I have my own opinions and bias on this so I’ll try to make this as fair and even as possible .
A while ago , we had a leaving do for a colleague. Early in the evening, with everyone present A did a big speech, lovely, some laughs, everyone clapped at the end , all good. Towards the end of the evening, a lot of people had left already, B also did a shorter speech. Again, some laughs, lovely, claps , all good.
However, A took great offence to this, and the night ended with a row.
The atmosphere is still tense in the office due to all of this.
One side is , that it was incredibly rude /attention seeking to do a second speech. So this would be YABU.
The other side is that it’s not that big of a deal, and even if it was the reaction to it was completely over the top. YANBU
I’m trying to keep this fairly vague so as not to be outing , and also like I originally said to keep things fair and not take sides, but I’m happy to add more context/detail if needed.