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AIBU to wonder why people park next to lone cars?

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mrsCtheRed · 02/04/2026 20:40

So I've just got back from shopping, and once again, some absolute dickhead has parked right next to me, when there are about 168 free spaces, and only about 20 cars actually parked.
Surely it makes sense, when there's a block of empty spaces, to park in alternating bays, for the convenience of everyone?

I notice this ALL THE TIME, and I so want to come back to my car whilst somebody is actually mid park, and ask them Why? Why?
For the love of god, why?!?!!!!!!!!

I just can't get my head around why people choose to park next to an already parked car, when there's acres of spaces free 🤯

And the most annoying part is, I always park right at the far end of any car park, in the hope that its less likely to happen, and it still happens!

Can anyone give me an insight into why people do it? As I've now just come to the conclusion that they're all either selfish bastards, or thick as shit.

OP posts:
Munchyseeds2 · 04/04/2026 09:52

No idea but it happens when camping too
Empty field and someone comes and pitches right next to you!

brunettemic · 04/04/2026 09:51

I’ve always assumed it’s because people believe an isolated car is more likely to get broken into in a car park so they park next to another one to avoid that.

Rileysp · 04/04/2026 09:49

Honestly. To wind people up

Screamingabdabz · 04/04/2026 09:44

It’s herd mentality. Thick people with sheep-like minds. YANBU.

OneTimeThingToday · 04/04/2026 09:44

Elektra1 · 04/04/2026 09:37

Someone with mobility issues has a blue badge and can park in the spaces designed for their ease of access

Theres syrict criteroa for blue badges. My mother doesnt qualify as her condition (which has being going on for several years) is "temporary". Somedays she cant walk more than a few metres.

Generally what happens is whoever is driving has to drive out of the space , spend several minutes blocking cars while helping her into the car, folding the wheelchair etc, then carry on.

Which is why wherever posdible we oark way from other cars... to minimise this happening.⁹

GrillaMilla · 04/04/2026 09:41

Sometimes, when it happens to me, I imagine for a moment I might be unknowingly taking part in some kind of prank type Jeremy Beadle show, it's so ridiculous

GrillaMilla · 04/04/2026 09:39

I'm assuming they rely on parking sensors rather than mirrors. So they need an object (another parked car) as a bleeping guide.

It's a strange mindset as revealed by some posters here, but nowt so queer as folk as they say!

TippyTee · 04/04/2026 09:37

Happens to me a lot.

I also seem to attract people to look at the exact same shelf or rack of clothes when I’m shopping. I go at times when it’s less busy.

I am fairly quick decision maker with whether I like the clothes item or not so spend just a few quick moments to look. Inevitably, someone (desperately) comes up beside me out of the blue in what seems to be a deserted shop, to see what I’m looking at and rifles through the rack that I’m standing in front of.

Elektra1 · 04/04/2026 09:37

BunfightBetty · 04/04/2026 09:01

Your ‘need’ to not be inconvenienced is nowhere near the need for someone with mobility issues to have a bit of space. But you know that. The issue is that you only care about you.

Someone with mobility issues has a blue badge and can park in the spaces designed for their ease of access

InMyOpenOnion · 04/04/2026 09:23

I am really pleased that parking within the lines in a car park is now included in the driving test. Judging by this thread, it sounds like it's needed!

PinkTonic · 04/04/2026 09:19

EddieVedderSingsToMe · 04/04/2026 00:00

I do this all the time. My reason is I drive a van (a vw transporter for size ref) and have to reverse into a space to make life easier for myself pulling out again. It’s far easier to reverse into a bay when I’m lining up against another car and can see it from my mirrors and hear my reversing sensors beeping. Much trickier when a car park is empty and I have nothing to line up against. I can only think this is the reason others do it. Unless they are out to get you. Must admit it never crossed my mind that anyone would be annoyed by it.

It’s never occurred to you that someone would be irritated that you’ve come and parked your F off van right next to them in a car park with loads of available spaces?

It looks like the general consensus is that lots of people are crap at parking and are either oblivious to their impact on others or don’t care.

Missj25 · 04/04/2026 09:18

mrsCtheRed · 02/04/2026 20:52

I just find it absolutely baffling. Parking spaces are so tight - and I don't have a big hulking suv, just a standard family Mondeo size car - I just can't understand why anyone would make it more of a faff (for themselves aswell) having to wriggle out of our cars, when you can just leave one space in between, and we can all get in and out easily.

Well nobody cares if I park my little compact Suzuki swift alongside them 😂

DancingDelli · 04/04/2026 09:14

RenegadeKeeblerElf · 02/04/2026 20:47

Why does it matter? What's the problem with someone parking next to you? I get it's annoying if they've parked too close, but you don't say that in your OP, you're implying that simply parking next to someone is selfish and I don't see it.

I bet you argue about the colour of grass dont you😂

Tramone · 04/04/2026 09:10

mrsCtheRed · 02/04/2026 21:06

Selfish because its knowingly inconveniencing someone else, who then usually has to do a sideways limbo just to get in their car.

