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Those astronauts must be slightly insane.

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thinktoomuchtoooften · 01/04/2026 22:09

I mean obviously they’re highly intelligent individuals and must know what they’re doing… but the risks are so huge and they have families. To me it’s just madness.

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luckylavender · 02/04/2026 08:25

thinktoomuchtoooften · 01/04/2026 22:24

The cost is also madness imo. There are better things to spend millions (or is it billions?) on.

Not only that but they have enough fuel to fill every car in the US. Utter madness,

SpaceRaccoon · 02/04/2026 08:20

I think that bravery, wonder and exploration is how we get humanity to a better place, and that this is therefore the vest possible use for the money.

Financegoddess · 02/04/2026 08:19

Notmyreality · 02/04/2026 08:14

Because there’s a moon lander sat on it?

Because they have different objectives and want to explore a different area?

Because no-one landed on the moon in the first place!!

Notmyreality · 02/04/2026 08:14

Financegoddess · 02/04/2026 08:12

agreed!

Because there’s a moon lander sat on it?

Because they have different objectives and want to explore a different area?

LyndaSnellsSniff · 02/04/2026 08:14

The thought of being in space terrifies me. It's the vastness of it that gets me. When I'm flying, it's not the empty space below me that scares me, it's the empty space above me.

However, I can't help but become emotional watching launch and landing videos. I think it's all those people working together for a common goal. And being so passionate about it.

Financegoddess · 02/04/2026 08:12

swapsicles · 01/04/2026 22:28

Apparently they are searching out a landing space for future missions, why not use the last one...

agreed!

Notmyreality · 02/04/2026 08:11

keepswimming38 · 02/04/2026 03:14

I find it annoying tbh as we are struggling on the planet to stop war mongering and to get the basics right and yet we are doing fly byes of the moon.

You lack vision.

OhFuckyNell · 02/04/2026 08:10

just here to recommend Taylor Jenkins-Reid novel Atmosphere! This thread got me thinking about it all over again 😂

Notmyreality · 02/04/2026 08:09

Sminty2 · 01/04/2026 22:15

The mission is so carefully designed, planned and executed. Yes, it could go wrong but so can ordinary things.

If I had the smarts and the opportunity, I’d go too.

Good for them. Hope they love every moment.

Yes it’s well designed, planned etc but it’s still incredibly risky and orders of magnitude riskier compared to every day activities. The rocket is incredibly complex will a thousand things that could go wrong and cause disaster. And yet they chose to go anyway. Good for them.

BeardofHagrid · 02/04/2026 08:09

Not insane. Courageous.

notimagain · 02/04/2026 08:08

Pedallleur · 02/04/2026 06:58

Met an astronaut once on a ski holiday. Ex Marine Corps helicopter pilot, I asked him about sitting on a firework and he said he was an engineer and knew everyone involved in the launch. He trusted them with his life.

Good point.

Even nowadays a lot of the astronaut cohort come from a military flying or flight test background and so have a different take on risks to many people and probably better at rationalising it than most.

Someone mentioned the single Dad..that's Reid Wiseman and his background is Naval aviation, starting with flying F-14s off carrier decks.

It's probably debatable which is more dangerous..operating an F-14 with the support of one other crewmember or flying the SLS with all the overwatch from experts on the ground.

NeelyOHara · 02/04/2026 08:07

LittlePetitePsychopath · 01/04/2026 23:03

That seems unfair, somehow. He’s 50 with teenage daughters. His wife died in 2020. His daughters aren’t interested in space but didn’t want him to stay. They made him moon cupcakes to convince him to go! He spent 165 days on the ISS previously, so they’re used to him being gone.

I don’t disagree that a woman would probably be treated differently but in this case, I don’t think he’s doing anything wrong to go. I don’t think a woman would be either.

Edited

I wouldn’t risk orphaning my teenage daughters for anything. Seems extremely selfish to me tbh.

