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AIBU to think airline seats no longer fit average-sized adults?

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Frequency · 04/04/2026 20:21

Do any airlines have adult-sized seats? Not obese adults, just regular adults?

We've just flown with Jet2 and my back is still in agony from the trip there. I was in the middle seat between my friend, who is slightly overweight but also short, so proportionately, she is not much wider than an average height, average weight woman, and a man who was maybe bordering on obese, his ass fit in his own seat, but his shoulders took a good three/four inches of my seat. My friend's shoulders took maybe a cm or 2 of my seat.

I'm not on the small side myself; I'm not overweight, but I am not what you'd describe as skinny. I needed all my shoulder space to myself. I was unable to sit back the entire flight because I literally didn't fit. I had to hunch forward with my shoulders rolled in.

On the way back, I was sitting between my friend, a short, slim lady. I could sit back, but I was touching both people on either side of me, and there was no elbow space or wriggle room.

For next year, I need either my shoulders shaved down and a few ribs removed or actual, people-sized seats. Do such seats exist?

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TheDenimPoet · 04/04/2026 21:50

People are getting bigger, seats are getting smaller, and both of those issues together make for very uncomfortable journeys!

Reader19 · 04/04/2026 21:47

The last flight I was on (not Jet2), I was struggling for leg room. I don't meet many people who are shorter than I am. I don't remember this being an issue when I was younger, and I definitely haven't got bigger!

Hereforthecommentz · 04/04/2026 21:47

I've not flown jet2 is it because they are a budget airline? Probably trying to squeeze more people on perhaps. Flew economy on BA, my other half is overweight and he was fine in the economy seats for 10 hour flight. Not had issue on TUI either but not flown with them for a few years.

Carpedementia · 04/04/2026 21:44

They definitely don’t have enough leg space and reclining should be abolished !!

tachetastic · 04/04/2026 21:41

I work overseas and so fly with Easyjet twice a week. I'm a 6'1" man weighing about 15 and a half stone, so there's plenty of me, and I always fit in my seat fine if I'm in the centre or aisle, so long as the person next to me is not obese and coming over the line of the seat arm. Window seats are tighter because they cut in more around the height of my shoulder.

Perhaps Easyjet has more generous seats that Jet2, who I have only flown with rarely and not for several years.

Frequency · 04/04/2026 21:40

LVhandbagsatdawn · 04/04/2026 21:37

Literally from your OP:

"my friend, who is slightly overweight"

"a man who was maybe bordering on obese"

None of that says "these are normal weight people".

Yes, but they were not obese, which is who many posters are blaming, unless we think the obese people ate part of the seats as they passed, it was not their fault that I was squashed.

Overweight pretty much is the norm these days. Three ordinary people should be able to fit in the seats.

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Needspaceforlego · 04/04/2026 21:40

notimagain · 04/04/2026 21:31

I vaguely recall once upon a time the seats were supposed to "accommodate" up to the 95.percentile adult.

Of course what that means depends on when the 95th percentile figures were established...may have been some decades back

But was that 95 centile in height or width?

Maybe planes need to offer extra wide seats. Something like a seat and half. Very few would want to admit they need 2 full seats, and even if someone does buy two seats, it really can't be that comfortable to have an ass cheek on each seat and you head between the seats with your spine on the arm rest.

Shallotsaresmallonions · 04/04/2026 21:40

Changename12 · 04/04/2026 21:35

It is leg length not height although sometimes they go together. My husband is a couple of inches shorter than yours but has a short body. All his height is in his legs. He cannot fit into a normal airplane seat without angling his legs.

Neither of our dhs are average size tbf. I have to angle my legs too and I personally don't find it uncomfortable. I've just accepted it as part of the parcel of being tall haha.

LVhandbagsatdawn · 04/04/2026 21:37

Frequency · 04/04/2026 21:31

These people were not huge, though. I don't know why people are assuming they were when I have said several times that they were not. They were normal people, and yes, I know what normal, overweight, and obese look like.

Literally from your OP:

"my friend, who is slightly overweight"

"a man who was maybe bordering on obese"

None of that says "these are normal weight people".

Changename12 · 04/04/2026 21:35

Shallotsaresmallonions · 04/04/2026 20:41

My DH is 6'5 and manages. He'd be more comfortable in an extra leg room seat for sure though.

In my mind, the seat size and leg room are two different things. Obviously lots will disagree with that.

It is leg length not height although sometimes they go together. My husband is a couple of inches shorter than yours but has a short body. All his height is in his legs. He cannot fit into a normal airplane seat without angling his legs.

Frequency · 04/04/2026 21:35

I don't understand why posters are so determined to blame obese people for my discomfort. There were no obese people in our seating row.

