of what is slim and overweight
it’s the elephant in the room no one wants to say your fat move over

Im 5ft 6 size 8 -10 have no problems in flight seats

my other half is 6ft 3 15 stone and again has no problem with flight seats

we do generally book extra leg room for him as he’s tall but otherwise flying is fine

if your obese book 2 seats
I don’t want to be squashed

TulipsMakeMeHappy · 04/04/2026 21:12

Googling average shoulder size shows 18 inches for men, so 50% of men are more than that, and the forearm-forearm measurement is larger. How is a 17 inch seat width supposed to be big enough?! Even in an aisle or window seat I've ended up with a twisted back having to lean away from someone who simple is wider in shoulder/arms than the seat.

Catcatcatcatcat · 04/04/2026 21:10

I have never noticed airplane seats being ridiculously small but I have never flown with Jet 2.

KnewYearKnewMe · 04/04/2026 21:08

@Comedycook

airlines, as an industry, operate on extremely tight margins.

we all know how much people hate paying high prices for flights. If general flights had less seats to allow more room, likely many airlines would fold as people just wouldn’t pay the prices.

Sistersister50 · 04/04/2026 21:08

I think the standard BA seat is designed for someone 5'7 and no more than 150 lbs. Probably the same for a lot of them.

Frequency · 04/04/2026 21:07

I'm not sure what seatbelt extenders have to do with shoulder width? Just because you don't need one, or you fit into a size 8, doesn't mean your shoulders will fit into your own seat.

Maybe I just have weirdly broad shoulders. I don't think I do, but I did spend my teens competitively swimming, and I'm fond of kettlebells now, so it's possible, I suppose. I never have issues buying clothes that fit my shoulders.

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TheChosenTwo · 04/04/2026 21:04

dizzydizzydizzy · 04/04/2026 20:51

the extra wide arms in the leg room seats are for the tray tables.

Ah yes, i obviously never got to experience that because we moved 😂

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 21:04

HumphreyCushionintheHouse · 04/04/2026 21:01

Interesting. Do you remember who you flew with?

I think it was United. The flight was only half an hour but the seats were like huge armchairs! It was fab

hyggetyggedotorg · 04/04/2026 21:02

I find Jet2 to be fine. We usually take our main holiday with them & I find both seat width & legroom OK. I never need a seat belt extension with them.

However. I am fat & am flying next week with Ryanair. Their seats are narrow, their seatbelts short. Luckily I’m travelling with DD who despite being tall is a very slim 15 year old, so our collective impact on other travellers should be minimal. I struggle with the leg room & arrive hobbling due to that (Ryanair) but it’s only a 60 min flight this time.

HumphreyCushionintheHouse · 04/04/2026 21:01

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:28

Obesity is one issue but I do think plane seats are tiny and getting smaller.its all about money and squeezing more and more people in a small space. They are especially tiny on budget airlines for short haul flights.

I recently took an internal flight in the us...the seats were absolutely huge in economy...I was flabbergasted

Interesting. Do you remember who you flew with?

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 21:01

whiteblackwhite · 04/04/2026 20:56

Its a predictable comment because its true. We have absolutely lost sight of what a healthy weight looks like in adults and children. If you think statements of fact are a dig, its you who has the issue, not the person stating reality.

Oh yes, must just be because I'm a massive fat cow. Nothing to do with big business wanting to squeeze more people into the space in order to make more money...

ChangeAgainAgainAgain · 04/04/2026 20:59

I'm obese, and have never had a problem comfortably sitting in an airplane seat, nor have I ever needed a seatbelt extender. Admittedly, I've never flown Jet2, but I frequently fly Easyjet/Ryanair.

Ponderingwindow · 04/04/2026 20:57

many years ago the seats were wider and further apart. People did not magically shrink. The airlines just lobbied regulators to allow them to squeeze in more people.

people with perfect weight still don’t fit when they have broad shoulders or long thigh bones.

we also shouldn’t be blaming people for being anything less than perfectly on target for weight. No, an airline seat doesn’t need to handle every single extreme, but it should be sized to handle the vast majority of the population. Right now seats are inadequate to purpose.

higher ticket prices may result with changes. I don’t think that is a real problem.

Another solution is making it simpler for people to buy multiple tickets. Right now when people do that they often lose their second seat even when they follow airline instructions perfectly. It also doesn’t solve the legroom problem and not everyone is qualified for the emergency row.

Forthesteps · 04/04/2026 20:57

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:40

Lots of people are typically using this as a dig at overweight people...all the predictable comments that we have lost sight of what a healthy weight is...blah blah blah

The seats are tiny on budget short haul flights...even for slim/thin people. Just because you can fit in it doesn't mean it's comfortable or big enough.

But...but..fatties should be shamed and punished! This is MN. It's the law.

No, I'm not, before you all assume.

whiteblackwhite · 04/04/2026 20:56

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:40

Lots of people are typically using this as a dig at overweight people...all the predictable comments that we have lost sight of what a healthy weight is...blah blah blah

The seats are tiny on budget short haul flights...even for slim/thin people. Just because you can fit in it doesn't mean it's comfortable or big enough.

Its a predictable comment because its true. We have absolutely lost sight of what a healthy weight looks like in adults and children. If you think statements of fact are a dig, its you who has the issue, not the person stating reality.

ACynicalDad · 04/04/2026 20:55

I’m a large (but not very fat) male and have never had a problem with fitting in an airline seat and don’t think I spread into the next one. I think the focus should be on people losing weight not seats getting bigger.

Unpaidviewer · 04/04/2026 20:55

I fit fine. Airlines don't make much profit, its just enough room or you would have to pay more.

Squirrelchops1 · 04/04/2026 20:55

Just did 3 hours on Easyjet. I'm 5'6 " and small size 14. Room was fine. I could even cross my legs.

CheeryOchreCat · 04/04/2026 20:54

I think there’s a lot to be said for build. I’m broad shouldered and long legged (but not overweight) so airline seats are hell for me. Someone with a different body shape to me, even if overweight, could find the seat fine.

Photobot · 04/04/2026 20:53

It depends on the airline, they all have different seat pitches. I'm a normal BMI but nearly 6ft with most of it leg and I will never fly wizz air again- literally couldn't fit my legs in. I find a lot of theatres very uncomfortable too.

Width wise is usually ok but if you get a couple of overweight people in a row it does decrease the overall space available. And worst on very budget airlines (easyJet aren't too bad). It's all to maximise profit.

dizzydizzydizzy · 04/04/2026 20:52

I’m 5’9”‘and have my knees against the back of the seat in front in most economy seats.

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