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AIBU to be fed up with walkers trespassing on our land?

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Pricelessadvice · 03/04/2026 10:13

We have a family farm that, unfortunately, has a footpath that runs through it.
The footpath turns and goes into some woods and off our property but many people ignore the turn and just carry on around our land. This is mostly dog walkers. They then let their dog crap on our fields and just leave it. We take a crop off the land- some years a hay crop, some years beans, others wheat- but people just don’t seem to care.
I am always polite when I see someone trespassing. I ask them if they know they have left the footpath and I point them back in the direction of it. 9 people out of 10 get really arsey about it. I get all the excuses in the book- “it’s just fields/I always walk here/I can do what I want/it’s just grass/other people do it”
Ive had off lead dogs chasing my liveries horses (who have permission to ride the headlands), sheep being worried, the list goes on.

There are plenty of signs telling people where the footpath is and where it isn’t, but they get ignored.

When I try to explain to people that they wouldn’t like it if I walked my dogs in their garden every day and let them poo everywhere, they just argue that it’s not the same coz “these are fields”
SIGH
The Covid year was a bloody nightmare with people wandering everywhere.
When did people get so entitled? AIBU to think that people just think they can do whatever the hell they want nowadays?

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JulietteHasAGun · 03/04/2026 12:32

It’s infuriating. Dh owns some fields and there is a public footpath which runs through it. Family keep horses on the fields. People would let their dogs off lead, running amok and shitting everywhere. We’ve had Heras style 7ft high metal fencing installed so any walkers and dogs are effectively in a metal cage walking through the field and are restricted to the path. Looks awful, does the job. The locals were enraged.

We have found other people using our fields which don’t have a footpath as a secure dog paddock. They literally drive up, throw the dog over the gate and stand watching them. I had a particularly heated argument once with someone who was adamant he wasn’t doing anything wrong. Was blatantly not going to pick poo up. Had no concept of moving livestock into their for grazing and the danger of dog poo. Said there was no sign saying it was private. So I said I’d come and sit in his back garden which I bet didn’t have a private sign on it either.

mindutopia · 03/04/2026 12:32

We have a footpath that crosses our farm. Thankfully, people do stick to the path as otherwise you’d have to go up and down a steep hill and it’s obviously in view of our house, so walking off the footpath would bring them closer to us and they don’t tend to do that.

I think electric fencing without a gate is the way to go. Non-farming people are very nervous about electric fences. Don’t give them a way through, no access to any way to disconnect it on the public side. You may loose a bit of usable land, but would save the aggro.

LovesLabradors · 03/04/2026 12:31

I believe you OP - some people just do not care.
I walk my dog a lot and the amount of litter and dog poo just left in our beautiful woods and fields - and along the roads in our village - is a travesty.
I've started picking it up myself, as I walk, because I can't stand it.

whattheysay · 03/04/2026 12:31

Fences are the answer or put up a big sign at the footpath turn which says private property keep off, stay on path

Howmanycatsistoomany · 03/04/2026 12:30

Pineapplewhip · 03/04/2026 10:15

Youre going to have to put up a big secure fence if you dont like it OP.

I am amazed 9/10 people get arsey. Maybe you are not as nice as you think you are towards them? I would have thought at least 50% of people would apologise and thank you - but then maybe im being too naive.

IME, most ramblers and dog walkers absolutely do get arsey when challenged. I had dog walkers letting their dogs chase my horses, whacking my horses with those ski stick things, stuffing their crisp bags and pop bottles into my dry stone walls, climbing over the dry stone walls and pulling the top stones off because they were too bloody lazy to use the stiles (on one memorable occasion because their fat arse was too wide to fit through the stile).

I electric fenced the entire place but it was still a nightmare, almost daily I'd find the posts pulled out of the ground, gates left open.

So I moved to France, bought a property in the middle of nowhere, with no footpaths or rights of way. Now I have to contend with pissed up arseholes with guns and untrained hunt dogs running all over my land for 6 months of the year, chasing my horses and killing my chooks.

Never ceases to amaze me that folk think they can do whatever they hell they want on someone else's property. Sympathies OP.

Nothung · 03/04/2026 12:30

PuggyPuggyPuggy · 03/04/2026 12:24

"Fence it off" - as if that isn't going to cost thousands, and shouldn't be necessary 🤦

Of course it shouldn’t, but if the OP is sure her signage is clear, the route of the path is unambiguous and it’s not wrongly marked on maps or local walking guides, she’s continually dealing with trespassers being aggressive, and the problem of dogshit in her crop, I’m not sure what’s left other than to apply for the path to be rerouted, if that’s possible, or to fence off her crop?

Farmwifefarmlife · 03/04/2026 12:29

We have this on our land , we’ve put signs and “dummy “ cameras, also attend a local meeting if your village / town has one? Signs & arrows too. I know lots ignore them but as you can’t easily fence it it’s the only thing you can do really. Highly frustrating.

