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AIBU to be fed up with walkers trespassing on our land?

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Pricelessadvice · 03/04/2026 10:13

We have a family farm that, unfortunately, has a footpath that runs through it.
The footpath turns and goes into some woods and off our property but many people ignore the turn and just carry on around our land. This is mostly dog walkers. They then let their dog crap on our fields and just leave it. We take a crop off the land- some years a hay crop, some years beans, others wheat- but people just don’t seem to care.
I am always polite when I see someone trespassing. I ask them if they know they have left the footpath and I point them back in the direction of it. 9 people out of 10 get really arsey about it. I get all the excuses in the book- “it’s just fields/I always walk here/I can do what I want/it’s just grass/other people do it”
Ive had off lead dogs chasing my liveries horses (who have permission to ride the headlands), sheep being worried, the list goes on.

There are plenty of signs telling people where the footpath is and where it isn’t, but they get ignored.

When I try to explain to people that they wouldn’t like it if I walked my dogs in their garden every day and let them poo everywhere, they just argue that it’s not the same coz “these are fields”
SIGH
The Covid year was a bloody nightmare with people wandering everywhere.
When did people get so entitled? AIBU to think that people just think they can do whatever the hell they want nowadays?

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mbosnz · 06/04/2026 09:01

If we heard a little less wanging on about the 'right' to roam, and a little more about responsibilities if we wish to continue roaming, that would be good.

Maybe if a landowner could evidence a certain number of offences against the land and livestock of a certain threshold of seriousness to permit restrictions, that would help remind people that with rights come responsibilities.

CatrionaBalfour · 06/04/2026 08:40

LovesLabradors · 06/04/2026 08:33

"What makes it your land?"

I see we've reached the "property is theft" stage of the discussion!

This is your problem OP - people with attitudes like this, and the chap a PP posted about earlier, ripping the sign down saying "I don't like being told what to do." In other words, people who don't respect the land or the countryside, people who don't think the land should be yours in the first place, and think they should be allowed to go/do whatever they like.

I think introducing a Right to Roam law in England would be disastrous for this reason. The issue with crops is obviously bad enough, but the harm to the livestock - the ponies, cows, alpacas mentioned on this thread - is really awful.

Funnily enough, they wouldn't be happy if their property/workplace was trashed.

SpaceRaccoon · 06/04/2026 08:37

I'm sure some entitled townie who thinks food comes from a supermarket would be a far better custodian than you OP, with your selfish food-producing ways. Hand it over!

LovesLabradors · 06/04/2026 08:33

"What makes it your land?"

I see we've reached the "property is theft" stage of the discussion!

This is your problem OP - people with attitudes like this, and the chap a PP posted about earlier, ripping the sign down saying "I don't like being told what to do." In other words, people who don't respect the land or the countryside, people who don't think the land should be yours in the first place, and think they should be allowed to go/do whatever they like.

I think introducing a Right to Roam law in England would be disastrous for this reason. The issue with crops is obviously bad enough, but the harm to the livestock - the ponies, cows, alpacas mentioned on this thread - is really awful.

SunnyRedSnail · 06/04/2026 08:32

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And you sound unbelievably dumb.

I assume you eat food? And who do you expect to grow that? What do you think farmers do?

And if farmer fields got trashed and crops destroyed then food prices will go up.

We don't produce enough food in this country and import huge amounts. Supporting British farming is so important.

SpaceRaccoon · 06/04/2026 08:32

tellmesomethingtrue · 05/04/2026 22:56

Why should you own fields and fields of land when some people only have a postage stamp garden, if that? The earth belongs to all of us.

Are you serious 😂 she's growing the food you eat.

CatrionaBalfour · 06/04/2026 08:32

Greyblankie · 06/04/2026 07:29

Ok great, Give us your address and I’ll be sure to exercise my right to roam across your garden with my dog

I'd go in the kitchen and help myself to a cuppa as well.

Greyblankie · 06/04/2026 07:29

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Ok great, Give us your address and I’ll be sure to exercise my right to roam across your garden with my dog

Pricelessadvice · 06/04/2026 07:28

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What makes it my land? Same thing that makes someone’s garden theirs. And no, in England you don’t have the right to roam.
You either haven’t read my post about the fact they are crop fields, you are woefully uneducated, or you are simply a troll.

People like you would be the first to complain if the food prices quadrupled because our farming industry collapsed.

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Greyblankie · 06/04/2026 07:27

Put a sign up saying

PRIVATE LAND - BEWARE - LOOSE BULL

Pineneedlesincarpet · 06/04/2026 07:22

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There's no right to roam anywhere you like in England.

We also have private property rights which is a bedrock of society in this country and have been in existence in some form or other for about a thousand years. You need to start a revolution maybe to change it? Good luck with that one. I'm not sure by the tone of your posts, Jeremy, that you are the persuasive type? Just my opinion of course.

