It’s really disingenuous to start a thread pretending that it’s about the needs of families with disabled children when actually it’s about saying this specific CM didn’t do anything wrong in the death of this child.
A child has died in an incident that should never have happened. The CM should have been very clear with the parents if she wasn’t capable of offering the level of care the child needed. And the outing should have been risk assessed, and then cancelled if it wasn’t safe for all of the children in attendance that day.
glibly saying “the CM told the mum she went out a lot” is ridiculous, and actually offensive. A child is dead because of poor care.