Df1 very recently lost her Dh unexpectedly
Df2 has not made any effort to be there (they aren’t particularly close) but then tells me that she told her the following.
I had a dream about your dh, he was in a pub and I asked if he was alright and he said he missed us all.
aibu to think this is wildly inappropriate. Why would her dead husband be visiting random friend if you believe in that stuff rather than his wife. if you don’t believe in it what on earth do you hope to gain from it?
nb Df2 doesn’t believe they have some sort of sixth sense, or sight. Generally they have a way of making any situation about themselves.