Superhansrantowindsor · 03/04/2026 12:26

Why should op pay a lot of money for a fence?
I do a lot of countryside walking. It’s so annoying when the paths aren’t clear or where the farmers make access deliberately difficult but it sounds as if op has done all the right things.
OP is right. People are getting more entitled n general but since covid we seem to be at peak dog where everyone thinks the world revolves around their pet and that everyone loves dogs.

PuggyPuggyPuggy · 03/04/2026 12:24

"Fence it off" - as if that isn't going to cost thousands, and shouldn't be necessary 🤦

thestudio · 03/04/2026 12:22

shotgun

Pricelessadvice · 03/04/2026 12:19

NerrSnerr · 03/04/2026 12:12

I walk in the countryside a lot (without a dog) and really appreciate landowners like the OP who have clear signs. There are some who will do everything in their power to hide the public footpath which means that you run the risk of accidentally trespassing. Some people are really rude and it’s not on, they should be following the path.

is the way they’re going a shortcut?

If you stick to the perimeter of all the fields, it loops back to the other side of the farm, so some local people see it as a great dog walk because their dog is basically off lead the whole way, there’s no traffic and it takes them back to the starting point at the other end of the footpath. It’s around a 25 minute walk to do the loop. We have a few residential roads nearby and it seems people seem the farm as their own private dog walking route.
I’m now wondering whether I could make some money out of this - an annual fee for dog walking rights!😅 (that’s a joke by the way!)

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Papau · 03/04/2026 12:19

Fence in, with high fences even if it’s a pain for you. People will not listen, they do not care and will keep doing it. We’re in a similar boat, we’ve had cars on our fields recently, people just do not give a fuck.

indignantpigmy · 03/04/2026 12:18

We also have one lady who pops her dog in the gate at the top of a field and walks the road to meet the dog at the bottom gate, this keeps her boots clean. It means that she can not see what is in the field, can't see her dog and definitely has no control over it.

greencrab · 03/04/2026 12:14

I think the idea of checking your land on all trails etc is a good one as you may find routes online that have the wrong pathway with people following in good faith.

The littler, dog mess and rudeness is inexcusable though. No harm in some out of control for will be shot signs though even if you have no intention of following through

Delphiniumandlupins · 03/04/2026 12:13

VoiceFromThePit · 03/04/2026 11:02

You have to be an idiot to not fence your boundaries.

The boundaries probably are fenced. The issue is that a public right of way may not follow the boundary.

NerrSnerr · 03/04/2026 12:12

I walk in the countryside a lot (without a dog) and really appreciate landowners like the OP who have clear signs. There are some who will do everything in their power to hide the public footpath which means that you run the risk of accidentally trespassing. Some people are really rude and it’s not on, they should be following the path.

is the way they’re going a shortcut?

Pricelessadvice · 03/04/2026 12:11

7238SM · 03/04/2026 11:18

I'm clearly the only one trying to visualise this and would like a map or photos of the path etc 😆

If people are constantly not turning towards the woods and continuing the 'wrong' way, has that area been worn and now looks like the path continues? Could you put up an arrow towards the woods and as others have said- private property past this point, dogs will be shot, poison in use etc. Ideally, I'd have an electric fence around the area, but realise its costly and without seeing a pic, might not be feasible.

The path turns to to the right 90degrees and there is a sign saying “footpath this way” with an arrow and then a sign pointing forwards (to the private land) saying “private land, please keep off”. Then about 100 yards further up this private land, there’s a sign saying “you are now trespassing” and an arrow showing where the footpath went.
There is a worn track onto the private land as my liveries are allowed to ride the headlands on their horses and I walk my own dogs that way daily.

Most of the walkers coming through aren’t ramblers who are here for the first time, they are local dog walkers. A lot of them are amazing and I am friendly with loads of them as they live in the village. They also try to help me and will remind people if they see them heading the wrong way.

For the poster who said that my use of the word ‘unfortunate’ is very telling, well sadly, that’s what the public do to you! I am fed up of my cats being chased by off lead dogs (despite signs saying please keep your dogs on leash around the farm house and yard), fed up of dog poo by my garden gate…
The footpath goes through one of our grazing fields aswell but to protect everyone, we fenced the horses off, effectively losing a huge strip of our grazing land. But I felt it was safer for walkers aswell as I know people can be wary of being in fields with horses.
I’m actually not a dragon and I’m quite a reasonable person! People seem to want to paint me as a grumpy farmer but I leave that to part to my uncle when he’s about 😂

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BillieWiper · 03/04/2026 12:11

You need to put up a sign saying 'This field contains crops. These crops are our livelihood and this is private land. Please do not walk any further as you will be trespassing. Thank you.'

And maybe another sign at the bit where they veer off the footpath. Just saying to please continue to follow it?

That's if you can't reasonably fence it off.

