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How to stop gardening service

34 replies

Gardening11 · 01/04/2026 17:17

I know it’s not really an issue but I get so tense around these things. A neighbour 5 doors down recommended their gardener. I’m so stressed with doing everything as DH does nothing so I happily contacted her. It’s £37 an hour and she came last week for 2 hours. She did a great job and was a lovely enough person but handing over £74 was a little much but I just assumed all gardeners are around this price.

One of my other neighbours I was talking to today said that’s really expensive and they use one for much less and looking at my garden they said she hasn’t done a good job as vines are over hanging which could have been cut etc. I’m not an expert so just assumed she did a great job. Their gardener charges £25 an hour.

what would you do? The lady is going to contact me when she next in the area to book an appointment. What do I say? I feel really anxious about telling her I no longer want to use. I’ll be saving for much money by using the cheaper gardener who by the sounds of it will actually do a better job.

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AmandaHoldensLips · 01/04/2026 17:22

No need to feel anxious. Just wait until she contacts you and say thank you for a lovely job last time and I don't need any further help with the garden.

Gardening11 · 01/04/2026 17:22

On a side note is £37 an hour a lot for gardening? Just mowing, weeds etc. normal stuff

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Idontjetwashthefucker · 01/04/2026 17:21

WonderingWanda · 01/04/2026 17:20

If she's contacting you when in the area then just say, no thank you, I will get in touch if I need you again.

Perfect response

SarahAndQuack · 01/04/2026 17:21

She's only done one visit - I'd just say thanks, but you've had a think and decided you'd rather not continue with her. It's not rude after one visit, and you don't need to give any reason.

It does depend where you are in the country, but £37 is quite a bit. I'm a gardener and I know people who do charge that and keep a good customer base, but I don't think anyone would think you were a cheapskate for trying out a different option.

Gardening11 · 01/04/2026 17:21

Thanks both but I knew the price before I used her so I feel really bad using that excuse. I’m not confident enough to just say I won’t be using again without a reason

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Idontjetwashthefucker · 01/04/2026 17:21

Just send her a text, you don't owe her anything

WonderingWanda · 01/04/2026 17:20

If she's contacting you when in the area then just say, no thank you, I will get in touch if I need you again.

shellyleppard · 01/04/2026 17:20

Be polite but just say its too expensive. Thanks for the help,?

Ionlymakejokestodistractmyself · 01/04/2026 17:19

Just say I'm so sorry but we aren't able to work with you any more. You don't need to explain why.