Pricelessadvice · 06/04/2026 07:21

tellmesomethingtrue · 05/04/2026 22:56

Why should you own fields and fields of land when some people only have a postage stamp garden, if that? The earth belongs to all of us.

Some of us grow the food you eat. The ingredients that create your bread, cereal… etc

But don’t worry, we’ll all give away all our land and stop farming and then you can see what happens to the availability and price of food when it has to be brought in from overseas.

What planet are you living on? Is it fun up there?

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DdraigGoch · 06/04/2026 07:12

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People have the right to pass and repass over the public footpath.

They don't have the right to litter.
They don't have the right to trample crops
They don't have the right to leave dog shit everywhere.
They don't have the right to harass livestock.
etc

todayImstruggling · 06/04/2026 00:05

tellmesomethingtrue · 05/04/2026 22:56

Why should you own fields and fields of land when some people only have a postage stamp garden, if that? The earth belongs to all of us.

You do realise that you’re talking about working farmland! You know, the place where your food comes from! Do you demand access to factories and businesses too? Farms are a business. Essential to growing the food you eat every day!

todayImstruggling · 06/04/2026 00:01

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No they do not. What the hell gives you the right to roam on other peoples land?

OneTimeThingToday · 05/04/2026 23:54

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To. Produce. Food.

Food doesnt just materilise in Tesco.

Papau · 05/04/2026 23:51

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They have the right to walk on the path on the RoW which they are not currently doing.

its OPs land, just like a house garden belongs to the owner, a factory site belongs to the owner of the site. OP is bending over backwards to help people still be able to access, despite shitty behavior with clear signs, being polite etc. she doesn’t sound awful at all, the melons she’s dealing with on her land the other hand

Jeremyspal · 05/04/2026 23:43

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WidecombeHill · 05/04/2026 23:38

tellmesomethingtrue · 05/04/2026 22:56

Why should you own fields and fields of land when some people only have a postage stamp garden, if that? The earth belongs to all of us.

But your garden doesn't belong to me. And presumably you don't welcome strangers to park up on your garden and use it as a dog exercise field?

WidecombeHill · 05/04/2026 23:34

I live on the edge of a Devon village that has a lot of visitors from Easter to October. It's beautiful and I understand why people love to walk down our lane with or without dogs.
Across the lane we have an area of grass, a wildflower bank and an orchard. It's very obviously mown and tended, with rhododendrons and azaleas, spring bulbs and fruit trees along with a row of granite staddle stones (mushrooms). People treat it like it's just there for their entertainment. They have their kids climbing on the straddles for photos. They pick flowers and wander up into the orchard. They drive up onto the banks, churning and breaking them down rather than reverse 20m to a passing place. And almost every day someone allows their dog to crap on the grass. They have dogs on extendable leads that basically mean the dog goes where it wants and they do get arsey if asked to keep them off the garden, or not to drive over the grass slope. It's not fenced but we lined the most vulnerable areas with large rocks- today I found my wildflower bank wrecked by car tracks despite being nearly vertical, and a slew of crushed primroses, grape hyacinths and narcissi on the lane, where a vehicle had torn them out of the bank. People move the rocks out of the way so they can still drive on the raised verges.
It's not our livelihood and we don't have OP's worries for livestock or food crops. But I think it's the same attitude that the countryside exists for their recreation and those who live here are characters in their holiday theme park. I'm so tired of visitors letting their dogs crap anywhere and not picking up up- as though the normal rules are suspended when you're on holiday. We all understand that visitors are important to the rural economy and want them to feel welcome- but that's honestly not always easy.
@Pricelessadvice you are not being unreasonable. Sadly you are probably too reasonable and need to be a bit more direct about threatening consequences if dogs worry livestock or horses are injured.

nOlives · 05/04/2026 23:02

AgentPidge · 05/04/2026 22:58

Some people grow food. Your food!

^ This. Surely every adult must know this.

AgentPidge · 05/04/2026 22:58

tellmesomethingtrue · 05/04/2026 22:56

Why should you own fields and fields of land when some people only have a postage stamp garden, if that? The earth belongs to all of us.

Some people grow food. Your food!

tellmesomethingtrue · 05/04/2026 22:56

Why should you own fields and fields of land when some people only have a postage stamp garden, if that? The earth belongs to all of us.

Summerbay23 · 05/04/2026 22:56

I like to think I’m a very respectful walker. The only time I would venture away from the public footpath is..

if it wasn’t adequately signposted and I was genuinely confused about which way to go.

if there were cattle in the field that were genuinely overly interested and a concern to my safety (I have a dog and a farming upbringing and was never concerned about cattle until I had a dog and experienced cattle surrounding us.) In this case I would find an alternative route for my own safety.

I would always pick up dog poo and treat land with absolute respect. I don’t see huge numbers of out of control walkers where I live but maybe I’m lucky. On the whole land owners are lovely too but it’s hard to completely control a 10 mile walk where you don’t know exactly what hazards or unclear signs you may encounter.

nOlives · 05/04/2026 22:48

A donkey would take out that rottie.

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