Notmyreality · 02/04/2026 08:07

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 02/04/2026 07:29

Absolutely. You've got to try to explore, push boundaries, look outwards.

Exactly.

Notmyreality · 02/04/2026 08:06

thinktoomuchtoooften · 01/04/2026 22:24

The cost is also madness imo. There are better things to spend millions (or is it billions?) on.

There always are and always will be,
which is why we should still do it anyway.
Poverty, homelessness, hungry children are due to lack of government will not lack of money.

speakout · 02/04/2026 08:00

Hulabalu is that a viable proposition though?
The barriers to homo sapien moving venue are immense.
Fixing things here on Earth would be far easier than setting up elsewhere, but there seems little appetite for that.
Our species is a blink in the eye in the great scheme of things. I would far rather make the most of the time and planet we do have, making our stay as comfortable as possible for everyone.

Hulabalu · 02/04/2026 07:55

dnac · 01/04/2026 22:25

It’s exciting watching the launch but I can’t help thinking that we’ve made such a hash of things on earth, why do we want to export that chaos to the beautiful moon and then onto Mars.

You’re essentially saying human race have made big mistakes so we should just let our species die out rather than begin work on finding future new home once earth no longer habitable? Maybe we should just all curl up and die for our mistakes right now 😀

speakout · 02/04/2026 07:55

I remember the first moon landings in 1969, it was a huge thing,

I would have taken such a mission in a heartbeat in my 20s and 30s.

But age, parenthood etc makes us more risk averse, more aware of our own fragility.

Even if nothing practical comes from such ventures then maybe it stimulates philisophical discussion about our place, our own planet gives an objective view if you like.
I think there is a shift away from ideas of invade and conquer which have influenced our own trajectory as a species and no longer considered virtuous. The Fermi Paradox suggests that other life on exo planets are simply watching - they have moved beyond the need to conquer and destroy.

One aspect that sticks in my throat is the cost. The return to moon project of which Artemis is a part is costing $90 billion dollars. That amount could feed over 100 million hungry people for a year, or build wells, bring education, healthcare and contraception to many people.

18 thousand children a day die from starvation on our planet. Given such a humanitarian problem we need to consider if Artemis is a wise expenditure.

Marcipex · 02/04/2026 07:53

I would go in a heartbeat.

Ovaryinatwist · 02/04/2026 07:50

Jc2001 · 02/04/2026 07:14

Half the technology that we rely on every day is a result of people taking risks and governments spending money on this sort of thing. If people didn't have that sort of gene which that pushes the boundaries like this we'd still all be living in the dark ages.

This, and if I was an astronaut, I’d go.

Pollyanna87 · 02/04/2026 07:50

We’d all still be sitting in caves if it wasn’t for brave men and women willing to take risks.

FastFood · 02/04/2026 07:48

I would go in a heartbeat. Even without being able to return. Although in that case I'd rather go and become one of Mars' first settlers.

TulipsDaffsAndSunshine · 02/04/2026 07:34

Tel12 · 01/04/2026 22:22

I couldn't help but think that we'd be wise to sort our planet out before go looking at the moon.

This 💯

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 02/04/2026 07:29

Jc2001 · 02/04/2026 07:14

Half the technology that we rely on every day is a result of people taking risks and governments spending money on this sort of thing. If people didn't have that sort of gene which that pushes the boundaries like this we'd still all be living in the dark ages.

Absolutely. You've got to try to explore, push boundaries, look outwards.

MyDeftDuck · 02/04/2026 07:15

I would go in a heartbeat! During a holiday in the States I visited Kennedy Space Centre and I was hooked!

Jc2001 · 02/04/2026 07:14

thinktoomuchtoooften · 02/04/2026 05:02

Hardly comparable

Half the technology that we rely on every day is a result of people taking risks and governments spending money on this sort of thing. If people didn't have that sort of gene which that pushes the boundaries like this we'd still all be living in the dark ages.

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