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Frequency · 04/04/2026 21:31

AngelinaFibres · 04/04/2026 21:28

This. If you don't fit in the seat you are fat and you need to do something about it. Seats aren't smaller. People are huge these days

These people were not huge, though. I don't know why people are assuming they were when I have said several times that they were not. They were normal people, and yes, I know what normal, overweight, and obese look like.

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notimagain · 04/04/2026 21:31

LVhandbagsatdawn · 04/04/2026 20:42

Yes they are.

Which is why they're designed with a theoretical, average, healthy weight person in mind.

The fact the average person is actually now overweight isn't factored in.

HTH.

I vaguely recall once upon a time the seats were supposed to "accommodate" up to the 95.percentile adult.

Of course what that means depends on when the 95th percentile figures were established...may have been some decades back

Createausername1970 · 04/04/2026 21:30

We flew back from US a couple of years ago on a what must have been an older airplane as it had screens at regular intervals around the cabin, but no individual screens in the back of the seat in front of you.

Oh, the seats!!

Big, leather-effect, comfy, wing-back style. They were by far the best seats I have ever had on a plane (always fly economy) and I definitely had more leg room.

AngelinaFibres · 04/04/2026 21:28

CassandraCan · 04/04/2026 20:25

Adults are overweight and as a normal-sized person (who fits in seats - shoulders and all) I am always scanning the aisle to see if I have the misfortune of having an overweight person sitting next to me.

there is an epidemic of obesity and people just aren’t tacking it.

Edited

This. If you don't fit in the seat you are fat and you need to do something about it. Seats aren't smaller. People are huge these days

Gingernaut · 04/04/2026 21:25

Seats haven't changed size

Obesity is so rife and normalised that the 'average' sized adult has increased in size since the majority of us became porkers

See also, vanity sizing

Clothing increasing in proportion, but the size labels remain the same

Someone who was a size 12 ten years ago and who hasn't gained weight, is more than likely looking towards the size 10 or size 8 end of the clothing racks today

pinkstripeycat · 04/04/2026 21:25

I don’t think seats are any smaller now than when I first flew in 1988

RawBloomers · 04/04/2026 21:24

YANBU. Seats have got narrower as people have got larger (both height and, even more so, weight wise). So it's not surprising they feel uncomfortable.

Bombombomtralala · 04/04/2026 21:21

Dh is overweight and fits comfortably, he not had an issue. I’m not overweight and have never had an issue.

21ZIGGY · 04/04/2026 21:19

Ryan air flights are unbearable. As a plus sized woman who is part of the epidemic of obesity and is just not tackling it ( thanks for the judgement @CassandraCan ) i will not fly with them. However, I have always found jet2 and easy jet to be great. Admittedly I only go as far as spain with them so it's not long to be a little bit tight on space!

SunnyRedSnail · 04/04/2026 21:19

I often fly Ryanair and Easyjet and find them a little cramped for legroom (I'm 5ft 11) but enough room.

I think some people are in denial about their width. Seat sizes are clearly stated on the website so people should either pay for a second seat or turn sideways slightly so you don't encroach on someone else's space, as that's just rude.

ThejoyofNC · 04/04/2026 21:18

Try flying with an infant on your lap

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 04/04/2026 21:18

I think they need to start putting something rigid in between seats so that everyone gets their full share of space.

Of the three of you, you were the one that fitted in the seat and yet somehow you were the person who had to sit hunched forward? That’s not fair.
You should have been allowed to sit back and only if they could fit should the others do likewise.

A nice rigid seat divider to keep everyone in their own space (and prevent legs from going out at angles) should do it, and encourage those who need to to booked two seats.

It should be possible to ask flight crew to remove them with some sort of tool for those needing to book two seats, or for a parent with a small child who wishes to lie across them.

Xkk · 04/04/2026 21:17

Comedycook · 04/04/2026 20:32

The seats are designed with average, healthy weight people in mind

No. The seats are designed to squeeze in as many people as physically possible to maximise profit.

Hth

To be honest you can fly to Europe for cheaper than you can take a train to London, the small seats allow people on tight budget to travel. I don't think there are very comfortable but I keep my mouth shut because with £35 I covered 1500 miles. It is what ot is.

Didntask · 04/04/2026 21:16

OldJohn · 04/04/2026 20:34

I am a fairly normal weight and size, I weigh 74kg. I think every passenger should be asked to step on a set of scales with all their luggage.If the total is over 95kg then they need to pay for the excess weight. That would mean the seriously obese people pay extra and so can get bigger seats

Hmm. I'm 6'2, size 12, and go between 76-80kg. Add 20kg of luggage on and that takes me over your arbitrary 95kg limit. Yet I am far from obese Confused

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