Do you live in London or a big city?

BunfightBetty · 04/04/2026 09:07

MaryBeardsShoes · 04/04/2026 09:02

Oh take a day off Bunfight! No one is saying they can’t do it, just they prefer not to. Maybe people saying they can’t get into their cars when another car is parked next door shouldn’t have a car? Or at least shouldn’t have cars so big they take up more than one space.

It’s just pretty selfish when they’ve heard why it’s an issue for others, and still do an ‘I’m alright Jack, I don’t give a shit about anyone else and I’ll keep doing what I want’.

It’s one thing to be oblivious to other people needs, quite another to be informed of them and still be inconsiderate. That’s an attitude I find really awful. So selfish.

Also quite worrying that so many people are such piss poor drivers they can’t line up in a car park without another car to guide them. We all have to use the roads with these liabilities.

Talkingtomyhouseplants · 04/04/2026 09:06

I find it easier to line myself up next to a car than in empty space. I get terrible choice paralysis when choosing a parking space as well so it’s easier for me to just park next to someone.

namechange62 · 04/04/2026 09:05

I've two tales about this!
Just a few weeks ago I had a brand new £35k courtesy car with a £500 excess so I didn't want to risk some plonker opening their car door on it. So I parked as far away from the entrance as I could and went as early as I could. Jesus wept. Not one but two cars either side in an otherwise empty car park! Luckily no dents.
A couple of years ago I traded a car when I bought another. Same colour and make. The trade garage was at least 50 miles away from where I lived. A couple of months later, when I was parked in an almost empty car park, I came out to find my old car next to me!!
I absolutely have no idea why people do it..

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 04/04/2026 09:05

I once parked next to a car in a supermarket car park when there were other spaces available. I did that because it was closer to the shop.

When I came out the other car’s owner ranted and raved and swore at me. I explained why I’d parked there and pointed out that she had easily enough room to get in the driver’s door.

It dawned on me that she was a nervous and not very good driver who just didn’t like cars on either side because she’d have to take more care getting out.

But I do agree that parking next to a lone car a long way away from the shop door in an empty car park would be odd.

LIVVI1234 · 04/04/2026 09:03

The other day I returned to my car to find someone parking up next to me, super close. We both had bigger cars but I was fully in the space properly. As I got into my car I could see she couldn't open her door, that's how close she was. Not just a case of being able to slide out like you sometimes have to do. She literally couldn't open it. She waited as I got in and I think her plan was to wait for me to drive off and get out. But I didn't, I sat there for 10 mins until she was forced to move her car. Who does that? Like I say, we both had big cars (both range rovers) but I was parked perfectly in the middle, not in a close to the entrance spot or anything like that. It baffles me.

MaryBeardsShoes · 04/04/2026 09:02

BunfightBetty · 04/04/2026 08:56

Anyone who can’t use the lines to line up in a car park needs a mandatory eye test (they must be like Mr Magoo!), and retest of their driving license. It’s absolutely shocking that people would drive around knowing they’re so incompetent.

Oh take a day off Bunfight! No one is saying they can’t do it, just they prefer not to. Maybe people saying they can’t get into their cars when another car is parked next door shouldn’t have a car? Or at least shouldn’t have cars so big they take up more than one space.

BunfightBetty · 04/04/2026 09:01

Elektra1 · 04/04/2026 08:56

Oh I’m sorry, I thought you were the same poster I replied to earlier, who did have a blue badge. I’ll keep parking as per my own needs. Everyone has needs. Mine is not making parking more complicated than it needs to be.

Your ‘need’ to not be inconvenienced is nowhere near the need for someone with mobility issues to have a bit of space. But you know that. The issue is that you only care about you.

Dollymylove · 04/04/2026 09:01

I always try to park a few spaces away from other cars but someone will always park next to me so close I can hardly open my door, despite they being plenty of vacant slots. Very annoying!!

Elektra1 · 04/04/2026 08:56

BunfightBetty · 04/04/2026 08:54

Not sure why you think I have a blue badge. I don’t, I’m fully able-bodied.

But some of us actually consider others and their needs, and don’t just centre ourself 24/7.

Oh I’m sorry, I thought you were the same poster I replied to earlier, who did have a blue badge. I’ll keep parking as per my own needs. Everyone has needs. Mine is not making parking more complicated than it needs to be.

Beachtastic · 04/04/2026 08:56

I think it's the same suburban mentality that had a family pitch their tent right next to ours in an open field where the site owner left you to choose your own spot. Then had their toddlers running around screaming from the early hours.

BunfightBetty · 04/04/2026 08:56

KnittedEspalier · 04/04/2026 08:51

I never thought I’d be so annoyed by a parking thread😂

Need to snap the licences of these people, it’s just ridiculous. By all means park leaving one bay in the middle. Parking right next to someone in an empty car park is odd and 100% incompetent driving/parking.

Anyone who can’t use the lines to line up in a car park needs a mandatory eye test (they must be like Mr Magoo!), and retest of their driving license. It’s absolutely shocking that people would drive around knowing they’re so incompetent.