NormasArse · 03/04/2026 12:09

VoiceFromThePit · 03/04/2026 11:02

You have to be an idiot to not fence your boundaries.

Fences cost a lot of money.

Surely the idiots are the ones who read the signs and ignore them?

mbosnz · 03/04/2026 12:08

I know of one bright young thing who genuinely thought that a farmer was being a bit unreasonable being annoyed when he was caught not just trespassing, but pissing, in his paddock.

They walk among us.

MyDeftDuck · 03/04/2026 12:03

Extra signage and maybe fencing is the way to go I think. But as a pp has pointed out, fencing isn’t always practical when planting crops.

I am not a land owner but I do understand the frustration of people walking where they’re not supposed to and dogs fouling the land is not acceptable.

Observing signs and keeping to designated paths ain’t difficult! The entitlement of some people thinking they “can go where they like and do what they want” is bloody annoying.

Hope you find a resolution for this OP….perhaps a few signs claiming ‘beware bull loose’ or ‘crop planted likely to cause harm to dogs’ might get the message across?

sanityisamyth · 03/04/2026 12:01

Nothungrycat · 03/04/2026 11:01

Walker here! Sometimes it is really hard to know where the footpath actually goes, but there's absolutely no excuse for wandering off the footpath when the route is clear and when there are specific signs asking you not to. I'd probably run an electric fence along the route for a while - that should stop dog walkers using the field and they'll hopefully tell all their dog-walking friends.

Surely it’s up to the walker to ensure they’re on permitted paths (as marked on Ordnance Survey maps) not farmers to pay for expensive fencing?

Pinkflamingo10 · 03/04/2026 12:01

presumably you’ve signs saying this isn’t a public right of way. You are trespassing. Angry bull in situ etc ?
if so then add an electric fence if you can’t build a permanent fence along the footpath ?
walker here. I’d be mortified if I was trespassing on a path I thought was public

Pricelessadvice · 03/04/2026 12:00

Those saying to fence if, it’s not actually that easy due to the layout of our land and needing access for tractors. I can’t really explain it very well but we would need a lot of fencing and it would make accessing some of the fields very difficult. I also don’t think it would work as people think as fencing really doesn’t stop people nowadays! On the other end of the property, where the footpath comes in from the other direction, we have a big locked gate with a No Entry sign that leads out to our crop fields. People pushed a hole in our hedge to get through.

I can promise you I’m not rude. I learnt years ago that you catch far more bees with honey, so I’m always polite and I even say things like “it’s a bit confusing if you don’t know the area, so don’t worry, but the path winds into the woods there…”
I think people might get a bit arsey because of embarrassment.
My liveries get the same reaction when they are out riding and try and re-route people to the footpath. They’ve had people telling them “well why are YOU riding on it then??” I even had a livery and her horse chased by an out of control dog a few years ago. Thankfully they didn’t fall off and managed to pull the horse up.

I love dogs and I would never harm a dog so I absolutely would never threaten to hurt one. It’s not the dogs fault, they are just being a dog.

We do have signs. A few got pulled down during Covid times (by walkers who got annoyed at being told they were trespassing) which we replaced, but I’m going to get some more done.
I know a lot of people don’t like farming folk, but we are nice, decent people just trying to make a living. The farm isn’t huge, but it’s a working farm and livelihoods depend on it.

I think I'm more frustrated at the amount of dog poo that people leave all over the place. They don’t even have to decency to clean up because they think “oh it’s just a farm”
😒

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Nomdemare · 03/04/2026 11:59

Reading all these replies with interest. We have stock fenced the PROW that crosses our land and have also invested in smart, clear signage denoting private land.

We have also worked with the local council countryside officers and walkers group and have also taken on financial responsibility to maintain vegetation cutting and also footpath resurfacing with approx 30 tonnes of aggregate. It’s now utterly walkable and accessible at all times of the year whereas many years ago it was a quagmire and impassable in winter.

Yet, despite all this effort, we still have a minority of entitled and ignorant behaviour.

  • piles of dog poo left along the path, despite there being bins at either wnd
  • litter
  • bicycles and now electric scooters being used along a footpath
  • trwspassing onto land either side
  • wrenching off of signage from gates and stock fencing

I dread the long Easter weekend as invariably it brings out a bunch of even more entitled, angry assholes whose only excuse is that we should put up with it because we own the land - and they don’t.
When I flagged up the trespassing issue on the local community Facebook last year, I had one person tell me ‘get a f&cking life’ , with lots of people liking that comment - even the ones we have very naively made donations and offered produce for local charity fundraising events.

I think there’s something dark and unpleasant going on: for a minority, this poor behaviour is viewed by them as being entirely justifiable because it’s privately owned. There is real resentment.
Whereas the reality is we have invested thousands into its upkeep and doing all the right things, certainly in a way that the Local Authority could not afford to do if uunder their ownership. I mean, they can’t even afford to fund their own statutory obligations with regards to PROWs - we do!